Ladies with "less than perfect tummy areas", would you find it offensive if..

You don't tell a woman to cover her stomach area. LOL. That shit is just fuckin' rude and I'll hate myself for feeling like a tool.

I'm already ashamed at the fact that I'm paying for pussy but to be a demanding detailed "customer"? LOL, naw. At the end of the day she's a woman and not an object.

The reason why I mentioned that I'd want an unconfident insecure woman to cover her shit is because I remember in a strip club years ago my first encounter with a woman with a tummy larger than my liking but had a sexy face gave me one of the best lap dance/foreplay sessions in my life and she constantly pulled down on her shirt.

Yea you can Lisa ha ha. Some women stretch or don't better than others. I only gained in my tummy when I was pregnant, and have no stretch marks anywhere. Had some on my boobs at one point, but they seemed to have vanished. There are laser treatments that will fade them, and some cream my girl told me about that worked in less than a week. It was some kind of skin bleaching cream.

I get the whole fantasy thing,

Mommy marks happen, can't see really having a baby, without some scaring, c'mon, stretch marks, they appear when you gain or loose weight weight, you know that whole scarring thing. I just don't understand why ladies are punished for things out of their control. You can't prevent mommy marks. Originally Posted by lisa.lisa0302

Well, get with and have the man that knocked you up to love you unconditionally despite those marks. Those marks remind him of the pain she went through to bring the beautiful children of his into the world.

Not my issue...this is fucks for bucks. I see a porno bitch on my computer screen and fantacize about doing her, but can't, so the eros, bp, and eccie are my options. Keep in mind, it's that same fantasy desire for good sex that brings my hand into my wallet. I'm paying for something now...

Um didn't you have a premature, VERY low birth weight baby?

No, I was just throwing up 3 times a day up until the 8th month mark. I had to live on protein drinks, suppliments from the doc, and power bars but I did not just stop working out either. I was 40 weeks when I had her, and had to have a c section.

I have many friends who popped out 9lb babies and still have no stretch marks. My mom never did, and my brother was 10 lbs. Fatty lol. Some women have better skin than others....plain and simple. I know girls who gain 10 lbs. without being pregnant and get them, while others don't.

Hell, I'm always worried the provider is going to have a problem with my tummy...

Bwahahaha!

nobodies critisizing natural age marks here, just the dishonestly. obviously he was surprised by her "features", so i'm assuming she was deceptive. me personally, i don't want a skinny 19 year old. i prefer a woman more like me, over 30 maybe 40 with a kid or two. someone who's soft, comfortable, can talk to me, and knows what she's doing. but, i hate surprises! wish these women would just be themselves. the ones 2 that have made my "need to repeat" list were not perfect, they were themselves, just what i expected, comfortable in their own skin, and able to perform without apology.

LOL...this mutherfucker here!!

Hell, I'm always worried the provider is going to have a problem with my tummy...

Originally Posted by boardman

BP chicks may surprise you.

Some eccie chicks post pics of themselves 15 pounds ago

And yes, I was duped a lil recently and turned her over. squinted my eyes and concentrated on her hair as I imagined myself fucking a thinner sexier woman with the same hairstyle as hers.

I came.

Liliana's quote about a woman without confidence in herself: This is fucks for bucks; Not the Tyra Banks show. I'm paying you for a fantasy. Keep that "uplift everyone woman" shit back in the civilian world. Originally Posted by coefficient

Coefficient, nobody asked for the attitude. To keep my "uplift everyone woman" shit back in the civie world? Well since you want to be a rude bastard, man fuck yourself. Confidence is key in anything, including being a provider. You're paying for a fantasy yes, but she can tell you no and not have to see you. Keep that in mind.

nobodies critisizing natural age marks here, just the dishonestly. obviously he was surprised by her "features", so i'm assuming she was deceptive. me personally, i don't want a skinny 19 year old. i prefer a woman more like me, over 30 maybe 40 with a kid or two. someone who's soft, comfortable, can talk to me, and knows what she's doing. but, i hate surprises! wish these women would just be themselves. the ones 2 that have made my "need to repeat" list were not perfect, they were themselves, just what i expected, comfortable in their own skin, and able to perform without apology. Originally Posted by rharley

I'm not tripping or calling it "dishonesty" or "deception"

I think it is what it is. Sometimes in business you gotta use a little deception here or there to get that extra buck. Just don't make it blatant and obvious.

If I select a woman that doesn't have a plain and clear picture of her stomach area, it's always covered in corsett, or she's leaning a certain way, or positioning her stomach in a certain way, I know I'm possibly setting myself up for a less than stellar stomach. but hopefully there's some other features she has I can focus on that will make up for it. maybe she has a cute face, nice tits, or awesome headgame that'll shift the focus.

if the chick isn't showing her stomach area that's a reason for it. That's how they market and advertise. Can't hate them for that or call it "deceptive". As a consumer, you make a choice. ask them to take a pic of their entire stomach area and send it to you.

Coefficient, nobody asked for the attitude. To keep my "uplift everyone woman" shit back in the civie world? Well since you want to be a rude bastard, man fuck yourself. Confidence is key in anything, including being a provider. You're paying for a fantasy yes, but she can tell you no and not have to see you. Keep that in mind. Originally Posted by Liliana

Why would she tell me "no" and refuse my money?

My stomach is pretty much flat. I don't have abs. I currently go to the gym everyday and eat healthy so I prefer to be told the truth. However, I feel as though a lot of ladies will find it offensive.

Why wouldn't you want your provider confident in herself? You saw her pictures and knew what she looked like [to an extent] I'm assuming. It's extremely offensive, and in poor taste. Bad body image and self-consciousness is something that is a huge problem in women, and to wish that someone would feel bad about their body to want to cover it up is terrible. Originally Posted by Liliana

I completely agree. Very offensive. Everyone has their own opinions of others and themselves. I think every woman should be confident in herself. It makes her sexier.

Yea you can Lisa ha ha. Some women stretch or don't better than others. I only gained in my tummy when I was pregnant, and have no stretch marks anywhere. Had some on my boobs at one point, but they seemed to have vanished. There are laser treatments that will fade them, and some cream my girl told me about that worked in less than a week. It was some kind of skin bleaching cream. Originally Posted by London Rayne

I didn't get any stretch marks from pregnancy either. I also didn't get any when I went from a barely there A cup to a large C cup breast augmentation.

I've heard stretch marks have a lot to do with genetics.


As far as the original posters questions go, if any man were to say anything negative to me about my body, I'd just start complaining about his small penis. Yeah.

You'd have to be a real fucktard to point out a ladies physical flaws when you are paying her to give you something you probably can't get for free.

Now, if you show up to see a lady who advertises as being 120 pounds & when you show up, she's 160 & you have a problem with it, it's up to you to walk out or make the best of the situation. Go home or get laid. It's completely up to you.