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I agree to most of what JD said minus the agenda part. I screen clients for a number of reasons: do they hurt or beat up girls, do they pay donations correctly, do they have good hygiene and are clean, are they really who they say they are (not Le, a rapist, a jealous SO, stalker). I screen and will always screen..to me if a lady does not screen she is putting her safety at risk as well as yours. If she lets just any guy see her she risks opening the doors to a stalker, an angry SO, or worse LE. Then when you come to see her now your safety is at risk. She could have some crazy guy around watching and showing up at her place. This now opens the risks to someone watching the traffic at her place, seeing who goes in and out, how often, what car they drove and license plate info. An angry SO can do the same as well. As for LE as long as you screen you will be fine but once there in your basically screwed.. She would be busted and would prob be someone who now would be watched closely. So when you stop by you can be watched as well. I screen because I want to be safe and want the people I see to be as well. We already deal with enough bs and drama in our personal lives and this is supposed to be a place to relax and let loose, but when someone's safety is compromised it messes with everyone here. In the 4 years that I have been on the boards I have always screened have never had any problems with my safety or having any one not give me information pertaining to screening. As long as you stick to well known ladies with great reputations then everything will go smoothly. Remember discretion is just as important to us as well. We sometimes have more to lose. Good luck.

What is basis for this opinion? I see it a lot, and I'm curious why you feel that way.

... Originally Posted by JohnBrown7

Some of the more experienced hobbyists usually adopt this strategy as further risk mitigation. In other words, ladies who DO have agendas normally won't screen. (Some will read this statement as 'ladies who don't screen have agendas.' I did not intend that and apologize if some took it that way.) You are right. Some ladies do not bother to screen. Good or bad, that's the way it is. And yes, you've been lucky. But some men feel that their luck will hold out longer if they see ladies who make a regular practice of screening. Of course, I'm only talking about ladies you might see who are first-time for you. If they don't screen you, just be sure to give some thought as to why. That's all.

My experiences parallel JB7. Rarely get "screened" except in the small talk before the session. Maybe its because I fly with a lot of UTR ladies. You can play without giving personal info. Just have to find the right ladies.

You might want to give SweetLisa a ring. She is newbie friendly and well known here.

http://www.eccie.net/providers.php?do=view&id=12189

Plus she is a fun time.