GFE

All of the above plus for the full effect you also have to find something to complain about.

It should also include COF or COT but that wouldn't be a deal breaker for me.
Originally Posted by crmp0007

COF or COT is part of PornStar experience.

That's my opionion.

COF or COT is part of PornStar experience.
That's my opionion. Originally Posted by LeilaniBebe

I was about to say the same thing.

The erotic and carnal PSE differs from an erotic but more sensual GFE.

I am tempted to say that completion outside the cover is PSE, but there are a few in KC offering NQNS.

Rain, you mentioned you want provider of the year 2014. While it's not a declared title bestowed upon anyone that I am aware of, we will all judge our experiences subjectively.

The presence of light GFE when expecting full GFE service is rarely welcomed, but many successful providers have overcome the shortfalls of a CBJ. Expected is the enthusiasm and response of any provider.

Best wishes and hope you sort things out for a prosperous year ahead!

For the most part I would say charge what you are comfortable with. I will say I am personally less likely to see a girl that charges more for gfe because it is just a reminder that it is not personal. Originally Posted by bigryan222

I don't want to pay for a GFE encounter like I'm choosing it off a menu, and the provider can turn the GFE on or turn it off, depending on how many Benjamin's and Jackson's are in the envelope. Either a provider is GFE and she does it for everyone (and sets her rate, accordingly, if needed) or she isn't. Guys aren't that naive to not be able to see through the facade. Originally Posted by Wizard of Ahhhhs

Exactly! The point of GFE is to make me believe (for a moment) that she really does enjoy her time with me. You can charge extra for specific activities, but that doesn't make it GFE.

However, I am different from many of the the guys in that no one acronym makes or breaks the girlfriend experience. You can do CBJ and still qualify as GFE for me, as long as the attitude is there. I understand the desire to be safe, and if a CBJ means you are more comfortable and helps you have fun, that's fine.

All of the above plus for the full effect you also have to find something to complain about. Originally Posted by 1way2rock

Too funny, yes, if it is a true Girlfriend Experience, it must include leaving your clothes on the floor, asking if this dress makes you look big, or complaining why I don't like your mother or friend.....lol.

Topekarain, You would have to be crystal clear about that in your profile that GFE is extra, otherwise you are upselling. Just like bbbj or msog, if you do it for one guy and you dont charge extra, be ready for others to complain if you do charge extra for them.
I personally prefer a provider that is GFE, bbbj, and msog and all of that is already factored into the donation. I dont like upselling. Haggling over options reminds me of buying a car, and it quickly loses its appeal. Originally Posted by woody4eroticfun

I agree with Woody personally I stay away from providers that are limited GFE. I also feel the provider needs to be comfortable with the service she offers. If not it will lead to a negative experience.

What does that mean to you? Details, details, details! Originally Posted by topekarain

Girl friend experience. It means lfk,dfk, bbbj, and cfs. I really don't care how hot the provider is, if GFE isn't involved I'm just not interested. To me it means an experience that seems just as if it was an actual girlfriend that had sex because you spend money on them and put up with their bs.

I wouldn't offer it for an upcharge...either you are GFE or you are not. I stay away from providers that upcharge for it...my belief is they are not going to be in to it like the ones that only offer GFE.

Lots of girls advertise a non gfe rate and then a gfe rate that is higher. As long as it's known before hand I don't see a problem with it.

GPS

GFE is not easily defined as it depends on whether the client wants real GFE or acting GFE.

To treat a strange man as one would her actual boyfriend takes time and trust. Some providers are so damn good they can actually pull the GFE off with no problem for even a new client.

I would like to provide GFE some day but that would take time with the guy for a while before I would develop that level of trust to just relax and get it on like I would if he were my main dude.

Kudos to those ladies who can actually pull off GFE

Exactly! The point of GFE is to make me believe (for a moment) that she really does enjoy her time with me. ….

.... Originally Posted by KCQuestor

I think you nailed it.

For me this is more than just getting off. When I exit and drive home, I like to feel like I have found a new friend.

When I treat a lady nicely, I expect the same in return. Hurry up and get it over with buster doesn't mean GFE no matter what the activities.

JR

Lots of girls advertise a non gfe rate and then a gfe rate that is higher. As long as it's known before hand I don't see a problem with it. Originally Posted by Starry69

That means they can turn it off or on. The I can manipulate you is a big red flag. No thank you!

JR

I feel GFE is a total package. Not a list of things. It should be like back when we were all dating and there should be passion. There should be kissing (and a lot of it) It should be just like when we snuck under the high school bleachers and made out. It should be a fantasy that the real world does not exist for the time being and both parties are being fulfilled with lust and erotic satisfaction.

I think when you start itemizing the experience it is then a job not a pleasurable sensation.

...Hurry up and get it over with buster... Originally Posted by JRLawrence

Wouldn't some guys call that a Wife Experience, and not a GF Experience?!?!?

I feel GFE is a total package. Not a list of things. It should be like back when we were all dating and there should be passion. There should be kissing (and a lot of it) It should be just like when we snuck under the high school bleachers and made out. It should be a fantasy that the real world does not exist for the time being and both parties are being fulfilled with lust and erotic satisfaction.

I think when you start itemizing the experience it is then a job not a pleasurable sensation. Originally Posted by naughtynatale

+1