I read this thread and see a double standard from the men. Seems it is alright for lady to be married but one poster on here, Wakeup, I think is married to a provider and men here tear him apart. So, it is not a problem if she is married but it is a problem if a man marries a provider?
Or is it the honesty opinions he gives, maybe it is the manner in which he delivers his opinions. His words have truth to them at times. His delivery can be abrasive though. Some of you have said things like "I shot my load all over your wife last night." That is just mean and nasty. Or is it that you guys can be envious of him, he actually landed her, not only does he get to do with her what you have to pay for but he gets to spend your money she earned. That is a man that is wanted hy a beautiful woman and yet you are wanted for your cash. Is that it? Howany here has had a woman want to give him sex so bad she gave him money? If we were honest, like people in internet always are, I would guess zero.
Listen to him, he talks, sleeps, eats with a provider every day he has insight and knowledge none of you will ever obtain. Why is alright forprovioder to be married to a man but the man is degraded if he is married to a provider?
Originally Posted by gentlemantoo
Very interesting observation and perspective. My bf is kinna protective of me, but I believe it is more out of a conscious knowledge of exactly what you mention coupled with a hint of insecurity and fear of losing this valued possession... but when it comes from other men as you've illustrated, it almost sounds like the way a lot of females are perceived... catty, gossip-y... etc.
What do others see?