Lingerie

The enjoyment of a woman is only enhanced by lingerie. When coupled with seduction, chemistry and personality, it is the ultimate.

For example, when a woman meets with me, I love when she shows up dressed up, looking classy and beautiful. When she seduces me with her personality and charm, the lingerie takes on an exponential WOW factor.

Dave, I understand. But, there tends to be a general consenous as to whether or not it makes a difference. I mean, if it doesn't, I suppose I could just answer the door naked.
Originally Posted by Anne Prescott

I've requested that, but never have any special lingerie. Not that I don't admire it or think it looks good.... just that it does not heighten the experience for me.

The corset can be a time consuming piece to wear, probably not practical for a short visit. One of my favorites outfits I like to find being worn is a short skirt, no panties and a man's button down shirt.

The enjoyment of a woman is only enhanced by lingerie. When coupled with seduction, chemistry and personality, it is the ultimate. Originally Posted by Gentlemen Rendezvous

+1
The Presentation of Lingerie is GREAT & all guy's love eye candy, and the liberties that we are allowed after donation is paid is overwhelming, but IMHO, it don't mean much to me IF the ATTITUDE is not there. It's hard to put it in words but I will try. Guy's look into your eyes, watch your body language, and absorb your beauty, in hopes of the acceptance toward him. The Passionate Attitude means sooooo much more. Maybe mention something you read in his P411 Bio. Show him that you are happy that he is there. Show him the lust in your eyes. He is only going to be there for an hour or so, I'm sure you can be sexy and receptive for that long if you truly love what you do. IMHO, My Avatar is the ultimate OPEN invitation.

CG

I still have a Bikini made out of Candy that Im dieing to wear!!!
Im ready for it to be nibbled off..
Come & Kiss Me, Jaci

I'm a huge fan of black thigh-highs. My ATF wore them one time, and she looked soooo good. I told her that, so of course, it was jean shorts and tank tops every time we met after that.

Just as important ad WHAT you wear, though, is THAT you wear something -- almost anything will do -- that indicates that you wanted to make an impression on the client. If you're going to spend a little getting-to-know-you time before the fun begins, I want you to look like you spent more than a few seconds selecting your attire, not like you just got back from Wal-Mart. (The thigh-highs can serve a dual purpose here.)

Another thing that works well for me is the button-up-shirt-with-no-bra look, with a few buttons undone, and especially when I'm lying down and can see your breasts while you're giving e head.

Is anyone a fan of corsets? I have authentic corsets, not fashion corsets. I want to wear them, but I am always afraid that whoever I'm seeing won't like the idea of helping unbind me. lol Originally Posted by Anne Prescott

I thought people were supposed to get tied up DURING sex, rather than beforehand...


On a more serious note, being met at the door by a beautiful woman who is wearing a classy dress - and then being able to slowly remove said dress myself, to find sexy lingerie underneath - and then slowly removing said lingerie in a sensual manner...Oh, Yes. It's all a part of having a GREAT session vs. having an OK session. The anticipation heightens the desire.

Comparing the above to either naked-at-the-door or both people undressing themselves, both naked-at-the-door and separate disrobing gives me the image of "Thanks for the donation. Now bang me and leave so I can go on to the next client."

The dress and the lingerie add so much to the fantasy of the WHOLE environment of a session. It's not about just having an orgasm.

Thanks for reading my $0.02.

I was wondering if lingerie really makes a difference. Is it better to leave a little more to the imagination and have fun taking it off? Or is something smaller sexier, since its going to end up on the floor, anyway? Originally Posted by Anne Prescott

to me, while the destination [being in our birthday suits] is where i want to end up, how we travel on the journey [how she's dressed, removing our clothes and all the foreplay] can really make a difference.

one thing that really bugs me about a woman is if she uses that worn out phrase "why dont you get comfortable?"
i prefer mutual disrobing or at least disrobing together. it adds to my stimulation and shows me she wants to be involved rather than separated.

Dave, I understand. But, there tends to be a general consenous as to whether or not it makes a difference. I mean, if it doesn't, I suppose I could just answer the door naked.

Brave, I think so, too. Also, I like taking it off in a little of a Burlesque kind of way. I'm just not sure everyone likes it. Most people just want it on the floor now. LOL Originally Posted by Anne Prescott

again, it's the journey and how you travel along that journey.

plus, you wont be able to get a "general consensus" about clothing, lingerie, corsets, etc. cos your data sample will be too small for it to be meanigful.

just tell your guys what sort of outfits you have and if they have a preference [that is, does it make a different to THEM?].
then dress up or not [what heterosexual guy would turn down a naked woman??] and let the delites begin!!

Is anyone a fan of corsets? I have authentic corsets, not fashion corsets. I want to wear them, but I am always afraid that whoever I'm seeing won't like the idea of helping unbind me. lol Originally Posted by Anne Prescott

corsets are great! and if you like them, wear them.
i've visited several women who looked great in their corsets. and looked great after the corset was off.
one time, she blindfolded me, we foreplayed and then she had me take off her corset. talk about delites!

if the guy doesnt like them, either he'll let you know in a nice way. or he wont be back.
again, ask him!


two asides about being "afraid"
* in some WW II movie, an army guy posing as a General comes up to a checkpoint. after inspecting his papers, the private at the checkpoint says to him "Sir, I'm afraid I cannot let you in, Sir". the "general" says "Son, this is the Army. you should never be afraid!" the private lets him in.

* have had this quote on my wall for a long time
"Never be afraid to do something new!!"

not only does lingerie matter but the type.... some types are more hot to guys than others... it is a valid topic for screening..... Originally Posted by digitalbananna351

I like, I love it, it helps set the tone.
As does the incall, makeup (lipstick!!), bedroom, bathroom, bed, and variety of covers (sizes and types)

Although, naked at door is good too.
I do remember a long time ago a lady answered the door with lipstick, heels, and a red choker on her neck.
That was a memorable day. Originally Posted by DallasDoc

The enjoyment of a woman is only enhanced by lingerie. When coupled with seduction, chemistry and personality, it is the ultimate.

For example, when a woman meets with me, I love when she shows up dressed up, looking classy and beautiful. When she seduces me with her personality and charm, the lingerie takes on an exponential WOW factor. Originally Posted by Gentlemen Rendezvous

+1
The Presentation of Lingerie is GREAT & all guy's love eye candy, and the liberties that we are allowed after donation is paid is overwhelming, but IMHO, it don't mean much to me IF the ATTITUDE is not there. ...

CG Originally Posted by Copierguy0

...Just as important ad WHAT you wear, though, is THAT you wear something -- almost anything will do -- that indicates that you wanted to make an impression on the client. ...
Another thing that works well for me is the button-up-shirt-with-no-bra look, with a few buttons undone, and especially when I'm lying down and can see your breasts while you're giving e head. Originally Posted by Sir Lancehernot

see? some guys enjoy visiting a women who wears lingerie! [okay, it's only a few data points]
and if her attitude and presence indicate she is having fun and enjoying your company and the activities, all the better!!

it's not what you wear, it's how you wear it!!!!

...Comparing the above to either naked-at-the-door or both people undressing themselves, both naked-at-the-door and separate disrobing gives me the image of "Thanks for the donation. Now bang me and leave so I can go on to the next client."... Originally Posted by hotindallas

while i agree w/ the separate disrobing, naked at the door can be lots of delites!!!
or naked w/ just a trench coat over you. or naked w/ just a sheet over you. ["between the sheets" ?? !!!]

again, her attitude plays a major part in the encounter.

I was once met at the door by a beautiful girl who hugged and kissed me wrapped only in a soft blanket. Later it was too hard to leave so she asked me to stay a little longer.

while i agree w/ the separate disrobing, naked at the door can be lots of delites!!!
or naked w/ just a trench coat over you. or naked w/ just a sheet over you. ["between the sheets" ?? !!!]

again, her attitude plays a major part in the encounter. Originally Posted by pmdelites

Actually, I do agree that naked at the door can be great - BUT...not on a first encounter. A second or third or fourth session, after you have gotten more comfortable with each other, is different than a first encounter.

Naked at the door on a first encounter, at least to me, subconsciously says either "Slutty" or "Hurry up" (not that there is anything really wrong with slutty from time to time, mind you).

Part of it depends on what you are in the mood for. Want a pure "porn" encounter? Naked-at-the-door may work very well. Want a session that gives you the illusion that you are with a girl you can take home to meet your mother? Naked-at-the-door probably doesn't work very well in that case.

Again, just my own opinion and preferences. Ask 100 people, and you'll probably get 165 different answers...

I also agree with what some others have said: Providers, Ask your client what he wants. And remember that what he wants today may be completely different than what he wanted yesterday.

i think lingerie is best, unless they request you be naked

Lingerie doesn't really do a whole lot for me. I'm like a little kid at his birthday party, not impressed with how many bows are on the presents, i just want to dig in to see what I got, lol.

Now naked at the door sounds great though or even an open robe & nothing else, that's frigging hot. Whenever i knock on an incall door I always have this little voice in my head that says "Wouldn't it be badass if she opens the door all nekkid & stuph!" It hasn't happened yet but that little voice is persistant everytime I start knocking, lol...

Lingerie at first = GOOD!

I like that early "preview" and anticipation. This could also work with some combination of bra, panties, possibly a robe, always high heels, maybe stockings (!), heck even a tight t-shirt and jeans.

Now naked at the door sounds great though or even an open robe & nothing else, that's frigging hot. Whenever i knock on an incall door I always have this little voice in my head that says "Wouldn't it be badass if she opens the door all nekkid & stuph!" It hasn't happened yet but that little voice is persistant everytime I start knocking, lol... Originally Posted by shortguy

Unless she's naked because she didn't have time to get dressed after the last client left.