💌Do Hobbyst still enjoy Overnights & Dinner Dates??🚻

thrakattack82's Avatar
I have never done an overnight, but I do love dinner dates and enjoy the social connection before getting to the BCD
I don't hobby frequently, but when I do it's mostly been longer engagements of 8 hours or more. Personally for me being able to make a good social connection just goes to make the BCD time that much more fun. A 24hr visit is my absolute favorite. Come to think it's been well over a year since I've had a 24hr visit, I think I'm due for one.
SleeperHit's Avatar
Only with a provider I've seen multiple times already! The social interaction is nice and I like showing my appreciation too; sometimes it's part of the role-play.
Scribe's Avatar
I do everything...

(And I treat for Lobster, if you pick the right night!)

Scribe - the quintessential B.F.E.!
I do everything...

(And I treat for Lobster, if you pick the right night!)

Scribe - the quintessential B.F.E.! Originally Posted by Scribe
Fridays should be everyone’s favorite
pyramider's Avatar
I offer a 4 hour date that is 2 hours non bcd and the other 2 hours is bcd for 420

Great fun when the guy has time and is willing! A great icebreaker! Originally Posted by Analeese
I'm the perfect choice for a lunch/dinner date OTC then fun time back at my place or yours! Originally Posted by Alicia Lee
I'v have a few Regulars go to dinner with
off the clock.. Originally Posted by LustyBustyGina38FF
I enjoy dinner dates. Originally Posted by Willow Breeze
I offer a longer date, complete with a home cooked meal, wine or cocktails.
It works well for those that travel for business, single or widowed that get tired of eating out. Originally Posted by alaine

Dang, when did providers start eating food?
LustyBustyGina38FF's Avatar
what to get her done feed me or let me eat before our date ..


Dang, when did providers start eating food? Originally Posted by pyramider
pyramider's Avatar
Oh bull ... providers eating is like women orgasming ... urban myths.
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  • BLM69
  • 09-24-2018, 11:24 PM
I suggest playing first, nothing worst than going number 2 before play time
TheOracle's Avatar
Never quite understood why anyone would do this, but I guess ppl hobby for different reasons. If you have the time and are willing to take a woman out to a nice dinner then there's a plethora of women out there who will fuck you for no extra charge afterward. And you probably won't be on a clock either.
Scribe's Avatar
Fridays should be everyone’s favorite Originally Posted by Analeese
I HATE Fridays, although their "2 for $20" deal is OK, and their stuffed potato skins aren't terrible.
Ipthirteen1701's Avatar
I have had a dinner date with a provider once, before BCD activities. I'd been hobbying only about a year, but I'd seen her before and had a nice time. We went to a semi-expensive restaurant, which she suggested. She took advantage of the opportunity, told me she was starving, and ordered two dinners. She also had two double whiskeys before the meal. (I could have bought her a bottle of the good stuff for what those drinks cost.) She picked at her food and boxed it all up to take home. At least the date afterwards was unrushed and nice, but I spent way too much overall.

I swore off dining with providers after that, but I did end up going to lunch with another lady earlier this year. It was lunch, OTC after our midday session. No such shenanigans and we had a lovely time. I think I would enjoy an OTC meal with the right lady that I know fairly well, but this is not something that I would actively seek to incorporate into my hobby experience.
pyramider's Avatar
You might want to evaluate your search criteria a bit.
Most go to SA since they typically don't charge by the minute.

Plus I'm paying providers to leave or so I can leave. Naughty Nicole said it best. We were chatting and she said you're a hot guy, I get it. Where else are you going to fuck a hot girl and just get up and leave with no strings attached or anything else. Well said in my opinion. If I wanted dinner then I would take a non provider out.
I've done off the clock dinner dates with four different ladies followed by on the clock time together. And have also done movies, concerts, off the clock. It DEFINITELY makes the on the clock time seem more personal. But the thought of paying someone to have dinner with me doesn't appeal to me.

EDIT: Oh, I've also done off the clock trips to King Spa or Spa Castle with a few different providers. Some without even doing the on the clock activities. Sometimes a lady just likes to go out for an evening and be treated like a lady with no expectations beyond that.