Ok, finally an interesting question for both

Well I would date most of them... Hypothetically speaking. And for rest, they did nothing wrong... Sometimes people are better fuck buddies than boyfriend and girlfriend.

a few Bianca... lol

Let me say it now: FUCK NO!

I do not spend any amount of time more than I have to. Trying to cajole some girl at the bar... fuck that shit. My money spent for an hour (give or take) is way more efficient than trying to play some game at the bar, Sex workers ++++++++++ Originally Posted by quzi

Plus 1 and agree 100%. Also, the value of NSA from hobby encounters cannot be discounted. You don't get that freedom from dating girls from the bar. RW ladies will want you to respect them in the morning. I don't have time to hang out all night for that either. Would rather go with the FWB approach with the lovely ladies here in the hobby, hobby ladies also expect you to be done and gone with NSA.

So it's WIN WIN WIN for the hobby guys and gals plus the "significant others" that may be affected by Bad Boys gone wrong. RW ladies who don't understand that Bad Boys just want fun and are willing to pay-for-play, not establish long-term relationships.

There are exceptions of course as we get to know some of our LT favorites and keep repeating great sessions. Another thread perhaps.

A provider asked me why I do this. I told her for the NSA. She said you can get NSA at a bar. I guess she's right you technically can but what are the odds? With providers it's easier. You don't have to worry about all the RW variables, just fun.
That being said, the providers I've seen have been sweet and beautiful. Under different circumstances for sure I'd have dated some but not all.

A provider asked me why I do this. I told her for the NSA. She said you can get NSA at a bar. I guess she's right you technically can but what are the odds? With providers it's easier. You don't have to worry about all the RW variables, just fun.
That being said, the providers I've seen have been sweet and beautiful. Under different circumstances for sure I'd have dated some but not all. Originally Posted by SolidChamp

I have to agree, I would date most of the providers that I see, with the exception the few that would never hang out with an old fat guy like me in the first place, without benefit of the hobby.

So, I chock that up as a WIN WIN any day. I would never get past first base these beauties in the RW but after they get to know me in the hobby, many have become great NSA hobby friends, and I love the Pay4Play benefits. Keep it simple and hobby on.

Its suuuuch a pain in the ass trying to find nsa in the rw...people cant help but put the feels into it! I guess here $$ is the constant reminder that this is all business not personal...for both sides-ladies and gents.

But yah BB...you said it...win Win WIN WIN!

I guess here $$ is the constant reminder that this is all business not personal...for both sides-ladies and gents. Originally Posted by gingerpie

I'm not sure it always remains business, at least for the hobbyist especially if the girl is good at GFE. ��

To answer the op's question ...

Yes, there some very interesting ladies in the hobby who, if my heart had not already been taken, I definitely or probably would have dated ...

... otoh, that is not to say we've never hung out, traveled together, sometimes played and sometimes celebrated milestones and events.

And many hobby ladies with whom I have played, but never wanted to date.

Many more of both ahead!

I'm asking because, over the years I have been amazed of some of the donations given that I look at and say, OMG, I wouldn't have even thought of even asking that lady out on a date. Originally Posted by Passion2015

"Hey little Passionwood
You're gone but you're not forgot
You got the cash but your credit's no good
You flipped the script and you shot the plot
And I remember I remember when your neon used to burn so bright and pink
A Saturday night kinda pink"

I'm not sure it always remains business, at least for the hobbyist especially if the girl is good at GFE. �� Originally Posted by FS_ITC

Sometimes not fot the ladies either.

Vicky, Vicky, Vicky.....so vitriolic!!

I'll answer the question. I am not inclined to date a provider. I'm an older ECCIE dude, and somewhat traditional/conservative in my views.

With that said, I have met a handful of amazing ladies I would accept as gf....if the deal required them to retire.

All? No. Some? Yes. I've met some great guys during my time in the hobby

a couple of them

Vicky, Vicky, Vicky.....so vitriolic!!

I'll answer the question. I am not inclined to date a provider. I'm an older ECCIE dude, and somewhat traditional/conservative in my views.

With that said, I have met a handful of amazing ladies I would accept as gf....if the deal required them to retire. Originally Posted by LearnedHand

I'm actually quite the opposite... To be honest when I posted my reply I only had one or 2 dudes in mind... If you were to reword the question and take out the word all.. My answer would have been very different.. I have come Across a few very sweet kind hearted gentlemen that I would have loved to have met Outside of Hobby I would have dated them in a heartbeat If they're OK with the girl Who would rather give BJs then cook