Perfect Body vs. Erotic Mind

Before my 30's it would have been Body over Mind. Now it must be Mind over Body. This drastically cuts down on the pool of women available to me but it is what it is LOL!

Mind over body any day of the week. Originally Posted by GracePreston

Any way you cut it ... I am fucked.

Samantha Thom has both. I know. Kendall has the right idea. Of course, I'm partial to both.

Great topic! Looks are nice, but intelligence is just so much better if I had to choose. Talk geeky to me anyday. I can't promise I will be able to keep up, but I am happy to listen and try. An intelligent mind, someone you can have a conversation with and learn something new from is just wonderful! I also have a penchant for what I like to refer to as "engineer brain". People with engineer brain process things so differently than I do that it fascinates me. The ability to create and problem solve is just hot, hot, hot!

Anyway .. Not sure you meant to inquire from the ladies.

Sorry for the interruption..

If you're planning to spend only one hour of your entire life with this choice I could see how there may be a complete toss up considering how men by nature are very visually driven. However, if you are considering the quality of hours, days, weeks... the answer would probably not be the same.

I tried to Mind Fuck a provider once:

My version - I was the best she'd ever had
Her version - I suffer from pre-mature ejaculation

I tried to Mind Fuck a provider once:

My version - I was the best she'd ever had
Her version - I suffer from pre-mature ejaculation Originally Posted by ManSlut

Lol! Did you end it with telling her how pretty she was?

I'll be the first to admit that I love a little eye candy. Yet mind blowing sex is just not possible with body alone. A flirtacious lady who will get in my head, as well as my pants, is always my preference.

Lol! Did you end it with telling her how pretty she was? Originally Posted by Elysa Scott

No...I sensed she had a round two in her so I went the Comedy Route and when I dropped my drawers she began laughing hysterically, then I nailed her with how pretty she was and had a smoke on the balcony.

I'll admit it. Eye candy plays a big role with me. I am not making a donation to her so we can just talk. Yes, chemistry makes for a better session, but I am looking for providers who give me a boner as soon as I walk in the door. Maybe if I spent more than an 1/2hr or hr with them it would be different. I have girl friends in the civie world who I can just hang out with. That being said, I have been lucky enough to be able to see a few dallas providers and they have all been hott and fun to hang out with.

I love to be mind fucked!! lol Intelligence is crucial! Survival of the fittest would lead you towards a smarter woman.. but also a curvier woman..... So even evolution threw us a curve ball!

Body gets her noticed. Mind gets him back, over and over. Originally Posted by OldButStillGoing

Anyone can have a great body with diet, exercise and surgery...

Intelligence is hard to come by...
You can't fake that.

I am one of those who values what's on the inside and not the outer appearance.

I use to enjoy a good Mind Fuck!
However a deeper connection is what matters overall.

That's just sexy...Man or Woman.

Any way you cut it ... I am fucked. Originally Posted by pyramider

Don't worry dear-- there's something to be said about the charm of your 1.5 inches of dangling death

Grace, I thought of you when I saw this thread. There is nothing better than a great mind and attitude. But you have the body too!!

Just a couple of thoughts...
Is a truly "great mind" capable of being an "escort?"
IMO the whole idea of "paying" is to not become "attached" and if someone has a truly great mind and bangin body, I may be tempted to become "involved," not what I'm looking for in an escort.
Why would I even want to "do" a girl that doesn't have a bangin body and pay for it?
If a "great mind" is what I'm after, I am far more likely to find it somewhere other than on a hooker board... and it will be free.

Just a couple of thoughts...
(1)Is a truly "great mind" capable of being an "escort?"...

(2) Why would I even want to "do" a girl that doesn't have a bangin body and pay for it?

(3) If a "great mind" is what I'm after, I am far more likely to find it somewhere other than on a hooker board... and it will be free. Originally Posted by LickHer

There used to be a gal who advertised on Eros (or somewhere) who claimed to have a PhD in astrophysics. And she had a truly gorgeous physiognomy. And her rate was $25,000 per hour, four hour minimum. So I think that answers your first question.

Your second question is a fair one, but it reflects (perhaps) an inability to understand the wider range of male sexual impulses. The short answer to you personally is this: "You're the consumer and should never pay for a woman who doesn't have a body type that appeals to you." Be aware that both the range of female attributes and male interests reaches well outside the limited range of vision of those who pay to "do girls."

Lastly, pay attention to the original question. The OP wasn't asking about great body v. just-any-kind-of-great-mind, right? There are great analytical and scientific minds, minds that excel in religion and metaphysics, or music or art. Did you think that was what he was talking about? Why would anyone be asking that on a whore board?