Newbie Advice

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One piece of advice, looks are not everything. I have had some amazing experiences with ladies that do not have a perfect body. And, I have had some porn stars where the experience was rather lackluster. Originally Posted by Mr. Candel

I could not agree with Mr. Candel more on this excellent point. I have had the same experience. Appearance, while nice, can never make up for skill, enthusiasm and performance.

I would add a bit more to this excellent advice. Consider a lady in the 40+ age bracket. I have almost always preferred ladies that are at least 35, and some of my greatest experiences have been with ladies from 45-60. Experience counts with providers too! IMHO this is particularly important for someone just starting out in this hobby. That way at least one of you will know what they are doing.

Easy and Mr. Candel are spot on...I prefer to meet mature ladies, preferably 40+ because they know what they like and treat me well. And looks are not everything - personalities and experiences go beyond what is "skin deep."

Good luck!

Welcome to our community! Such great advice from everyone, spot on! The only thing that I can add is to be active on the boards, engage in the threads. There are ladies who are newbie friendly. A meet and greet is always a good way to break the ice with someone new to the hobby, it has helped me. Be safe and have fun!

Look at my site... I have a newbie page that I wrote years ago... I had to update it recently but it will walk you thru the steps...

Enjoy and just remember to have a good time...

Welcome! My advice to you is always do your research, be polite, make sure who you are seeing is reputable, and never talk explicitly before meeting someone. Also practice good hygiene of course! You've opened up a treasure box filled with wonderful surprises you'll encounter! Good luck hun.