Maybe every provider should consider giving a discount for the 1st meeting, things are just too weird/awkward the 1st time

Complete strangers meeting for the 1st time and having sex within the first couple of seconds/minutes of encounter really makes for many times unforeseen hiccups.

It's hard to iron out the wrinkles beforehand because most providers and clients are not comfortable detailing all the explicit things they do or would like to do during an appt. So a client is left with "winging it" with any info gained from reviews and commentary which often leaves a lot out.

There's a lot of things both parties might have different preferences on; and even though the client is paying he might not have final say plus he wants to acquiesce to the provider's preference because she's providing the service and it's good for her to be as comfortable as possible.

Both parties might be somewhat nervous even subconsciously and this really effects giving your best sexual performance, you're not as carefree and comfortable because it's unfamiliar territory.

Then if u have different preferences like room temperature, too hot/too cold, music on/off, TV on/off, lights on/off, one party doesn't like their face touched, neck touched, hair touched, no smiling, no laughing, no pleasurable sex noises, no talking, unknown rigid sex controls/demands, time constraints, etc. those kinds things really effect the experience and expectations.

Lots of potential for not getting the best bang if you prefer something different to the other party. This is more so a problem when the client is paying a sky high top end full rate/donation. There's not a lot of incentive to book again after naturally a first meeting has to have the kinks worked out. Originally Posted by galaxon00

Working Title: When the Bitch Refuses to Discount for Ineptness

WYF is this guy taking? I seriously have tried to give you benefit of the doubt over your bs over jade but after this post, dude your done in my book. Really, what are you on? If I were you I would close thia account, start a different one and never post again. Due to you showing ignorant you are you are going into the idiot box with a few other well known names and bandles.

If you want a discount on the first session, find a provider that has QV or hh and go with a shorter session that first time. Then if you click see her again for a longer session.
I will not offer discounts other than those specials that I run in my ads for first time visitors.
It's after the second visit that I consider a guy a regular and they will get a special rate.

Strangely though only some people on the Austin board think crazy shit like this. No other cities in Texas do or have the crazy negative shit or psychos that Austin board does. Every other city board just has fun hobbying and looking for new thrills. I guess Austin really is weird lol. Originally Posted by galaxon00

The Houston board says hello and kindly requests that you repost this thread there. I'm sure they'll accept you with loving arms

The Houston board says hello and kindly requests that you repost this thread there. I'm sure they'll accept you with loving arms Originally Posted by SpiceItUp

Done:

What does Houston think about this topic originally posted in Austin?

The Houston board says hello and kindly requests that you repost this thread there. I'm sure they'll accept you with loving arms Originally Posted by SpiceItUp

Hahahaha the lovely Houston board

Done:

What does Houston think about this topic originally posted in Austin? Originally Posted by YummyMarie

I'm pretty sure most won't care about some random dude giving an opinion lol.

If you want a discount on the first session, find a provider that has QV or hh and go with a shorter session that first time. Then if you click see her again for a longer session.
I will not offer discounts other than those specials that I run in my ads for first time visitors.
It's after the second visit that I consider a guy a regular and they will get a special rate. Originally Posted by TemptationTammie

No I don't want a discount, just throwing a hypothetical out there. I'm just saying for example if a client is paying something like $500 an hour or more, I would expect him to have his preference if he wanted something like the lights on or off during a session. But every provider is different in THEIR preferences, which the client doesn't know everything about. I wouldn't even think to ask something like that before booking, and most other things like what I mentioned in the OP, plus some providers don't even talk about details over the phone or have it in their menu or reviews or comments. So you already paid top high end rate and you know afterwards you can't even have your preference in something like the lights being on/off or make sounds during sex. That in combination with the first time is mostly always a little or a lot awkward. It kinda feels like you got burned a little or a lot at those rates smh lol.

I feel like it has nothing to do with skills though, if they're pretty rigid about personal preferences that you didn't know about and had no way of knowing about beforehand, there's nothing your "skills" can do to change that lol. Originally Posted by galaxon00

It has everything to do with skill.

How you screen.
How you let the lady know what you want as to have a sucseful session.
How you act in a session and can make a session you might think is going bad a good session.

Hobbying is a skill not just fucking providers. Asking for a discount becouse you don't have the hobby skills is dumb.

IB

You clearly haven't been reading/understanding my posts on this thread smh. #readingcomprehesion

Sure, as all the providers in this thread are jumping in line to give you your discount becouse you cant communicate with them and if you have a bad session you don't want to pay full pice. I comprehend that, do you!

IB

No cause I don't want no discount foo. I'm just throwing this out there as a hypothetical and something to think about. And I never said I had any bad sessions. #readingcomprehesion

Okay, let me know how it works out for you!

IB

Well I'll probably be way over cautious when booking to a fault.

As will the providers

IB