IMO I don't give my 'haters' or people that just plain don't like me the time of day... If someone is a drama queen/king or is messy, I let them be messy.. that's their choice but I'm not gonna get involved or get in a pissing match..
Posting specifically about someone makes it look like they're really on your mind or they're able to get under your skin so much that you dedicated an entire thread to them. You should never give your haters that much satisfaction.
I don't try involve myself in mess and if I see someone is trying to start with me or drag my name through the mud, I speak my mind once about it and address it.. After that they're just talking to themselves and I could really care less.... More people should think this way & there would be a lot less drama
Just my .02... Carry on