I know we had a somewhat similar thread about this before, but.....

Jules,

As a girl who I not only saw from BP but also hooked up with a pretty sweet deal on something you use on a regular basis, I'd expect you to be the last one to bitch about guys seeing BP girls of any sort.

The only reason I found you and saw you was due to Backpage. You weren't on here and from what I recall, you knew nothing about this site when you first moved here.

Many girls start out just like you did and some find their way here and some choose not to.

That group of girls where Jami works obviously know about this site and for whatever reason they choose not to post their weekly ads here they are their reasons.

But let's not try and put down anyone posting on other advertising sites. Originally Posted by LazurusLong

LL,

no need to get huffy with me! As you stated i had just moved here to texas when we met and i knew nothing of the boards. I was simply observing that this is not uncommon for b/p providers.

I had no knowledge of the girl being a v/p on this site, and actually i believe we met on cl not bp. I gave you a free session for the item in question so i think it was a pretty sweet deal for you as well.

I still advertise on bp from time to time so i am not putting down anyone who
uses bp i was simply stating that this is a chance you take when you see random bp girls. Like i said i did not know this was a well reviewed lady when i made my post!

So what do want the providers to say?

Yes it sucked you got NSNC. Did you consider the reasons why they did that?

Honestly you had plan C. That was really good, not every gent knows where to go for a quick fix. Better to have went to a guaranteed quick fix, than stay with a provider and get screwed over leaving with no money.

Not all of us NCNS people. Originally Posted by lisa.lisa0302

So let me turn the table...........Did you ever consider why guys NCNS providers? Oh , that is right, they get bashed in the powder room, put on a DNS list, and I am sure no other providers are running to a hobbyist's aid like these WK guys do for provider's nor do other hobbyists try to make excuses for why other guys NCNS.

This is why I ALWAYS have a plan C, D, and E........I should not have to have so many, because all the providers are so dependable and all, but when I want to spend my money and I want to have fun, that is what I want to do. All I wanted to do is find out from the providers is why they do what they do.

I had to stop reading to stare at your avatar, I would not mind watching her walk around in those thigh highs.

Yes I do consider why hobbyist NCNS, all the time, oh well their loss. Same goes for you, their loss and some lucky lady's gain.

Well if my hobby buddies was being bashed in public or in the ladies powder I would come to their aid, if he was right and wrongfully being bashed.

Well you didn't call me, not much to say there, I do not have any records of NSNC gents. And there you have it, you know at least one provider who does not NSNC.

NSNC is a funny thing, some may show up for one lucky lady and completely blow off the next.

You have a good day.
Lisa

So let me turn the table...........Did you ever consider why guys NCNS providers? Oh , that is right, they get bashed in the powder room, put on a DNS list, and I am sure no other providers are running to a hobbyist's aid like these WK guys do for provider's nor do other hobbyists try to make excuses for why other guys NCNS.

This is why I ALWAYS have a plan C, D, and E........I should not have to have so many, because all the providers are so dependable and all, but when I want to spend my money and I want to have fun, that is what I want to do. All I wanted to do is find out from the providers is why they do what they do. Originally Posted by bigdog0311

I had to stop reading to stare at your avatar, I would not mind watching her walk around in those thigh highs.

Yes I do consider why hobbyist NCNS, all the time, oh well their loss. Same goes for you, their loss and some lucky lady's gain.

Well if my hobby buddies was being bashed in public or in the ladies powder I would come to their aid, if he was right and wrongfully being bashed.

Well you didn't call me, not much to say there, I do not have any records of NSNC gents. And there you have it, you know at least one provider who does not NSNC.

NSNC is a funny thing, some may show up for one lucky lady and completely blow off the next.

You have a good day.
Lisa Originally Posted by lisa.lisa0302

very classy response girl!!

Bigdog,,,,,I am not suprised. I text Jaymi and Candace on Sunday and got no reply. Then on Monday got a text from both of them saying they were open and available. But after reading the comments about their new location I don't think I will be visiting them

You know, most ladies don't post NCNS alerts because they happen so often.

Ya know why? Because people constantly suggesting that hobbyists make a plan A-J.

So they make their plans A-J and plan C comes through. Ladies D-J are just sitting around left hanging. No explanation needed, apparently. See, the problem with making this list of providers 20 you contact on the chance that one will call you is that you have to leave others in queue wondering what happened?

Just last week, I was hanging out with a a provider who had 10 (TEN!!) nc/ns in one day. When guys were booking the appointments, after she screened them, I was like, "Do I need to bring you to your incall?" And she was like, "No... bring me when he calls and says he's around the corner. These guys never come through." And sure enough... they didn't.

With all the plan A-Q talk, wouldn't it at least be a nice courtesy to let the ladies who didn't make the starting lineup (plans A-C) know, "hey, I contacted another provider and you're my plan H. If someone ahead of you in line comes through, I won't be able to make it. Do you take short-notice appointments?" LOL sounds ridic, but at least it's honest.

I mean, I hate to say it, but this isn't uncommon. And these are screened guys... guys from this board... guys from P411... "famous" whoremongers... We just don't make alerts because the alerts section would be FLOODED with NC/NS alerts.

So if you think providers are quick to put nc/ns hobbyists on some mythical blacklist, you're mistaken. Occasionally, it happens, but for the most part we're more concerned about being robbery, assault and rape than if some guy couldn't send a courtesy call to let us know he can't make an app't. And the fact that he will nc/ns with one and not with another means alerting for every individual nc/ns would be pointless because most ladies will still book with a guy unless someone says something like, "he has nc/ns me 10 times."

Veronica,

Thanks for the perspective. My plan b is usually the AMP's, and I've often wondered what happens to other guys' plan b's and c's if plan A actually comes through.

I'm typically a short notice guy, and I've found booking an appointment for ASAP, while not without it's own limitations, greatly reduced the chance of NC/NS's and cancellations both on my end and the girls'.

I have to chuckle at this........because its true. Its kinda sucks hanging out with your provider buddy, seeing her phone ring, and no one shows up, no one bothered to call and say nothing. Well my thoughts are having one back up plan. However if plan A calls back, be kind and call plan B back. Don't leave her just hanging. Personally plan A should have picked up the phone or returned an email. She snooze, she lose.

You know, most ladies don't post NCNS alerts because they happen so often.

Ya know why? Because people constantly suggesting that hobbyists make a plan A-J.

So they make their plans A-J and plan C comes through. Ladies D-J are just sitting around left hanging. No explanation needed, apparently. See, the problem with making this list of providers 20 you contact on the chance that one will call you is that you have to leave others in queue wondering what happened?

Just last week, I was hanging out with a a provider who had 10 (TEN!!) nc/ns in one day. When guys were booking the appointments, after she screened them, I was like, "Do I need to bring you to your incall?" And she was like, "No... bring me when he calls and says he's around the corner. These guys never come through." And sure enough... they didn't.

With all the plan A-Q talk, wouldn't it at least be a nice courtesy to let the ladies who didn't make the starting lineup (plans A-C) know, "hey, I contacted another provider and you're my plan H. If someone ahead of you in line comes through, I won't be able to make it. Do you take short-notice appointments?" LOL sounds ridic, but at least it's honest.

I mean, I hate to say it, but this isn't uncommon. And these are screened guys... guys from this board... guys from P411... "famous" whoremongers... We just don't make alerts because the alerts section would be FLOODED with NC/NS alerts.

So if you think providers are quick to put nc/ns hobbyists on some mythical blacklist, you're mistaken. Occasionally, it happens, but for the most part we're more concerned about being robbery, assault and rape than if some guy couldn't send a courtesy call to let us know he can't make an app't. And the fact that he will nc/ns with one and not with another means alerting for every individual nc/ns would be pointless because most ladies will still book with a guy unless someone says something like, "he has nc/ns me 10 times." Originally Posted by VeronicaMoore

LL,

Like i said i did not know this was a well reviewed lady when i made my post! Originally Posted by Jules Jaguar

Nevermind

You know, most ladies don't post NCNS alerts because they happen so often.

Ya know why? Because people constantly suggesting that hobbyists make a plan A-J.

So they make their plans A-J and plan C comes through. Ladies D-J are just sitting around left hanging. No explanation needed, apparently. See, the problem with making this list of providers 20 you contact on the chance that one will call you is that you have to leave others in queue wondering what happened?

Just last week, I was hanging out with a a provider who had 10 (TEN!!) nc/ns in one day. When guys were booking the appointments, after she screened them, I was like, "Do I need to bring you to your incall?" And she was like, "No... bring me when he calls and says he's around the corner. These guys never come through." And sure enough... they didn't.

With all the plan A-Q talk, wouldn't it at least be a nice courtesy to let the ladies who didn't make the starting lineup (plans A-C) know, "hey, I contacted another provider and you're my plan H. If someone ahead of you in line comes through, I won't be able to make it. Do you take short-notice appointments?" LOL sounds ridic, but at least it's honest.

I mean, I hate to say it, but this isn't uncommon. And these are screened guys... guys from this board... guys from P411... "famous" whoremongers... We just don't make alerts because the alerts section would be FLOODED with NC/NS alerts.

So if you think providers are quick to put nc/ns hobbyists on some mythical blacklist, you're mistaken. Occasionally, it happens, but for the most part we're more concerned about being robbery, assault and rape than if some guy couldn't send a courtesy call to let us know he can't make an app't. And the fact that he will nc/ns with one and not with another means alerting for every individual nc/ns would be pointless because most ladies will still book with a guy unless someone says something like, "he has nc/ns me 10 times." Originally Posted by VeronicaMoore

I do not know about other guys, but when I say I have A-C plans, I do not set appointments with all of them, I set with just A and when/if she falls through for whatever reason, then I go to plan B and so on. And usually, if a provider is not plan A on a particular day for me, then my plan B provider would be my plan A on the next go around for me. But, I will not call and tell a provider that I would rather see someone else today, but if she flakes on me, will you please wait around and be my back-up plan? And if you ladies are dumb enough to agree to that, then you deserve what you get. Unless, you have seen this guy multiple times and know he, in your opinion, is good at his word, then you take a short, very little or perhaps no notice on his appointments from him.

Another reason, if a guy tells a provider that she is not just a number besides 1 today then he is not really the sharpest tool in the shed for saying something like that. I do not want a provider to look at me like I am anything but number 1 either.