I bet someone probably decided to TOFTT and when he got there and saw her decided to increase his time. Shit if I agreed to a half hr and I showed up and she was the chick from the pics I'd spring for a hr
Originally Posted by August Black
I absolutely agree with you bud. But also remember some guys find it a turn off with a chick that uses her phone during an appointment. As I'm sure you also noticed the provider cupboard is bare. A chick that hot has her phone going nuclear. Again not justifying it but it gets hard to keep up with for some of the texts and calls; plus allegedly they're only 21
Originally Posted by August Black
the hobby gods (yes I said hobby gods) have a way of righting things. Personally I think you're set up for a redemption story. She might try to make it up to you or you end up saving your money (but unfortunately wasting time) but also having a way better experience with someone else. Always have a backup or two. It might be messed up if you don't end up going to them but the ultimate mission for us guys is to get laid. This shit comes with the territory but the gods usually balance the scales.
Originally Posted by August Black
No ones making excuses for her but if you can show me a provider that young that has mastered the art of communication and setting up and maintaining appointments then I can show you 50 who can't. Instead of even suggesting that some real world issue came up you're quick to call her out on being rude and inconsiderate of ones time because I guess a provider doesn't do anything but sit in a room all day waiting for a monger to stop by. If you don't wanna extend an appointment with a guy because of an confirmed appointment after you then that's good for you but that's courtesy and not some law. But then we are subjected to posts about how much time it takes for chicks to get ready between sessions......but the guy who's already in your room and has already payed you wants to go longer and doesn't give a shit about your smeared makeup but you tell him no to spend time getting ready for the next guy.....
Yes time wasted can never be regained but if for a example a provider had to rush to the hospital for a family member who just got into an accident do you really think she's texting all her appointments on the way there or even in the waiting room saying hey grandmas in an accident I have to cancel............
Originally Posted by August Black
There could have been endless possibilities as to why she NCNS.....none of which you mentioned or alluded to. Your original reason for posting was to call out her business etiquette and ultimately scold her and also to point out that the guys were giving her a pass because she's hot (which was incorrect). A couple valid points were raised as to why she possibly didn't respond and I decided to mention the RW potential issue and you doubled back. Surprising, because I thought a provider would have at least initially tried to defend her or offer a potential reason instead of coming off as some stern parent.
Originally Posted by August Black
I'm confused.......you're not defending her?
T'Pol
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