Without LuvyDuvy's gentle interjection I would probably still be on a rampage.
It seems that there is great importance put upon the responsibility of the accused and very little value upon their rights in matters such as this around here. I find that unsettling. I find it even more unsettling that I am expected to establish my defense, but no one has been called to account for the accusation. The burden of proof is grossly misplaced in my opinion and I have more to say on that subject, but for now I am going to step away from all of this for a while. I am grateful that I can step away without making a financial sacrifice. It is my empathy for those who don't have that luxury that causes me to become so emotional.
Sincerely and with kindest regards,
~sweetness~
Originally Posted by Caitie Mae
Thank you for taking my words the way they were intended - does NOT always happen in cyberville.
Now - a word about your paragraph up there - "the burden of proof' 'you and not the accuser' 'importance of the responsibility' - again, some, rather a little emotion lingers - NOBODY is saying YOU MUST do these things. And no, it's not fair to you at all.
Why is it being suggested - again, not that YOU must - but it is a simple matter to get a free test and in 15 minutes be able to tell the BOZO that started this to STFU !!! It's easy, quick and definitive... End of Story!
(and another 24 hours and this will be over as a mod will surely RIP this thread.)
The accuser ??? will probably never stand up. And if they did, believe me - they would get reamed royally by a boatload of us... unless they could back it up, which obviously they cannot or they would have by now.
I heard this got started in the private ladies section - my guess is someone jealous of the CME - that is some hot stuff lady!
I'm out of pop corn - and quite full.