How old is everyone and why do you do it?

bigoffshoredaddy...so your wife is aware of you doing this. just curious to see how the conversation came up bc I will be in your boat soon with the menopause Originally Posted by Pacifico Clara

Correct. My wife and I have been the lifestyle for almost 15 years now. It was around that time I was put on HRT... needless to say, but it almost made me 17 again. As such, she couldn't keep up with me wanting sex more than I did. Combined with my travel schedule, either I wasn't there and she had needs, I was traveling and had needs, or I would wear her out when I was home. When I was in the military, I had a don't ask, don't tell hall pass. But when I came home, it was different because mamma could keep up.

We discussed deep feelings and our relationship was strong enough to try letting each other do our own thing; it worked. And it turned into a win win for the both of us. When she became peri-menopausal, she and I definitely had to recalibrate where she's concerned. So it made hobbying more of an option for me. Beyond that, with her being on HRT, the field evened out better.

We've known each other for almost 50 years, been together for almost 40, and married for 36. YMMV, but if your relationship is strong enough, it's a subject worth talking with your spouse over.

Late 40's... I started the hobby when I was around 20 when I found out I could pay $10 to a crackhead for a quick BJ in SD. Fast forward 20+ years and I have been in and out of the game, but just found myself within the last 13yrs with an insatiable appetite. I've been married for over 20yrs, but in a sexless marriage due to my wife's obesity and chronic laziness. I've vowed and tried to leave this lifestyle for years, but with all my triggers, I end up getting sucked back in (pun intended). My wife doesn't know, but I think she choses to just turn a blind eye and not go looking. For me, I'm not proud of who I've become or what I continually put at risk, and I live in constant fear/anxiety of getting caught and losing it all. I've watched my dad throw his marriage and pretty much waste his life away over this and I did cost him everything. I just don't want to have to hit rock bottom to change it.

Not to dog on any of you married fellas, or marriage in general, but the hobby is probably why I'll NEVER get married. Why buy when you can lease.


I'll refer you to one of the wisest quotes I've ever heard..."Trust me... never buy a depreciating asset. If it drives, flies, floats or fucks - lease it!"

I’m 67 and thought I was the only old guy..thanks!

60+ and enjoy the pay to play. I was introduced by a bady dolls FW server years ago. She taught me that I could pay a hot young babe...

Hey T! good to see you. Older than most here, but I like the variety and the skill level. Married long time and still sexually active at home. I do love strange!

c'mon guys - just state your age instead of that vague 50+ or 60+.

70 this summer. started at 43 yrs of age back in 1997 w/ Alexis at the Chicken Ranch in i'll be Pahrump, NV cos i've always wanted to be fellated all the way to cumpletion. she did that with lil delites covered up. it is the #1 best fellatio/orgasm i've ever experienced.

continued at AMPs until 2001, then started cumsulting w/ indy and agency providers. again cos i was wanting oral delites among other delites.
and had plenty of opportunity w/ flex-time at office, biz travels, and my s.o. being out of town for weekends to months at a time.
my peak was during 2011 w/ about 70-75 encounters that year, w/ 14 or 15 of those being FMF, FFM, FFMF, or FMFM.

nowadays in 2024, due to many factors, maybe once a month, if that.
unless i meet a super deliteful provider this year, will prolly ride off into the sunset w/ lots of memories, photos, and a few videos for reminiscing.

Been hobbying since 2008. I got started because of a bad marriage that I was too stupid to get out of. I've been in and out of the hobby ever since. After being out for awhile, I'm coming back in at the ripe old age of 59.

One reason not to state the exact age is deniability incase a SO stumbles upon the web site claims a particular user name is you. Can cause problems if varying degrees. To employment, relationships, or in the case marriage, a shit load of money.

30. S/O doesn’t do what’s needed in the bedroom frequently enough for me, even though it can be great. This was actually one of the first sites I had found that led me to Tryst, OH2, LC…etc etc. why I do it, probably has to do with being exposed to porn at a young age. If I had discovered this hobby sooner, man oh man

One reason not to state the exact age is deniability incase a SO stumbles upon the web site claims a particular user name is you. Can cause problems if varying degrees. To employment, relationships, or in the case marriage, a shit load of money. Originally Posted by TexTushHog

If you’re SO find THIS site and gets this far, you’re already in hot water IMO

True, but there are degrees of heat. Especially when you’re not married and you have almost all the money.

62. Convenience, No-Strings, Variety.

36 but have been hobbying for over a decade. The way I view it, it is like going to a restaurant. Sure I can go over to a friend's house and maybe have dinner with them that may be adequate but sometimes you want to have a great meal from a great chef!

48 and started when I was 36. Originally started because I was in a unhappy marriage and felt unwanted. It helped to fill the void of intimacy that was absent at home. Now I'm divorced and single for several years and it's for fun. Tbh it's easier and less of a headache than dating.

WOW, same exact thing for me. Chemo induced menopause, reconstructive surgery.. Sex drive gone.. I got her "blessing" to play.. but haven't for 4 years now. Now that AMP's are too scary to risk.. makes me wonder if I'm done.. I'm 61.