Do you use a providers real name?

Use her real name. Otherwise, she never would have told you her real name in the first place. Revealing her real name to you is a signal of trust and friendship, so pay it its due respect. Originally Posted by StinkyFingers

Very well said. I have a small handful of clients I have been seeing during the entire time I have been providing, and they call me by my real name.

There is only one provider whos real name I know but I make sure I use her hobby name as much as possible becaue I am shit scared that if I get too used to using her RL name I may accidentally blurt it out in a situation where I should not.

The only time I felt I needed to know her real name is when I am stopped by the police. If LE thinks some thing kinky is going on they will separate you and ask for the others name. What should I do if I don't know my "friends" name? If I am stopped should we exchange names real quick? This could happen in the hall way of a hotel or any place. Several ladies that I frequent know my RL name as well as I know theirs. When I purchase a plane ticket I need her real name so there are cases where we need each others true name.

Yikes, ballers buying providers plane tix. I salute you

serio
I import only the best and the ladies are from all over. Houston is a frequent place for me and next month I will fly a lady in to Dallas so we can go break the Mann Act.

I'll use her hobby name, if that's how I met her. Sometimes I may not want to know her real name.

I prefer to be called my hobby name unless I specifically tell you I want you to call me by my real name. This is not the same as you asking my real name or it coming out some how and then you just start addressing me by it lol. This is a different "world" from my personal...going by a different name helps me open up, relax and be able to explore different or wild things...kind of like I get to be someone else and just have fun. When my real name is used; it's more personal and just kind of brings in my "real" life which I don't always like.

Think Batman, Superman, Superwoman...etc...they have the two seperate lives and go by different alias in each...in one they might be a professional person that lives a pretty low key life and as the other they might be wild and kickin ass lol If people started calling Batman, Bruce Wayne, when he was all suited up, would it be as exciting, sexy, fun and "limitless"? Nope, I think it'd tone it down quite a bit and Batman might not feel as empowered and able to do the same things lol.

I prefer to be called my hobby name unless I specifically tell you I want you to call me by my real name. This is not the same as you asking my real name or it coming out some how and then you just start addressing me by it lol. This is a different "world" from my personal...going by a different name helps me open up, relax and be able to explore different or wild things...kind of like I get to be someone else and just have fun. When my real name is used; it's more personal and just kind of brings in my "real" life which I don't always like.

Think Batman, Superman, Superwoman...etc...they have the two seperate lives and go by different alias in each...in one they might be a professional person that lives a pretty low key life and as the other they might be wild and kickin ass lol If people started calling Batman, Bruce Wayne, when he was all suited up, would it be as exciting, sexy, fun and "limitless"? Nope, I think it'd tone it down quite a bit and Batman might not feel as empowered and able to do the same things lol. Originally Posted by April_Showers

And, what if you told a client your real name ... No slip ... You just decided for whatever reason that you wanted the client to know your real name? Would you want that client to use your real name?

An AMP lady
In private I use her real name. In public where others can hear I use her 'stage' name

LMAO... I used to see this gdp for years and always used her stage name until we traveled one time.. wow her real name did not match her appearance.. so I continued to call her by her stage name... her real name make makes me laugh too much.. I always use my stage name ...I once had a stripper ask me if hotelal was my real name and I told her my first name was hotel and last was al.. so for the rest of the night she called me hotel...lol... gotta love these girls!!

Why not just ask her? That'd be the best bet.

"Hey (insert hobby name here), I know you told me you real name and I was wondering if you would prefer me to call you by that or by your Hobby name?"

Easy as that

LMAO... I used to see this gdp for years and always used her stage name until we traveled one time.. wow her real name did not match her appearance.. so I continued to call her by her stage name... her real name make makes me laugh too much.. I always use my stage name ...I once had a stripper ask me if hotelal was my real name and I told her my first name was hotel and last was al.. so for the rest of the night she called me hotel...lol... gotta love these girls!! Originally Posted by hotelal

Lmfao...