My hobby go bag is loaded with all the gear to provide a BFE.
A long, slow, massage with grape seed oil. . .dark chocolate and strawberries. . .chilled Asti. . .candles. . .music. . .
Not all ladies like to be pampered all the time. I think it is a matter of mood and circumstance. Nonetheless, my bag is always packed and I am always ready to treat them to a fleeting moment of bliss.