whats wrong with BP?

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All good advice for you. Nia s advice on checking references is critical. For a new provider, I think an ad on bp is more likely to bring in bad situations for you, then eccie. 411 is probably safest for you. I think the point is, if you use bp youd better screen really hard.
Haven't been active very long, but started with BP girls. Some guys like to see different girls all the time. I am more relaxed seeing a regular. Scheduling is harder that way, but you have absolutely no safety issues. It also can be a problem with references, Since I don't see very many different girls, giving a reference can be tough for the provider to verify/contact

When your regular is not available, you can find gr8 providers on BP. Most of the good tips have been repeated on this thread. Many talk about research. My how to on that is
--google the number- if not linked to reputable review sites, forget it. Lots of time we all use new numbers, if a provider changes her number, just a warning sign to me
--tin eye her photos- many providers and all LE use pics in BP ads that you find all over the net,
--If you don't find her on p411 or here, forget about it. I have been suspicious and said on the call to set up, "Lets be OK, nothing personal, but if I show up and you are not the lady pictured in the ad, I'll pass" An honest provider won't mind, LE will bend over backwards to convince you they are real, and the bait and switch provider will hang up.
Someone above mentioned that if the provider or reviewer is flaky- the bad providers and those with aggressive management will create profiles and have fake reviews. If you read many reviews, you can easily spot them.
Bottom line is you need to have a very high comfort level. If anything at all is out of the ordinary or spooks you, forget about it
Getting a nut off is not worth being the victim of a crime or charged with a crime
Do you see provider's on bp? Yes, no and why? Originally Posted by topekarain
I don't see why a reasonable person wouldn't.

Once upon a time we used to have to pick between Pitch ads and the yellow pages.

Kind of makes me miss the days when there were "services". They used to buffer flake providers and flake clients. The bonus was if you were a good client, if you got a dud provider, you'd probably get a re-do.

Kind of miss those days...