While I agree she should not be offended, I disagree with your theory that she is swamped with gents. I think sometimes it's expected that we are all doing this as our sole means of income. Personally, I have a career that can sometimes prevent me from getting back to someone in a timely manner. I don't check my hobby emails and p411 when I am traveling with my job, for instance. I don't have the time to do it.
I do get back with everyone eventually. Some will be understanding and patient, others will move on. I'm not offended if they move on. I love my job and providing is very secondary; I provide for fun, and not making the hobby my sole means of income, keeps it fun for me.
Not all of us are sitting by the phone/computer waiting for an appointment! I know that can be really annoying, but there are also like 800 providers to choose from. ONE of them is bound to answer!
Originally Posted by Dannie
WOW Dannie,
I would not expect you to divulge what your personal career is, but I find it hard to believe that there is ANY reason other than "because I didn't want to" that you did not get back to someone within two days.** That is a persons right to feel that way, but that is not a "couldn't", it is a "wouldn't."
You site "traveling with your job" prevents you from doing it. Bus driver? astronaut? I am hard pressed to come up with any occupation that prevents you from returning some kind of correspondence within 48 hours.
My brother works underground quite a bit, and even in the mines they get i-net service in most places, and the "dead zones" are definitely less than two days apart.
Not all of us potential "clients" expect you to be sitting by the phone or computer all day, hell ya gotta fuck sooner or later, but no response to a business communication does not sit well with me at all BUT that is just my .02 not "law", just "opinion". And as for that "1", can I get a reference so you can save me "inquiring within" on the other 799?
** - barring natural disasters, extended power outages, jail stays
First of all, some women are not good at multi tasking or running a business the way it should be run...That is why you see so many ladies come into this business and they don't last very long, they thought is was going to be so easy... There is so much more to this than just laying on your back and making a quick buck!!! But back to the point, there is NO reason why it should take 2 days to get back to anyone.... I have a real job and I check and answer all my emails either on break, lunch or at my next break.. So in my opinion 2 days is to long to wait on any lady.... Move on to PLAN B, because there are a ton of lovely ladies out here that will respond to your email in less than 2 hours! Not 2 days!
Originally Posted by fawn
+1000 ..... I am so glad this was written by a provider before I said it.... and as usual, the lady said it better,
-PT-