A Question for the Ladies - Just how is it that YOU look out for a guys safety?

oh the joys of being a Single Man with no kids, no exes no nada!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Originally Posted by RALPHEY BOY

Its great isn't it.

Girls who screen take care of business. Yes, they're protecting themselves, while trying to show you that they are reliable and trustworthy by example. At least they are trying to screen out LE so they won't get busted and pressured to snitch. With the large number of gentlemen and companions participating in the hobby I think the % of clients actually outed by providers is pretty low. If you are CAREFUL with your information and with who you see and not get too involved, you'll probably be okay. It's usually when a relationship of ANY type becomes too personal that you run the risk of having someone know too much about you.

Perhaps that's why places like Date-Check and Preferred411 are doing well. At least you just give your info once. Keep in mind that the ladies aren't exactly forcing you to see them. It's your choice. Do your research. You have to ask yourself is it worth it and be ready to deal with the consequences if it is, just like we ladies have to be prepared.

Screening keeps out the riff raff, but evidently not the trolls.

I understand where the op is coming from.

Recently I had a provider admit that she google searches guys to get there home address.

WTF

I understand where the op is coming from.

Recently I had a provider admit that she google searches guys to get there home address.

WTF Originally Posted by clarkkentglasses

And you think "regular" girls don't do that?

I'm not worried about a "regular" girl being busted for escorting with my personal info on her hard drive.

I'm not worried about a "regular" girl being busted for escorting with my personal info on her hard drive. Originally Posted by clarkkentglasses

As has been stated ad nauseum, there are zillions of providers who will see you without asking any personal information whatsoever -- just give 1 or 2 provider references, or a p411 or date check ID and your in like Flynn. I don't know the last name of 99% of my clients -- heck, they could be giving me a fake first name. All I care about is their references.

Now if you're a complete newbie, most providers concerned with their safety will require some info. -- but some will still see you with only a p411 membership, not even requiring the OKs. See that girl and you've got your 1 vouch or P411 OK, and then as EZman says, you're off to the races.

sweet......... i have 14 oks on P411........... i guess i have finished the race

I MUCH prefer a gentleman who has P411, Date-Check, or provider references. Screening is a hassle, and I really would rather not have anyone's personal info if I can avoid it. I'd rather save the room on my hard drive for porn and naughty photos.

Fancy and Sophia,

Thank you both for having the class and taking the time to respond to a thread many men are watching.


All of the ladies who feel the need to simply post "I will not feed the trolls" probably don't realize just how much those one line posts will hurt business. Whispers is asking a legitimate question and you simply want to avoid answering the questions because you don't have an answer. This makes it seem like you are among the many ladies out there whom collect as much information as they can - personally, I truly appreciate knowing that so that I can know a few more ladies to avoid.

What is the motivation in keeping a gentleman's information? If it's a safety concern then a girl should let someone know where she is at all times. Check in/out. I don't want to be caught with a bunch of phone numbers of gentleman I don't really know. That is just more potential problems for me. I don't care what your real name or email is. I only care about how you treated the ladies before me. I agree with Sophia on this one. Unless it's Tiger Woods, I am not keeping your info. lol!

I am gonna bring up p411 again. They will ask for some personal info, but it is the site administrator in Canada, not just any provider. And they discard it when finished with it. The great thing about p411 is that when you send a request the lady only sees the pertinent info to screen you. If you have a hobby email and a hobby phone you should be ok. If you are doing outcalls and are concerned about security use a hotel. I used p411 so I don't have to go through the tedious process of recounting all my exploits to get "screened" so I can have a date. If the lady is on p411 I am usually good to go.

Fancy and Sophia,

Thank you both for having the class and taking the time to respond to a thread many men are watching.


All of the ladies who feel the need to simply post "I will not feed the trolls" probably don't realize just how much those one line posts will hurt business. Whispers is asking a legitimate question and you simply want to avoid answering the questions because you don't have an answer. This makes it seem like you are among the many ladies out there whom collect as much information as they can - personally, I truly appreciate knowing that so that I can know a few more ladies to avoid. Originally Posted by AustinBusinessTraveler

Uh yeah no, that's not what it's about at all! At least for me it's not. I can't and won't speak for any other ladies. It just seems every post always gets turned into drama that he starts. I am a very nice, sweet down to earth lady and all that know me or have met me know this. I just try to avoid the drama. The only business a lady will probably lose by posting "I will not feed the trolls" is by the trolls. In my book that is fine with me . That is all I have to say on this and wish everyone a great day!

I understand where the op is coming from.

Recently I had a provider admit that she google searches guys to get there home address.

WTF Originally Posted by clarkkentglasses

i google search their name/s and phone numbers if they are new,

Unless it's Tiger Woods, I am not keeping your info. lol! Originally Posted by BritneyBangs

so you're the one who kept texting tiger at his sex addiction rehab. bad brit!

It just seems every post always gets turned into drama that he starts. ....... Originally Posted by Sexy Roxanne

you can easily research any member and see what they have to say in almost any thread.....

I post reviews and comment on many subjects and have a lot to say that is not controversial...... occasionally even a bit humorous

However.....

I am not afraid to discuss controversial subject matter or to call a member out on some bullshit they post..... Guys didn't used to be so afraid to speak their minds a few years back....

I did not start any of the recent conversations about screening.....

I do have some very strong opinions on the subject and am not afraid to discuss any subject relative to this hobby...

The beginning of this thread was very clearly stated..... ladies constantly claim that screening is done for our protection as well and lots of guys tend to wonder just how that is so.....

All you ladies would do yourselves a world of good professionally in a thread like this to simply ignore it rather that the way you posted.........

GFEJunkie set you all up with his post..... not me....

If you don't like what I have to say then ignore me.... itis not hard to do...


My wife learned how a few years ago!