Just got stood up by James Bond

its kids they like to play like men.

I saw a Russian provider back in the day who used to call me James Bond when I asked her to. "Fuck me James"!

Good Times!

Sorry you were stood up -- that's a very rude action whether done by client or provider.

IMHO, unless you're just posting this note to ask for a little deserved sympathy, you're probably better served personally, and doing a bigger favor for the other providers, by putting the warning in the providers' section, for a couple of reasons:
1. The providers need the warning a lot more than the clients (who cannot do anything about it).
2. To some clients (not everyone, by any means), any notice such as this one raises the drama flag that those clients want to avoid, and that's especially true after the thread of exactoknife or whoever that was. If James Bond had posted some unfavorable bit on you, I might feel understand a need to defend yourself (though that also can produce unintended and bad results), but I don't see how it profits you to post a NCNS on the coed board.

IMHO, unless you're just posting this note to ask for a little deserved sympathy, you're probably better served personally, and doing a bigger favor for the other providers, by putting the warning in the providers' section, for a couple of reasons:
1. The providers need the warning a lot more than the clients (who cannot do anything about it).
2. To some clients (not everyone, by any means), any notice such as this one raises the drama flag that those clients want to avoid, and that's especially true after the thread of exactoknife or whoever that was. If James Bond had posted some unfavorable bit on you, I might feel understand a need to defend yourself (though that also can produce unintended and bad results), but I don't see how it profits you to post a NCNS on the coed board. Originally Posted by notdeadyet

Dude! She is new to this site - she never knew a world like this existed! On top of that, she does not have Provider Status yet.

Sorry for sounding like a WK..............

Dude! She is new to this site - she never knew a world like this existed! On top of that, she does not have Provider Status yet.

Sorry for sounding like a WK.............. Originally Posted by CanDo01

I did not realize she's new.

So, okay, this is a serious comment...as hard to believe as that may be. IF you screened him, the providers who gave references need to be made aware of his hijinks. Also, seriously consider P411 ... no single verification tool is perfect, but this one is as nearly perfect as any one tool could possibly be.

And naw, CanDo01...don't worry about some squirrel accusing you of knighthood...you seemed to be more interested in logic than in elevating some girl you're partial to.

Because she is new, constructive advice might be beneficial to her. We all needed a little help learning our way around the board when we first joined. There were some useful points in his post. I didn't think it was an attack, although you may have a different opinion because of how some things were stated.

And in the spirit of helping out, I imagine one of the lovely ladies on the board have already sent her a PM with information on how to get Provider Status.

Dude! She is new to this site - she never knew a world like this existed! On top of that, she does not have Provider Status yet.

Sorry for sounding like a WK.............. Originally Posted by CanDo01

Because she is new, constructive advice might be beneficial to her. We all needed a little help learning our way around the board when we first joined. There were some useful points in his post. I didn't think it was an attack, although you may have a different opinion because of how some things were stated.

And in the spirit of helping out, I imagine one of the lovely ladies on the board have already sent her a PM with information on how to get Provider Status. Originally Posted by RoDunn

The thing that made me post was him telling her that she should have posted this in the Ladies Powder Room. How does she do this when she does not have Provider Status yet?! I always read up on who the OP is before I start making critical/helpful/jackass posts!

CanDo -- While I am reluctant to dispute anything written by Neotek's doubles partner (perhaps, the best thread ever on this site), I still don't see how Carmen's post is helpful to her or to her business, though I certainly could be persuaded otherwise if you know some reasons that it is.

CanDo -- While I am reluctant to dispute anything written by Neotek's doubles partner (perhaps, the best thread ever on this site), I still don't see how Carmen's post is helpful to her or to her business, though I certainly could be persuaded otherwise if you know some reasons that it is. Originally Posted by notdeadyet

Wow, thanks!

I guess the reason I seemed to have a stick up my ass is because in the past month, I've run into a few girls who are new to this site and try to jump right in without lurking first and seeing how things work. Carmen may have very well jumped the gun as well by posting this thread.

I remember I lurked for 3-4months on aspd before jumping in so I knew basically where to look for things.

I guess the moral of this post is to take it easy on the newbies and realize they are newbies.

interesting. i have canceled an appointment last minute after seeing the incall or if there are some shady people hanging out around the parking lot. it sucks but if i feel uncomfortable in the setting there is no use going through with the appointment. but in those two cases i called and let the lady know my issues. she was not happy but at least she knew what the deal was and i was not flaking on her. it was just not my cup of tea. so if you have groups of people just hanging out around your incall or cop cars sitting in the parking lot then that might be the case. anyway he should have let you know some how.

interesting. i have canceled an appointment last minute after seeing the incall or if there are some shady people hanging out around the parking lot. it sucks but if i feel uncomfortable in the setting there is no use going through with the appointment. but in those two cases i called and let the lady know my issues. she was not happy but at least she knew what the deal was and i was not flaking on her. it was just not my cup of tea. so if you have groups of people just hanging out around your incall or cop cars sitting in the parking lot then that might be the case. anyway he should have let you know some how. Originally Posted by marjk74

I am with you on shady or bad incall, but I have seen her and her incall is top notch with no shadiness!!
Who knows

Sorry it happened carmen, next time text me and maybe I can be stunt double. lol

First of all this is James Bond. I have spoken with Carmen once, but never made an appointment with her. In fact when I spoke with her I told her I would be out of town for a while. I went out of town from Saturday July 17th until this Sunday. So, someone either used my handle, or there are multiple James Bonds with numbers at the end, or 3 she had me confused with someone else she had an appointment. It would be hard to be at her gate while you are out of state. Last my reputation is spotless and those that have seen me know that my schedule keeps me from being a frequent flier.

Maybe a different Bond?

The one at the gate . . . who knows? Some unsuspecting lonely lady with an unlocked apartment door got f'd three ways from Sunday and received some extra jack for her trouble.



Woody

@James Bond above, if you never made an apt. with me then you are a different 'James Bond'. The JB I'm referring to was AT or RIGHT BY MY APARTMENT, we spoke several times on the phone. He actually has an accent. If that's not you, then, there ya go.
For the record, the James Bond I spoke to called me several days later and told me the story as to why he was unable to make it. It was not his fault and he was very appologetic. Me and the correct James Bond are cool, if we ever find eachother again. (I've changed my contact info and can't find him)

lol!!! Woody that's too funny.. all you guys/gals are great.