Urge for big anal play....dildos, fists, strapons

ask & ye shll receive..lol Originally Posted by DallasRain

Oh I physically can't. There are just too many physical problems back there that prevent entrance. Exiting can be a real pain too....

Oh I physically can't. There are just too many physical problems back there that prevent entrance. Exiting can be a real pain too.... Originally Posted by ZedX79

well dammit...I guess you will just have to be "content" with worshipping my ass....I DO NOT do anal on myself....but some good ole ass massaging/licking/and tonguing make me HOT as HELL!!

Hemorhoid surgery will change your thinking about ass play. lol

In general when it comes to anal play, some people have an easier time with girth and some people have an easier time with length. Thus for some strap-on play is the best thing ever, and for some fisting is way better. Just depends on your ass' preference, and everyone's ass is a little different.

As long as you go slow, use steady/even pressure, and use lots and lots of lube, you probably won't hurt someone. Especially if you and they are both sober and focusing on what is happening so that you can communicate about discomforts. It's important to be really clean for fisting because any particulate matter in the ass can cause abrasions on the walls of the rectum since the fist provides a lot of outward pressure on the walls of the rectum. Crisco is honestly the most highly recommended lubricant for anal fisting (your ass absorbs it within a day or two much like with any other type of food, and it doesn't dry up easily like water-based does), but since it degrades latex, it is recommended to change your gloves every ten minutes or so. And I DO recommend wearing gloves (get sexy black ones that are your exact size because wrinkles in your gloves can cause problems), especially if you have any cuts or abrasions whatsoever on your hands. HIV and other blood-born pathogens can easily get into your bloodstream when you are fisting someone if you have cuts on your hands. Try also to keep towels and wet wipes nearby because when you are using such incredible amounts of lube it tends to get everywhere and used lube can contain STI's, etc. I recommend pre-tearing paper towels and laying them in a pile where they are easy to reach, or pre-unfolding wet wipes and laying them in a pile within arm's reach, etc. The keys to healthy anal play when it comes to fisting are: make sure the ass is clean, go slow and steady, use tons of lube, keep excess lubrication contained, wear the correct size gloves, and most importantly, THE ASS IS IN CHARGE! It sets the speed and determines when you can move forward. If you are fisting something in conjunction with a "forced" roleplay or domination scene, remember, a roleplay is a fantasy for a reason, and even if you are pretending to be forceful, it is critical to let the ass run the show as far as how fast things move forward.

Hopefully this is helpful to someone out there.

^^Thanks....Even I think that black latex gloves making fingering/fisting a whole lot more sexier!

particulate??? LOL

Gotta use that word tomorrow at work. "I'm gonna go particulate" be right back.

I like zoey's post above.....slow and steady pressure, LOTS of lube, and a whole lot of mental attitude. Recommend the recipient reach back and firmly take hold of her forearm and guide her hand in and apply your own pressure. So in essence you're actually doing the insertion. Once in, let her take over. A colonic or enema ahead of time might be helpful.

I used my steel dildo today, and went dildo shopping and bought a Pyrex one.

The glass and steel were AWESOME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This is my new toy bought today.

I like that one..I have one similar but probably not as thick {lol}

Goddess: That is AWESOME! I've noticed a trend that many toys are starting to look like jewelry.....an advancement in the "art" I suppose......

Zhivago...
You can run cool water over this. put it in the freezer, or pack it is ice cubes before a session.
You can put this in hot water or warm up his butt with a little mint toothpaste or many other things.

I think the SURGE is non-rubber is the CLEANLINESS factor.
You can clean them hospital clean and they do not contain polyphenols.
(Just my opinion♥)

I like that one..I have one similar but probably not as thick {lol} Originally Posted by DallasRain

I LOVE the way you think, Dallas Rain.♥♥♥

and mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm I luv the way you think babe!

If you are looking to see some huge toys for anal play just go look at some of the videos on that site. I would suggest a search for Lisa Berlin. The strap owns she uses are fucking huge..