Perfection??

I think it's necessary to point out things that are not accurate when advertising. Misleading things. A girl that advertises to be a spinner and has pics at all the right angles to make her look so and actually isn't - should be pointed out.
I do think these things should be pointed out in a respecful and cordial way, though. It should never be intended to insult but to simply inform people.
However, little blemishes here and there I don't think are necessary as long the advertiser isn't claiming to be 'perfect'.
Besides, I think if the service and attitude of the provider is good the little things can be over-looked. Originally Posted by Shayla

Agreed.

And to the OP, sometimes her imperfections make her perfect.

No one is perfect, and the sooner people come to terms with that the better off they will be. I know girls who have a panic attack if they get an 8 in looks on TER lol. Get over it!

Most of the ladies I see I would rate as very attractive (7.5) or above. A few have been high 9's, but I don't expect perfection nor do I need it. I will often not mention minor issues, but I won't do so if they are important to many hobbyists.

What I do need is cleanliness, good hygiene, attention to details (nice nails, hair and appropriate make up), good energy and a high level of attention. If I don't get those things it will be mentioned in the review.

I am very lucky that in the last few years I have only had good to excellent sessions. Maybe my luck will run out soon? I hope not.

If the lady has a beautiful mind and beautiful heart, any exterior flaws have no impact with me. There is more to this than just external appearances!

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+1 Shayla! What a perfect answer!

I have reviews that have pointed out the fact that I have 'some mommy damage' or a 'mommy's belly'...not a spinner but not a BBW has been posted a few times...

They have always been tasteful enough. Although I haven't posted pics flaunting my stretch marks and belly, I have always claimed to be a Milf, and don't deny it.

I feel as though pointing it out is a good thing, I don't want someone who is expecting perfection and then see me.... I am far from it and they would be disappointed. But, I have never had a 'cruel' posting about me either.

OK, I'll give a superficial answer. It depends how much I'm paying.

My nest of providers are 9s and 10s, and include current and former models. If a provider chooses to charge HDH rates, the standard to which they are judged becomes more stringent as opposed to the escort simply charging the "going rate" of the area. Don't get me wrong, physical appearance can sometimes be the least important attribute in how I judge a provider. Yet, if I'm paying 1K, I do expect model material to walk through the door.

the things i look for in a provider that i review on is
#1 her attitude and personality
#2 service...was it a good experience, did she rush through, did she txt clear through the appointment, ect
# 3 cleanliness... good hygene and appeareance clean room
#4 her appearance.... is she who she advertises to be bait or switch, is she a bbw but claim to be a spinner ect
#5 her ethics and honesty.... did she lie to me like i am stupid or something
#6 my over all experience


i dont worry about a few blimishes, or a mommy tummy(which can be very sexxxy) a pimple or a bruise or a scratch or little things im mostly conserned about the over all experience and did we have a great time or not. If we both had a great time then thats all that matters in my opinion.

Thats a great way to look at this subject.
When I look at an add I figure odds are the picture is the most flattering one she has. I have yet to meet one of those girls who "look better than her picture" I'm sure they are out there. Beauty for sure is in the eye of the beholder I'm sure if one of these 25yr old girls were picking I wouldnt be high on her list. I think perfect is out there I have met a few who I wouldnt change a thing about. They were perfect for me. Originally Posted by thisguy23

It is funny how sometimes personality changes your perspective. I have been with absolute beauties with no personality that left me empty, and I have also been with girls who just got better looking the longer I was with them. I choose carefully so I have never done a negative review, although one foolish girl screwed me over. I don't expect perfection, and I sure hope they don't expect it from me.

Most of the ladies I see I would rate as very attractive (7.5) or above. A few have been high 9's, Originally Posted by awl4knot

Yeah... I've never fucked a 10 either, but one night I fucked 5 2s.

The second they say yes, they are all 10'S! In my reviews I keep it real! Pimple on her butt... give me a break!

I think it's necessary to point out things that are not accurate when advertising. Misleading things. A girl that advertises to be a spinner and has pics at all the right angles to make her look so and actually isn't - should be pointed out. Originally Posted by Shayla

Exactly. If there's a disconnect between what you advertise and what we see, we're going to talk about it in our review. But the little things that Irish Vixen pointed out? For many of us, no, that's not an issue and won't show up in our reviews.

I remember, on the KC and Kansas forums, a provider that had pictures showing her with a smooth, clear face. When clients saw her though, she had an expanding pimple civilization up there. The reviewer promptly mentioned that difference.

A good rule of thumb is that there shouldn't be a major difference between your pictures and reality.