Middle aged men have 'hotness delusion syndrome'

Well, this "broad" doesn't mind that you want someone young and dumb. Most men who are older and only go after the early 20's chicks are usually wanting to control them to a point and if you get them young & dumb, its easy for you to do so. Mold them into something YOU want without a care for what she truly wants. Originally Posted by MsElena

Control them? Mold them? I just want a youthful body and a willing soul....I have no intention of being around long enough to control or mold.....

BTW: "Most men who are older" wasn't directed at me, was it?
If you're older than the chick you're with........you would be just that.
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JB!!!!!

My room, now! Originally Posted by MsElena

Sorry Mistress!
easy now I know there are a lot a young ladies that are easily persuaded. but I stand on my own just because a guy likes younger ladies doesn't mean he wants some ditzy bimbo.
Maybe it is delusional, but in the last ten years (I'm early 50s) I have had so many more 20 and 30 somethings after me than I ever had IN my 20s and 30s. 3-4 times as many. Plus plenty of ladies only a few years younger. So who cares what label is put on it!

TopGunTex,

That's just it, there shouldn't be a label. It was a minor "study" and doesn't hold any credence.
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If women are attracted to older men, how is it delusional? If you attract women, you are attractive. If you don't, you are not. The older gents are clearly getting the job done regardless of whether they are "attractive" in the eyes of the author or other posters on this board.

Plus, what the f... kind of authority on attractiveness is KPMG? Last I checked they were an accounting firm. And while I sure do like me some hot big firm associates fresh out of B-school and dressed for success wearing their high heels and short skirts, I'm not sure I would give a whole lot of weight to comments about what makes men attractive.
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Nothing has changed...being able to provide security and support to a mate (of either gender) has always been attractive...
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Hey mods...check out Karl...you might want to find out what his previous handle was...just sayin'...
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  • 06-04-2011, 05:59 PM
Nothing has changed...being able to provide security and support to a mate (of either gender) has always been attractive... Originally Posted by atlcomedy
I've heard that giving support to a male mate will leave you with nothing butt a sore ass
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Wakeup:

Not sure who you think I am, but no previous Eccie handle here. I've been watching this site for a while for educational purposes, but never joined. The message boards looked like a fun place to mingle with some beautiful women, so I thought I would finally take the plunge and join in. Not 100% sure what you are accusing me of, but I'm not getting the "welcome atmosphere" billed in the guidelines. In fact, you are making me feel distinctly unwelcome. If you got evidence, bring it, but otherwise, I'm pretty sure unsupported defamatory inferences of rule breaking do not meet the standards of conduct on this board. Just sayin'...
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The mods will take care of their own biz at their own speed and as they deem necessary.

And my brother WTF will only be banned by squirrels.
The mods will take care of their own biz at their own speed and as they deem necessary.

And my brother WTF will only be banned by squirrels. Originally Posted by John Bull
Watch out Mr Bull the squirrel just might be able to take out a Super Moderator.
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Watch out Mr Bull the squirrel just might be able to take out a Super Moderator. Originally Posted by Ansley
Thats the rumor I heard.
Watch out Mr Bull the squirrel just might be able to take out a Super Moderator. Originally Posted by Ansley

Never underestimate the Power of Fur & Fangs! M. Edward and The Squirrel are all powerful......