A suggestion for the Ladies to help the guys

Why not school the men to READ!!

And FYI, DJ, for those ladies who don't have sites.
Haven't been allowed to post rates on this site (anywhere) until the recent week. Thanks to St. Chris.
So give those ladies time.

MC, the whole point to my post was to help 3 areas of interest, rates, availability and ID being placed in a the ladies signature line. I’m quite aware of the fact that the ladies haven’t been able to post rates publicly until recently. Would you like me to show you the post in technical discussions where Mocha first made it public? I have looked everywhere for a link to that announcement so I could post it to another thread I have elsewhere.

I rebutted your initial reply simply because you saw it as an opportunity to throw in about teaching men to read when my post was only about making info more readily available now that it is permissible to do so.

I really like the idea of limiting the view of certain items from the general public and lurkers. Changes like this, in my opinion helps keep our site a safer place to interact.

Mokoa, could you copy a link that shows these new changes? I have searched everything I can think of and cannot find these updates. Thanks, dj8

Quote:
Originally Posted by Mokoa View Post
The following changes were implemented for the Signatures Lines.

Upgraded Female Accounts may post rates and availability in their signature lines.

Signature lines will now be viewable by only the following types of members.

Upgraded Female Accounts
Premium Access male members
All current and former Staff members

Members who are not one of the above types or lurkers who are not logged in will not be able to view the signature lines.

This post was in response to Mokoa on 8-5, a couple of weeks ago. This information still cannot be found on any updates to changes and is the simple reason for making my initial post about this.

I think everyone is right lol . . .

1. Yes, It WOULD be easier to have rates just listed but alas
many of us ladies have personal websites that we ask our perspective
clients to browse through to get a gist of who they will be spending
intimate time with . . .

2. Yes, A lot of times even when rates are listed many gentlemen will
not read it for the life of them lol. I've had many instances where I've
posted my site link just for a client to ask me literally SECONDS later,
"What is your site link?" Like dude lol

3. This weather in Hattiesburg is depressing

And another reason it's important to use all the information a lady provides is it's a sign of respect. It demonstrates goodwill on the gentleman's part.

This may be a guy's very first contact with a provider. And imagine getting this:

Good morning, I saw you on E (or wherever) and would like to spend an hour with you. I am comfortable with the donation requested. I am (Whatever info asked such as race/age/location), have references from (Provider A and Provider B). Thank you for your consideration, I look forward to meeting with you.

VS.

Hey, what's up?

Available?

What are your rates?

Can I come see you?


In case you are wondering how I know. I am in several Facebook groups and I have seen numerous threads titled "How not to get seen".

Just because these ladies are providers we should treat them as professional women, just as you would in any other profession.

A little effort on the front end makes it easier for all involved. Originally Posted by Mr Lickher Right

Yes, Yes, 1,000 times Yes !

I think everyone is right lol . . .

1. Yes, It WOULD be easier to have rates just listed but alas
many of us ladies have personal websites that we ask our perspective
clients to browse through to get a gist of who they will be spending
intimate time with . . .

2. Yes, A lot of times even when rates are listed many gentlemen will
not read it for the life of them lol. I've had many instances where I've
posted my site link just for a client to ask me literally SECONDS later,
"What is your site link?" Like dude lol

3. This weather in Hattiesburg is depressing Originally Posted by LoveXO.Tara

Ms Tara deserves a gold star today!!

The weather just across the line is horrible as well, wet dreary day.

Ms Tara deserves a gold star today!!

The weather just across the line is horrible as well, wet dreary day. Originally Posted by dj8rocks

Aww shucks ! Thanks hunny ! Plenty of opinions here
& nobody is wrong 🤷🏽♀️

The last few times I've gone to Mobile it was wet & dreary . .
what happened to SUMMER ? I want a refund Lol

All I can say isn't it nice to have a discussion that although a few disagreements, isn't full of name-calling, insults, stupid accusations, and general spewing of bullshit.

There would be no need to post rates if all providers charged 160 hr 100 hh and 80 for a qv lol

Basscat quit complaining about rates you're so stingy with your hobby funds the Indian was riding the buffalo on that nickle.

So far no one called me to explain... 😆

Moon...I'll call ya lol

Here is some thoughts. Some ladies here have websites and as stated earlier the more information a lady can provide, the easier it is for a gentleman to find out a lot of info quickly.

But some ladies don't have websites, or they are not linked to their profile here.

I was discussing this off board with an IT guy and he said for a provider the free ones do very well for ladies, and you can post things there that you may not can post here.

Since information is vital in helping guys figure out who to see, and since the rate info in the ROS section has yet to catch on, shouldn't a lady set up a webpage?

From the looks of it if you can do a showcase here, you can do a website with a fill in template.

After all I am willing to read and do the homework if the lady provides the book.

Dj,

I didn't mean to offend you nor anyone. I just don't mince words. I call it like I see it. May not make sense to some. And it may come across as strong and bitchy. But, in the end, while you have good intentions with this topic.

There will always be those men who are lazy and simply don't read nor follow directions. Especially when it's a LINK click away.
Hence, going back to my latest review.
Where the men had to tell another guy to go read my site! What he was asking was clearly outlined on my site.

So in the end all. Yes, there will always be those men who need to be schooled on reading. As other ladies reiterated.

Tis the hobby life!


Again, I meant no disrespect.

Why not school the men to READ!!

And FYI, DJ, for those ladies who don't have sites.
Haven't been allowed to post rates on this site (anywhere) until the recent week. Thanks to St. Chris.
So give those ladies time.

MC, the whole point to my post was to help 3 areas of interest, rates, availability and ID being placed in a the ladies signature line. I’m quite aware of the fact that the ladies haven’t been able to post rates publicly until recently. Would you like me to show you the post in technical discussions where Mocha first made it public? I have looked everywhere for a link to that announcement so I could post it to another thread I have elsewhere.

I rebutted your initial reply simply because you saw it as an opportunity to throw in about teaching men to read when my post was only about making info more readily available now that it is permissible to do so. Originally Posted by dj8rocks

Basscat quit complaining about rates you're so stingy with your hobby funds the Indian was riding the buffalo on that nickle. Originally Posted by Mr Lickher Right

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 - dude, you be killing me 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

I understand what your intentions of the post is DJ but unfortunately not all gentlemen in the hobby read and do their research like you and some others do. I agree with mature companions idea that some men need not be lazy and click the link. Unfortunately I swear we could post nothing in an ad but pictures and rates and we would still get messages asking for pics and rates lol. We just have to take the good and ignore the lazy.