Donation Clarity

Just one of the reasons why I may be concerned when I receive a "what is your donation" inquiry is because some clients unfortunately use that as a coded pitch to initiate negotiating. I understand that is not at all where you are coming from Spanky. If one is asking simply to clarify because there is a discrepancy between what is listed on different sites, maybe that can be stated in the inquiry.

It does make sense to me how it could be easy to not look over a companion's website, profile, or showcase if you've already met in the past. But it doesn't hurt to do so. And if she is at all concerned about refreshing her portfolio, there might even be some enticing new images up as a tangential benefit for taking the extra time.

Just one of the reasons why I may be concerned when I receive a "what is your donation" inquiry is because some clients unfortunately use that as a coded pitch to initiate negotiating. I understand that is not at all where you are coming from Spanky. If one is asking simply to clarify because there is a discrepancy between what is listed on different sites, maybe that can be stated in the inquiry.

It does make sense to me how it could be easy to not look over a companion's website, profile, or showcase if you've already met in the past. But it doesn't hurt to do so. And if she is at all concerned about refreshing her portfolio, there might even be some enticing new images up as a tangential benefit for taking the extra time. Originally Posted by Lena Duvall

Thanks, Lena. Well-reasoned as always.

That is unfortunate about clients using the donation question as a negotiation opener. I believe in Arkansas there is also extra incentive for ladies not to talk about it from a legal standpoint. So I've heard, anyway.

Would charging a higher rate for GFE,daty,kissing be considered upselling? Asking for a friend

Would charging a higher rate for GFE,daty,kissing be considered upselling? Asking for a friend Originally Posted by BobSmoot

Nope, upselling is when you get the guy to your room with the impression of him only spending $$, and then adding on extras for extras then.

Know the difference....

Actually its the very definition in the business world


Upselling is a strategy to sell a more expensive version of a product that the customer already has (or is buying), or to add extra features or add-ons to that product.

The product or service in this case a girl...is available for "xyz".. but for an additional "xyz" you get the same girl just more service..i.e and upsell

While classically this is done in the room..anytime there is a base price and an upgraded service that is an upsell..

Its often used in the business world to garner more money from an already existing customer..they already do business with you..so u offer them more for a higher price

Would charging a higher rate for GFE,daty,kissing be considered upselling? Asking for a friend Originally Posted by BobSmoot

I kinda wish I ASKED about 1.5 & 2 hour policies Usually the 1st time I meet ladies I like to chat a bit Being an old man can't recover like I did in teensx & twenties lol Otherwise is is let's get to busines

I disagree with the thick bbw, you have your opinion and I have mine...I have a choice if I want to do GFE or not, and the reason I do the extra is to weed out the guys I probably wouldn't want to do gfe to anyways, we do business differently, get over it... I'm sorry Your husband let's you suck all the bare penises you want for $100 bucks a pop in cars ..that's your business, I personally would never, if it got that bad for business, I would retire...:/

I kinda wish I ASKED about 1.5 & 2 hour policies Usually the 1st time I meet ladies I like to chat a bit Being an old man can't recover like I did in teensx & twenties lol Otherwise is is let's get to busines Originally Posted by ddepthroatme

I prefer longer dates, than the wam bam thank you ma'am! I like to get to know who I'm about to engage with, it makes everything feel better and I'm more relaxed.

Actually its the very definition in the business world


Upselling is a strategy to sell a more expensive version of a product that the customer already has (or is buying), or to add extra features or add-ons to that product.

The product or service in this case a girl...is available for "xyz".. but for an additional "xyz" you get the same girl just more service..i.e and upsell

While classically this is done in the room..anytime there is a base price and an upgraded service that is an upsell..

Its often used in the business world to garner more money from an already existing customer..they already do business with you..so u offer them more for a higher price Originally Posted by BBWDeAnna

This is literally the definition of upsell... 😐

I disagree with the thick bbw, you have your opinion and I have mine...I have a choice if I want to do GFE or not, and the reason I do the extra is to weed out the guys I probably wouldn't want to do gfe to anyways, we do business differently, get over it... I'm sorry Your husband let's you suck all the bare penises you want for $100 bucks a pop in cars ..that's your business, I personally would never, if it got that bad for business, I would retire...:/ Originally Posted by BabyDallass

Where is this hostility coming from? You have more posts on this thread than there are responses. Why personal insults when she addressed a question someone else asked? I find it quite amusing how many of you ladies I've seen hang themselves when given enough rope. Psycho babble is a big turn off to most of us here.

I agree BabyDalass.
Like my dad used to say when we were kids.
Life isn't meant to be fair!
That is part of what is wrong with society these days!
Not much different then when a hobbyist wrights in a review YMMV. Or when a provider has mostly yes recommendations and an occasional no could be a bad day or something rose a red flag to either.

I agree BabyDalass.
Like my dad used to say when we were kids.
Life isn't meant to be fair!
That is part of what is wrong with society these days!
Not much different then when a hobbyist wrights in a review YMMV. Or when a provider has mostly yes recommendations and an occasional no could be a bad day or something rose a red flag to either. Originally Posted by tinman483

Thank you love, it's all the same. I used to get attacked for not being GFE, now I get attacked for not doing it at the prices other girls do it for, too bad. I'm not those other girls. We all have a choice to do what we feel most comfortable with. I do what works

Where is this hostility coming from? You have more posts on this thread than there are responses. Why personal insults when she addressed a question someone else asked? I find it quite amusing how many of you ladies I've seen hang themselves when given enough rope. Psycho babble is a big turn off to most of us here. Originally Posted by Dunlop

You must not know how bbw is? All her post are hostile and are as long as novels...she had that coming from ten post ago...

WOW I don't get that shit either way it is your business no different than one store selling the same item (tho I have never met one provider 'the same' as another) for a lower price!

WOW I don't get that shit either way it is your business no different than one store selling the same item (tho I have never met one provider 'the same' as another) for a lower price! Originally Posted by tinman483

I'm glad someone understands how refreshing! You my man are the real MVP!