Why do you guys pay for sex?

It is a business relationship. Nothing more. And that’s freedom.

Escorts are just as smart as you know the thing.. And the thing is what my wife won't do. I also love the way they lie to me. Talking about my 2 inches of dangling fury hurts them. Or the fake gag...my favorite. How about...thats the first time ever.

Why do you guys pay for sex?

Its cheaper and you dont have to talk to them or please them! Just dump a load and leave! Fuck the foreplay b/s!

I get to do all the kinky stuff my wife detests -

- Kissing
- Fucking
- DATY
- BBBJCIM

There is an old saying that paying for sex is cheaper than getting it for free, and for the most part, that is true. Also, there are many layers of why guys pay cash for sex.

While there are old, ugly, shriveled up in one area (needing enhancers to help as just seeing a pretty lady naked in the bed does not do it for them) but also ballooned up in another of their body, and usually coupled with the fact they have no social/interpersonal skills, you have a great deal of guys that having to pay cash for sex is going to the ONLY way they are going to get any, and that is from any lady. Having gone to many socials over the years and seeing some of the guys at them, I can guess that most probably tend to fall in this category.

One other reason is guys may want variety and can get a provider to do action(s) that their SO will/does not do BCD.

Then, you have the guys that pay to have sex with ladies who because of their physical looks, age, ect., otherwise, would not give them the time of day in the RW.

Paying a provider directly is much less expensive in the long run than paying for a wife. Especially if you windup paying for lawyer(s) too. And if you invest in the UTR community, it doesn't even have to be that expensive.



Let's face it. Guys don't go out looking for their soul mate. They go out looking to get laid. Sometimes they fall in love along the way. Or just don't want to start all over if the girlfriend gives you the "Shit or get off the pot" ultimatum.

What some women may not understand is that - if not for sex, many men wouldn't really have any use for women at all. Sad but true.

And I have to believe that many marriages are actually held together by the husband seeing escorts. I have a friend who has a great relationship with his wife. It just doesn't involve any sex. But he is getting his needs met elsewhere. Originally Posted by Lespaulmankc

THE MOST INTELLIGENT reply to this thread so far.
Altho - I disagree with the comment "if not for sex, many men wouldn't really have any use for women at all".

THAT IS DOWNRIGHT disrespectful and BS. No need to even put out the energy to explain why.

ANYWAYS .... as to the subject of this conversation, a few things are for sure.

* GREAT SEX! (emphasize GREAT)
* WE GALS know how to give it and give it gladly
* VARIETY
* NO INTENDED COMMITMENT

It's called the oldest profession for a reason. The need is always there.


As for me, I got tired of meeting Rosy Palm and her fraternal twin sister, and need a change of scenery from time to time. heh


Plus, I am too old to hang out at college frat party, spring break at Cancun, etc

How else would I be able to have any?

Folks that say guys pay because they're too old/fat/ugly/no-game/socially awkward to get laid, have obviously never been to Walmart. Cuz that's where old, fat, ugly, no-game, socially-awkward guys shop...with they're wives and kids.

Just sayin'...

Folks that say guys pay because they're too old/fat/ugly/no-game/socially awkward to get laid, have obviously never been to Walmart. Cuz that's where old, fat, ugly, no-game, socially-awkward guys shop...with they're wives and kids.

Just sayin'... Originally Posted by Billogoods

As I said, I have been to many socials, seeing first hand many of these guys and while I do not ask if the guys shop at Walmart (as that is not even the topic of this thread), but if you say that old/fat/ugly guys shop there, well, then either you shop at Walmart to notice that info or you just hang out at Walmart to try to see those people to come to that opinion. No judgement here, we all have our fetishes and desires in this hobby world.

I don't pay for sex, I pay her to leave.

Why Pay?

Because I'm not a "Player", and don't have the Mojo to pickup ladies on my own. Tried dating sites, that was supremely difficult and frustrating.

Friends of mine and I call my (lack of Mojo) the "Rental Car Theory". Let me explain:

Imagine you're a young lady at a Rental agency, and they assign you a car. If you get a Sports Car, Big Horsepower, flashy appearance, maybe a convertible Mustang, you think...."Wow, I'm going to have FUN with this! Hooray!"

If you end up with a generic Toyota, Hyundai, Kia, or whatever, you think....."Well, it's a good car, has A/C, will get me around, but I'm not excited about it. Later on, you realize it's a good car, and dependable.

Most girls I see here would probably describe me as the Rental Car. I'm a good guy, reliable client, and physically fit and the upper echelon for my age group. But - I don't elicit the excitement and desire they have for a more desirable man.

THAT is why I pay for Sex. I could NEVER in my wildest dreams attract the high quality and beauty of ladies I'm with here IRL. I'm a decent guy, successful career, have my #### together, but - I just don't have the natural Mojo or charisma to attract women naturally, never have, never will. So, I pay.

Remember no one pays for sex, thats illegal Originally Posted by LadyAnastasia

It's legal in seven counties of Nevada. In the other 49 states the gent is paying for time.

Why do you guys pay for sex?

Its cheaper and you dont have to talk to them or please them! Originally Posted by winn dixie

It would be kind of difficult for you to talk to them at the AMP if they don't speak English.

Why not? Let me ask you this.

Is it not fun to live with a little bit of variety in your life?

Some have very busy or stressful lifestyles. Unraveling with a beautiful lady of choice is a luxury most can afford.

Even if your not paying for it, you're still investing time, effort and "Emotions" into your significant other.

Don't get me wrong hook-up from bars or dating apps are still fun but not as good as seeing someone who's main focus is just you for the hour.