Providers asking for donations/sessions

maybe their pimps or "s.o" is putting the heat on and forcing them to do this, i for one would rather be broke than to beg for appts. i see it in chat all the time and its pathetic and sad. LADIES DESPERATION IS NOT SEXY!

stop begging ladies!!

have i had bad days and been tempted to ask for help? yes! but as you can see the men dont find it sexy or a turn on!

its called pride use it

This is a market place. I see it as a friendly open mall of sorts. But when this kinda stuff happens it's like being hounded on the street in Jamaica by every single guy who is selling stuff.

If I want what you got, I will call, if I don't then I won't. It's really that simple.

Sorry TexAss I know what you mean and its from one certain provider and it is really getting old. I saw her once and now its like a non-stop PM's to come see her because she is broke. I have in the past helped out girls, but only when they make a public cry for help and not when they send me a text or PM and there situation is verified by other providers.

Thank you Tara and Ivy....and I'm sure many others.

Hey Tex, don't feel like the Lone Ranger. I am single but there are only a select few that I am comfortable enough getting a message from and its to catch up. If a visit comes up I am the one who initiates it. Good Lord! You don't know me, who knows where I may be or what I'm doing at the moment.

Times are rough for most of us, except RR driving Tex, any other harassment ain't welcomed. I thought discretion was a big part of this deal?

Tex, know what you mean. I have had it a cpouple of times as well.

This should be "provider 101" required reading. Heck it should be required for "provider 401" because this sort of thing sure isn't limited to the "newer" girls.

I know the feeling well. We can lament the virtues of this being strictly business all we want. But when a lady who's given you some good times hits you with puppy-dog eyes and makes it apparent that shits gonna hit the fan unless you help out...well there will always be a big hearted sap like me who will help out.

Some things to consider;
Guys-If she's asking for pre-pay. Don't give more then you're willing to lose.
Gals-The mark of a true lady is repaying her debt in a timely fashion.

maybe their pimps or "s.o" is putting the heat on and forcing them to do this, i for one would rather be broke than to beg for appts. i see it in chat all the time and its pathetic and sad. LADIES DESPERATION IS NOT SEXY!

stop begging ladies!!

have i had bad days and been tempted to ask for help? yes! but as you can see the men dont find it sexy or a turn on!

its called pride use it Originally Posted by Jules Jaguar

Yes Jules we do see that in chat all the time.. one reason I do NOT chat in the room but am available to chat with. I find it really sad when the mass pics start flooding, one here and there is no big deal. Watching men drool like high school teenagers is also non-attractive. Being a gentlemen even if someone isn't your type is much more attractive.

Contacting a gentlemen is pretty tacky, I'm learning to let some know when I travel because they aren't always checking the board for ad's etc. I just can't be a whiner tho.

I'd love to barter for some body sculpting at some point but have a hard time speaking up to those who might be able to help.

Does anyone believe that texting/calling/emailing a client saying "they're available" or "come and see me" is another way of a provider soliciting for business or money - maybe in a less obvious way?

I've received unsolicited texts from a few providers that I've only seen once and they asked me when I was going to come see them again? In the back of my mind, I assumed they needed the money at the time. It could be a wrong assumption. If I see a girl regularly and we communicate frequently, I don't mind the contact.

A real emergency?--only you can decide. But what's wrong with exchanging services for coin of the realm?

To me, a "come do me" text or phone call is in a completely different league than what I was referring to in my original post. (As long as the girl has been told by the client it is okay to do so. That is a good way to get in deep shit at home for us married guys.) I don't mind those nearly as much but would prefer it to be a rare occasion.

What I'm sick of is the blatant begging for sessions or asking for money via PMs on this web site from those who have not spent a single second with me in the sack. It might be different if I had some history with a girl and she asks when down on her luck, but this is not the case. It's rude, gets really old and I can assure you there is no quicker way to be scratched from my list permanently.

I'm glad to see I'm not the only one tired of this. It's also great to hear some of the fine ladies chime in on this subject. Makes me want to snuggle up next to them and thank them properly for being so classy.

To me, a "come do me" text or phone call is in a completely different league than what I was referring to in my original post. (As long as the girl has been told by the client it is okay to do so. That is a good way to get in deep shit at home for us married guys.) I don't mind those nearly as much but would prefer it to be a rare occasion.

What I'm sick of is the blatant begging for sessions or asking for money via PMs on this web site from those who have not spent a single second with me in the sack. It might be different if I had some history with a girl and she asks when down on her luck, but this is not the case. It's rude, gets really old and I can assure you there is no quicker way to be scratched from my list permanently.

I'm glad to see I'm not the only one tired of this. It's also great to hear some of the fine ladies chime in on this subject. Makes me want to snuggle up next to them and thank them properly for being so classy. Originally Posted by TexAss

I understand. I've never received a PM from anyone asking for money or a session. I had no idea providers were doing that. It puts people in an awkward position.

Yes Jules we do see that in chat all the time.. one reason I do NOT chat in the room but am available to chat with. I find it really sad when the mass pics start flooding, one here and there is no big deal. Watching men drool like high school teenagers is also non-attractive. Being a gentlemen even if someone isn't your type is much more attractive.

Contacting a gentlemen is pretty tacky, I'm learning to let some know when I travel because they aren't always checking the board for ad's etc. I just can't be a whiner tho.

I'd love to barter for some body sculpting at some point but have a hard time speaking up to those who might be able to help. Originally Posted by TheHorseTrainer

+1 THT, I guess it's ok if you allow it. But should you have to say it to everyone? Some may get offended only bcz they know better. So I'l play that card when I need it. I'n my opinion your hobby radar will tell you everytime, and yes that can be annoying. Some hobbist offer to pay various bills on top of session. This is proof from threads started. Never happened to me but I know it goes on just as sharing ROS. This we cannot stop.

THT, JJ, and anyone whom I've had contact with before on first time meeting this does not apply to you. Call me anytime with traveling info. It's very much appreciated.

I have sort of an emergency... My usually limp cock is now erect... Are there any ladies out there who wouldnt mind giving me a free session ? I could pay you back in a week or so, or at least after the first of the month...

I get hit on Chat for sessions. It kinda flatters me and yep, I know what is up with the veiled ( at least somewhat ) inquiries of " how are you doing sweetie ? " or " I am in town now " leasding statements. It really doesnt bother me. Good salespeople.

But really, any of you ladies feel ok about giving me a piece for free ?

Let me know...

OMG crashkopf! I only wish I had available time to help you out with your problem darlin' but my schedule is full today!

POOR BABY!!!

As Wimpy used to say "I'll gladly pay you Tuesday for a hamburger today"...