My first date, he was so sweet and it was passionate and slow and sensual...there was no place in our moods for spankings.
My second date, we had fun tapping...but nothing really hard...
My third date, we got a little rough, it was fun, fast, frisky and animalistic...so, this called for some hands to make some noise...I asked for it harder after he tapped. Some men like that...
BUT NEVER...under any circumstance SLAP A WOMANS ASS...hard without asking if she likes it.
When I ask for it...atleast even me out and do both...