Try seeking a provider offering MSOG...this may help. Also take your time instead of diving in.Eva's advice is very good and probably the best! There are some very cool providers out there that will completely understand and even help you without any judgement. Sounds like you may be a young man so your issue will change as you become older, trust me!
Good luck hun and happy hobbying! Originally Posted by Eva Damita
Eva's advice is very good and probably the best! There are some very cool providers out there that will completely understand and even help you without any judgement. Sounds like you may be a young man so your issue will change as you become older, trust me!Thanks hun. Just as I'm sure you know, the second and third pops are longer usually, thus the first pop is just a mere prelude to the ensemble :-)
I'm the opposite, being older it takes a butt-load to get me off so I see providers that are cool with that!
Don't overthink it! Book MSOG and have fun!
Originally Posted by GoManGo
See your doctor. anti-depressants can slow down your time to climax. Some of them can make an erection hard to get or maintain.Thank you GQ - I think many are embarrassed to discuss this aspect. Because of my career I'm very familiar with drugs people take and HOW MANY people take anti-depressants. Sadly with many there's still a social stigma associated with being on anti-depressants. This bothers me because people are in pain and do not get help that is available for fear of what others think if they get help. Many are on them and MOST are not thinking of killing themselves, going on wild rants, or crazy.
Prozac is too strong for most and causes impotency.
Lexapro works nicely for many and helps with anxiety and mild depression and helps nicely with delaying orgasm. Originally Posted by Glenn Quagmire
OK...well try those 2 new options....then come see me. Originally Posted by alaineI really think Alaine is a great provider for those with these types of issues. She's VERY nice, non rushing, has a medical background and is mature enough to realize it's not her. I have some issues and LOVE time playing with ladies but seldom "finish" during a session. The younger providers always seem to think they're doing something wrong when in fact I have completely enjoyed our time but I have to spend quite a bit of time explaining it's truly not them, it's me. I'm at the point where I only like more mature ladies because they understand not every great session has to end with a physical climax - but don't get me wrong - it is pretty nice when that happens lol.
Thank you GQ - I think many are embarrassed to discuss this aspect. Because of my career I'm very familiar with drugs people take and HOW MANY people take anti-depressants. Sadly with many there's still a social stigma associated with being on anti-depressants. This bothers me because people are in pain and do not get help that is available for fear of what others think if they get help. Many are on them and MOST are not thinking of killing themselves, going on wild rants, or crazy.man this thread took a left turn quick... i'm far from depressed and dont need meds. Like i stated sex is fine w/ SO and people I know... its going in w/ someone new.
We've created a shitty world where people, are always working (thanks to email and cell phones), can't find jobs, divorced, single parents, have trouble making the bills, etc, etc. and need drugs to cope and one affect is sexual function or more likely, sexual disfunction. Originally Posted by EasyLover214