There's quite a few ladies that travel to Austin. Are you looking for kinky fetish play or more of an s&m type deal, light bondage?
What are you into, or when you think "kink" what comes to mind?
Not all Dommes are harsh, some are sensual.
Not all Dominant encounters are cbt, nails and pain... Its more so about letting go and allowing a power exchange. ( not always whipping slapping nails in your cock type deal.) unless that's what you are into...
I know i've heard great things about DD Mcgee & Athena