Best Part of the Massage

Spreading my crack after raising up on my knees. Playing with and teasing my asshole

The massage is 50% of it to me. The extras are the other 50%.

MASSAGE ... You mention forehead and temples. I will agree with that but don't mess with my scalp!! A few have mentioned feet. I see no issue with that. I am very ticklish but am sure you know how to sense this with various clients. For me, the best part of the massage is the neck/shoulders/back & manhood as that is where I store all my stress.

EXTRAS ... Forgive me for not knowing what you already offer for extras. I agree there shouldn't be any haggling or upcharge. You should have 1 rate based on time. If the hobbyist doesn't want all that you offer, then so be it. Many have mentioned the reach under or reach between while face down. I highly enjoy that. I will add here that most of my experiences are 1 hour. In that hour, she massages for 50-55 minutes and then extra for the last 5-10 minutes. If you want to be unique, focus on your clients manhood several times during the session. You don't have to bring him to a HE with each moment of focus. Bring him to the edge several times during the session. And you can do that from several angles and via several methods. Also, learn your repeat clients. Some have different physical abilities. For those that can release their male stress, recover, and release their male stress twice in 1 hour ... match that ability.

Hard to quickly learn a new client. However, on repeat clients, have a conversation with them to see what they desire from the session ... and then match that desire with a desire to get everything out of your client that is physically possible.

OK, I will be the guy that has to be different.....
I'm not all that interested in having by feet rubbed, and, for me, the "reach under" isn't really very high on my list. I like lots of attention to my arms and neck, and also like the scalp and temples massage - as long as you don't get oil or lotion all in my hair. I also love the sensation of breasts rubbing up and down my back.
Regarding the reach under part, I prefer to totally concentrate on the relaxing part of the massage, then flip and totally focus on the attention to the front.

Its nice to see a provider doing a little market research, makes me interested. Old guy new to hobby.... but setting expectations up prior to the session makes everyone more relaxed and I don't have to lay there more worried about whats going to happen and I can fully relax. I have seen providers more on once where the initial visit was better then subsequent. I like the teasing, and being able to play a little. I am an ass man all the way so the more we can mutually explore the backside, the better for me. Just my humble opinion.... but kudo's for asking!

I agree with the reach under and teasing. But I like the teasing to be subtle at first, almost like the touch was unintentional. Then slowly do more and more. That gets me a lot more worked up than the just flip and grab.

The best part of the massage is after the flip, she’s stroking your hard dick with one hand and head, shoulders, chest with the other, then she leans in and whispers, “Can I kiss you?”...It’s all strawberries & cream after that!!

I think Massages are all very personalized based on what's aching but in general....

1) Feet and ankles. My best massages have had firm ankle and foot work. Heavy thumb work on the sold and up through the arch. Strong finger massaging of the ankle joint and working the achilles both extended and relaxed. Toe pulls and stretches as well.

2) Calve work, heavy finger pressure up and down the back and front of the lower legs.

3) Face, scalp and temple massages.


4) Hands and forearm work, similar to the feet/lower leg. Most of us spend a lot of time with a keyboard, so there is a lot of benefit from this.

As far as the 'bonus' aspect....

1) Taint, prostate, ball work.
2) Nibbling neck and earlobes or nipples while working the shaft etc
3) Warm oiled body to body while working on the front or back with her straddled. Its the constant soft warm body to body contact.

For me, Billogoods nailed it. The areas that don’t normally get attention - deserve some. All of the body contact - breasts, hands, ass, and the move, while face down, when the masseuse straddles my arm that is hanging down. Basically putting her sweet spot on my upper arm/shoulder. That to me is game on!

Seduction. The roaming oopsie touches, light brushes of my starfish and fellas, leaning forward so I can feel her breasts against my arm or back or head. It’s about teasing me, slowly testing the waters to see how I react, and the reach under. I had one masseuse that started licking and kissing my legs, worked up towards my butt and then moved to my neck, shoulders and down my back. She kissed all over my butt and then parted my butt cheeks and started tonguing my starfish.

The worst part? She stopped and asked me to flip over. Ugh.

As far as the massage, it depends on the individual but for me, I love head/face massages - I’ve always thought the best ones were those that put me to sleep, that’s relaxing! But my neck, shoulders and back always need a massage.

And guys, for the feet, foot massages are great but go get a pedicure. First, go on a Saturday and the place is full of ladies getting manicure’s and pedicure’s, and some are quite hot - and a guy getting one is an instant conversation starter. And the pedicures do wonderful things for your feet - the one definite place on a guys body we seldom pay attention too anyway. Once you start, you will be addicted!

So a few of you have come to visit after I posted this thread. I’m taking it all to heart and using the information... I love it!!

Best part of the massage is me ending up with a pile, or two, of man seed !



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My current subamp girl gives me kisses all up and down my back. It drives me crazy!

Also, fingernails down the back is nice too.

I also enjoy the head massages. Especially since I'm bald. Providers can really go to town on me. lol

Good to know. I love giving a sensual massage!

Everyone has a different set of needs and wants, so asking a couple of questions as you begin caressing ... “where can I relieve some sore spots on your body?” ... and as you massage near my neck and shoulders ask “would you like to tell me where I can caress you or do you want me to discover what turns you on?” A soft voice in my ear when asking these questions are a turn on. I enjoy a firm shoulder, neck and low back massage followed by a gentle massage of my temples and face. I’m turned on by a woman leaning over my face to caress my chest and nipples, feeling and breathing in her hair, her breasts is a turn on. I’m sure I can think of much more.

i find most guys like some tongue action at the end of the massage
--the icing on the cake!!!