Somebody Help me Understand!!

"Available Now" can have two definitions in my view;

1. Available to see someone NOW. Yes, some providers actually go to their incall for a set period of time (ie: 10-4) and are actually available to take calls during that time. This is the most effective way for a provider to make a solid income, but only a few do it this way, unfortunately.

2. Available today, but Available NOW to discuss a booking time. This is the more common use, unfortunately. I think it's still an appropriate use of the Available Now board, while I don't like it as much as 1.

As far as policing the use of the board to eliminate those who abuse it, I'm open to suggestions! I just have no idea how I am supposed to figure out who is truly available now, according to the two scenarios listed above. I do ask clients to let me know if there is a provider using the board in another manner, so I can address the issue with her.

I realize what we have going isn't perfect, but I can tell you that we work very hard each and every day trying to make the site better. Your input and feedback is always welcome.

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Gina Originally Posted by GinaXXX

Thanks for the reply, Gina. I agree definition 2 is, by far, the more common usage...especially by Houston escorts; when definition 1 is the case it is usually a visitor holed up in her hotel room. IMO definition 2 should be eliminated. Available now should mean available now, not now booking.

I only post in the "available" ad when I'm available to see someone at that given moment. I agree with NM, EVERY provider has different TCB skills or none at all... chalk it up to the hobby game. ^^^ DocHolyday, you make very good points. LOL

I'm personally never available at "anytime" I need at least 2 hours advance notice.

Originally Posted by Natalia Mori

I heard the is a special "be there in thirty" if they agree to meet you at Saks Fifth Avenue


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I realize what we have going isn't perfect, but I can tell you that we work very hard each and every day trying to make the site better. Your input and feedback is always welcome.

Always,
Gina Originally Posted by GinaXXX

I traveled recently and used the available now feature. The first one i hit up (first choice) replied back fairly quickly....telling me she was all booked up for the night.

Worse.....she stayed on the available now list for several more hours.

The others i hit up didn’t reply until the next day or more.They clearly weren't available.

So a total waste it was......

The available now option stays up in 1 hr increments, there is also a remove ad option so if you book with someone immediately, you can remove your post. If I post an available anytime, then I usually am, does that mean you are automatically coming over? No, I still need to look at your references and if I see you're on Eccie, I will look at your reviews to see if I think we would be compatible. If I see you've seen all 20 something spinners, then it will lead me to believe that I may not be for you, but if that happens I will point it out and then leave it up to you. Also, when I just scan your review list OP, you seem to have a pattern of hostile sounding no's, which is a red flag to me and many other ladies. That being said, I don't expect everyone to have all yes reviews, but there is a nice way to say someone wasn't your cup of tea and then there''s a mean, rude or hostile way. Most don't want to roll the dice and see someone who in all likelihood is going to turn around and write a negative review after we've tried our best.

I can't tell you the number of times I've seen reviews slam someone where they scheduled a half hr at a bargain rate and then listed a full alphabet of activities done & I'm thinking to myself, "Wow, what more do they want? Lol" This is why many ladies don't offer shorter visits, but that's another topic.

Anyway, I hope you have better luck next time you're looking, I think scheduling in advance is probably your best bet. Another thought, maybe you are saying something inappropriate in your initial message? Some ladies will not even bother responding if a gentleman asks 101 questions that are either clearly in their profile, or on their website.


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The butthurt with the OP runs very deep.

All that time spent by the OP bitching about the whores who didn't reply to him in a timely manner....he could have channeled that energy into finding a different whore to go fuck.....ijs.

"Available Now" can have two definitions in my view;

1. Available to see someone NOW. Yes, some providers actually go to their incall for a set period of time (ie: 10-4) and are actually available to take calls during that time. This is the most effective way for a provider to make a solid income, but only a few do it this way, unfortunately.

2. Available today, but Available NOW to discuss a booking time. This is the more common use, unfortunately. I think it's still an appropriate use of the Available Now board, while I don't like it as much as 1.

As far as policing the use of the board to eliminate those who abuse it, I'm open to suggestions! I just have no idea how I am supposed to figure out who is truly available now, according to the two scenarios listed above. I do ask clients to let me know if there is a provider using the board in another manner, so I can address the issue with her.

I realize what we have going isn't perfect, but I can tell you that we work very hard each and every day trying to make the site better. Your input and feedback is always welcome.

Always,
Gina Originally Posted by GinaXXX

Not sure of how to control abuse, but how about afdi g a section for a s to comment of our intentions. Such as available now to start screening 2 hrs in advance or something like that.

Thanks for the reply, Gina. I agree definition 2 is, by far, the more common usage...especially by Houston escorts; when definition 1 is the case it is usually a visitor holed up in her hotel room. IMO definition 2 should be eliminated. Available now should mean available now, not now booking. Originally Posted by Don T. Lukbak

You do have to understand that there is a screening process. For me personally, p411 is supplemental. I carry the rest of my screening on my own. So time to do this is essential. I would never just text someone " oh yeah I'm available now, go ahead and come over" or something like that. Any verification process takes time.

i have also gone through the same situations couples of times.
sometimes even worse when after setting up appointment, provider stops replying when i am about to leave and ask her for address.

I am pretty sure ladies here have gone through same situation with many men.

i personally dont like to book with multiple ladies for the same time and choose one at the last moment. (though when i get trolled i wish i should have )


bottom line there is no way of knowing who will be trolling you. (for both sides)

You do have to understand that there is a screening process. For me personally, p411 is supplemental. I carry the rest of my screening on my own. So time to do this is essential. I would never just text someone " oh yeah I'm available now, go ahead and come over" or something like that. Any verification process takes time. Originally Posted by sexy.princess

Imagine some mutt who's been on the P411 since 2006 and has 116 okies, mostly from la creme de la creme escorts. Further imagine, if you will, that for some inapprehensible reason he asks to spend some time with you. What further screening do you think you would need to do in this case?

^^^^^ Lukbak.....maybe you didn't know,....but she requires positive i.d. through a government issued i.d. card like TDL yadda yadda.

^^^^^ Lukbak.....maybe you didn't know,....but she requires positive i.d. through a government issued i.d. card like TDL yadda yadda. Originally Posted by GlobeSpotter

She specializes in fucking fools?

Imagine some mutt who's been on the P411 since 2006 and has 116 okies, mostly from la creme de la creme escorts. Further imagine, if you will, that for some inapprehensible reason he asks to spend some time with you. What further screening do you think you would need to do in this case? Originally Posted by Don T. Lukbak

Well, she may be doing what I do, and that is to ASK the last couple of ladies giving Okays if there is anything special I should be aware of? Takes a wee bit of time to get a response.

Doing this has saved me plenty of problems, and probably prevented a few fellows from making the wrong choice in playmate. The most recent lusty lass may have been "his type," say a plump and older redhead, but a freaky fetish provider, while I'm a vanilla GFE, or she may have been a mature matron fine with a fellow wanting a mommy fantasy, while I would run from that.

Heck, one time a lady who actually NOTICED my strawberry allergy alert warned me that the guy requesting a same-day appointment practically bathed in the red berry, was sucking on a strawberry smoothie when he arrived at her place. I contacted him and turns out he liked strawberries so much he had them every day and had just polished off a bowl for dessert at lunch. I had to cancel, even though this critical medical advisory is prominent on ALL of my profiles. The end result of a certain oral activity (and possibly even DFK if he hadn't brushed and rinsed) may have caused a severe reaction, so the lady likely derailed my trip to the hospital as I was out of EpiPens!

Well, she may be doing what I do, and that is ASK the last couple of ladies giving Okays if there is anything special I should be aware of? Takes a wee bit of time to get a response. Originally Posted by Fancyinheels

If that's the case, then you wouldn't be advertising in the "available now" section would you? This thread seems to be focused on that section, its uses and abuses. Anyway I don't recall ever seeing your listing there.