do you consider having sex with a provider and walking away without paying rape?

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The majority of them may be medicated but it's by choice not because of us
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But forced bareback is especially repugnant. How do the consequences of going for medical care (morning after pill and STD shots) plus the mental anguish, differ in any way from the "traditional" rape victim

Yeah, this is slightly off-topic, but this WK is PO'ed that this community does little to stop BB monsters, but instead says Boys will be Boys. Originally Posted by Mr Peabody
Ladies just to be clear he is not referring to me. I don't BB unless she initiates it.
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Many men don't consider non-consensual sex to be rape unless it involves violence. I think I know how this poll is gonna come out. In Sweden, it's considered rape if you have bareback sex when the woman has requested you wear a condom. That's what Julian Assange is charged with.
Oh wait a minute.

I get it now!

A buncha DUDES

Debating what constitutes the rape of a provider.

That's it. That's the joke right?

Originally Posted by Miss Valentina
The odds of a provider raping a dude seem kind of low, so who else should be thinking about what constitutes rape?

I get the whole "look asshole, if you think it might even conceivably amount to rape you shouldn't ever do it" argument (feminists who argue marriage is rape aside), but "what's rape" is a not a completely pointless thing to think about if one of your top-level life goals is "not raping".

I suppose someone somewhere might be like "I want to rape at least once, it's on my bucket list, but I'm not into that whole mask/alley scene and rufies are gauche. I wonder if I can find some way to do it technically so I can knock it off my list". But probably not.
Many men don't consider non-consensual sex to be rape unless it involves violence. I think I know how this poll is gonna come out. In Sweden, it's considered rape if you have bareback sex when the woman has requested you wear a condom. That's what Julian Assange is charged with. Originally Posted by FloridaShark
That sounds like rape to me. She explicitly did not consent to bareback.
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The odds of a provider raping a dude seem kind of low, so who else should be thinking about what constitutes rape?

I get the whole "look asshole, if you think it might even conceivably amount to rape you shouldn't ever do it" argument (feminists who argue marriage is rape aside), but "what's rape" is a not a completely pointless thing to think about if one of your top-level life goals is "not raping".

I suppose someone somewhere might be like "I want to rape at least once, it's on my bucket list, but I'm not into that whole mask/alley scene and rufies are gauche. I wonder if I can find some way to do it technically so I can knock it off my list". But probably not. Originally Posted by irishlad

Do you even joke bro?

Thanks for mansplaining some more. God knows I could use some more mansplaining!!!
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All I know is I love Whisper's posts and I've said it before. It's been the single greatest contribution to my business in the way of exposing the greatest volume of self-alerters in one place I've ever seen.

Thanks again Whispers!!
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Maybe not "technically" but from a moral standpoint- sure, why not? It's all relative, regardless of vocabulary. It's dishonest, violates boundaries, and disregards the feelings and will of the other person. Technicalities may win you a debate or two but often don't mean much in the bigger picture. Originally Posted by JadeRose
How do you feel about providers that post in coed with large ass sig lines that look like ADS?
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Oh wait a minute.

I get it now!

A buncha DUDES

Debating what constitutes the rape of a provider.

That's it. That's the joke right?
Originally Posted by Miss Valentina
I knew you weren't a chick!
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I knew you weren't a chick! Originally Posted by Still Looking
Haha!!!

Darling, everyone knows my tailor must accommodate me dressing to the left like a sir.
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All I know is I love Whisper's posts and I've said it before. It's been the single greatest contribution to my business in the way of exposing the greatest volume of self-alerters in one place I've ever seen.

Thanks again Whispers!! Originally Posted by Miss Valentina
LOL!

Be careful now darlin..... Some regular may actually think you and I know each other and threaten to quit seeing you.....

How's Claire doing? Rumor has her with you or ReadySetGo with Plain Vanilla cuckolding for the happy couple
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LOL!

Be careful now darlin..... Some regular may actually think you and I know each other and threaten to quit seeing you.....

How's Claire doing? Rumor has her with you or ReadySetGo with Plain Vanilla cuckolding for the happy couple Originally Posted by Whispers
Imagine that!!! The incorrect accusation has been made several times before and yet, here I seem to be thriving without both their unwanted input nor their patronage. Funny how that works.

Spaketh not the name of Satan in my presence sir! With any luck the loathed devil resides in Hades where he is welcome to forge any alliances that may find themselves in his nefarious company.
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Imagine that!!! The incorrect accusation has been made several times before and yet, here I seem to be thriving without both their unwanted input nor their patronage. Funny how that works.

Spaketh not the name of Satan in my presence sir! With any luck the loathed devil resides in Hades where he is welcome to forge any alliances that may find themselves in his nefarious company. Originally Posted by Miss Valentina
hmmm.... I was told the secret lie in Sixxbach's Sig Line. The demon is here among us somewhere hiding behind a new name!
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hmmm.... I was told the secret lie in Sixxbach's Sig Line. The demon is here among us somewhere hiding behind a new name! Originally Posted by Whispers
Dante0322 who is now Mike Vrosucky???
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Haha!!!

Darling, everyone knows my tailor must accommodate me dressing to the left like a sir. Originally Posted by Miss Valentina
Only dudes have tailors!