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Frankly, I'd write a full review. Originally Posted by AlbusMilitis

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He told us what happened or is it didn"t?.. What else is there?
Frankly, I'd write a full review. Originally Posted by AlbusMilitis
About?? He told us what happened or is it didn"t?.. What else is there? Originally Posted by malwoody
There's all of those Copter BCD/ROS details!!
Talk about drama Copter!! nYes write the review,why not?????

I think 99.9% of guys would have dropped her like a hot potato after "the police were knocking on her door"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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He told us what happened or is it didn"t?.. What else is there? Originally Posted by malwoody


He told us what happened or is it didn"t?

Sir,

Just what i was thinking.
We find ourselves in agreement again.

JR
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He told us what happened or is it didn"t?.. What else is there? Originally Posted by malwoody
Perhaps a name.

But after I posted the CPT cleared that up.
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  • JS42
  • 05-01-2015, 05:34 PM
You've been played. Write a review and hopefully the mods will attach it to her review history. There should be a record of this as a warning to other guys.
Who was the provider?
Sounds like she's taking you on a ride man. I'd chalk it up as a loss and move on Otherwise you'll be looking forward to a promised 6 hour session only to have her abducted by aliens or some shit.
from a providers standpoint, you probably should've just kept your mouth shut....trust & discretion are key in this industry & you running your mouth is going to toss any trust she had in you out the window. While I'm sure it's highly frowned upon, it's not always a bad thing that a provider falls asleep with you present; to me that means she's comfortable enough with you to allow herself to be vulnerable....as far as the cops go: she was smart enough to know she didn't have to legally answer the door...are either of you in any kind of trouble from it? No? Then consider it a close call and be more cautious...just my .2
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Blame the guy who saw her before you as he must've dicked her down so good the bitch fell asleep - nap time!

Or it could be that she fell asleep for the reason covered by sillysweetheart but it's not within your control either way.

The investment in time & money ideally results in your pleasure, but this post seems like you keep trying to allow her to make up for the last disappointing time. Cut your losses if you don't think she'll make good. Don't throw good money after bad.
Masqurade's Avatar
If it has been two weeks since she saw you and you know that she is out and doing everything else but ignores your texts, then it think there should be a review mentioning what has happened.

I would say in these situations give them a 10 days or so at max and still getting no response we need to mention in public so these kind of behavior will not happen again.

But question is are you sure she is out and well and good and doing business as usual..???
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As a provider myself, I would expect the guy to write a review about the experience or put the info on the board and have people PM me for the rest of the info.
This is my business and it is up to me to act like a professional, I would never pay my doctor if I went to see him and he fell a sleep while I was talking to him and I would tell everyone not to see him.
In my opinion if she is falling asleep and cops are knocking there is something else illegal going on that I personally would not want to get caught up in.

OP take it as a lesson learned and run don't walk as fast as you can.
Masqurade's Avatar
Agree 100% with Lady Y..

Anyway Copter you have put the message in Coed so its thru to her and i hope if she has any truth she swill send you an apology and make up for the lost.
As you did not mention the name you still did not break anyone's trust.

Ball is in that providers court..
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  • Cleo
  • 05-04-2015, 11:09 AM
from a providers standpoint, you probably should've just kept your mouth shut....trust & discretion are key in this industry & you running your mouth is going to toss any trust she had in you out the window. While I'm sure it's highly frowned upon, it's not always a bad thing that a provider falls asleep with you present; to me that means she's comfortable enough with you to allow herself to be vulnerable....as far as the cops go: she was smart enough to know she didn't have to legally answer the door...are either of you in any kind of trouble from it? No? Then consider it a close call and be more cautious...just my .2 Originally Posted by SillySweetheart
He went to great lengths to respect the lady's privacy & protect her anonymity. Eventually practices like this will reoccur unless she adjusts her way of doing business. Should the not address them, she'll inevitably end up damaging her reputation beyond repair & ruining her own name, thereby making the hobby better for the more reputable providers & hobbyists.

Oh, how much is the up charge for a provider "feeling vulnerable" & falling asleep on the job?
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  • JS42
  • 05-04-2015, 05:54 PM
I can tell ya this, if I went to a providers incall and Larry showed up knocking on her door, you damn straight I would let the guys know. I would hope and expect other guys to do the same. That should be pretty high on the priority list of info for guys.