Then stick to streetwalkers who don’t care about a connection. Don’t assume every guy feels that way. The huge majority of guys want to have a cocktail and get to know one another a bit. As long as a girl isn’t a clock watcher and is reasonable in her donation.
Oh, yeah, but this is Dallas...never mind.
Originally Posted by Michelle ma Belle
I get what you're saying Michelle and I agree with it. Most guys & gals do want to establish a connection first, especially when meeting for the first time.
However, some providers take advantage of that and try to spend most of the time "establishing that connection" so they can spend less time doing BCD activities. Like spending half the session watching TV with your client when you know damn well that he would rather do something else with you.
I met a provider years ago who screwed me over like that. I had scheduled a 1 hour session with her and she spent 40 minutes just rambling about her life problems to me. How she introduced a gal to the hobby and this gal stole from her & ran away. How she met Ron Jeremy in Texas. Yadda Yadda Yadda. I indicated several times to her that I wanted to move on but she didn't care. Then, in the last 20 minutes, she hurried me because she had someone picking her up to take her to Walmart.
There are a lot of great providers but there are definitely some horrible providers out there too who've mastered the art of time wasting. I don't mind spending 10 or 15 minutes getting to know a provider in a 1 hour session but not more than that.