IOP is overrated

+1 on IOP.
It's nice to feel wanted and appreciated once in awhile.

When I started in the hobby, I thought IOP would be unimportant to me. I was wrong.

Ding ding ding. We have a winner! Yes exactly!!!
Just enjoy a good fuck or fuck the best you can and don’t make it something it’s not. Originally Posted by FunMonday

Who doesn't enjoy just a good fuck

Word, mag, I can’t do the robotic stuff. I need interest, acted or genuine. If it happens, it’s real.

Maybe it’s just me but the more “encounters” I have over the years the less I want the illusion of passion, or kissing etc. Anyone else like this?

Of course I still like passion and foreplay but it seems like I would rather get busy right way and have instant gratification after years and years of trying to figure women out. Lol. Thank God for this hobby Originally Posted by FunMonday

I agree to an extent.

For me personally, if I want anything other than good fun in the bedroom, I look to or get a girlfriend. I'm not into LFK or DFK with anyone other than someone I'm some kind of exclusive with.


However, I wouldn't want to see a provider and she is a dead fish or just a warm body to masturbate with, so I guess I'm somewhere in the middle.

However, I wouldn't want to see a provider and she is a dead fish or just a warm body to masturbate with, so I guess I'm somewhere in the middle. Originally Posted by YourHonor

I’m similar to you on this. While I prefer real passion as opposed to the illusion, if get with a girl and she’s a dead fish or clearly not interested or as others above me stated, won’t hardly let you touch her, then I don’t enjoy the session myself. It’s one of the reasons I went to sugar babies instead of providers.

I have a “thing” whatever you want to call it, that makes it where I can’t or won’t cum, if my partner is not enjoying sex. I met up with one massage therapist that when we decided to go beyond a massage, I started to lick her and work on her, she warned me it took her a long time to cum, but she relaxed, I worked on her clit with my tongue for probably 30 minutes before she finally got hers. Once she got hers, I was able to let go and get mine. Some providers either can’t cum or dont’ want to cum (I had one tell me she refuses to cum on the first encounter with a client - needless to say, I didn’t cum either on that visit and that was the only time I saw her).

Passion (real or a very good fake) is critical to a session with me. Especially if you want a repeat customer.

I am to the age where "faking it" is too much work. Lol..I would much rather just enjoy it all!!

but hey don't want dfk or any of the mushy stuff I go with it . .. but a good kisser to me is a good lick'er at the Y

I am to the age where "faking it" is too much work. Lol..I would much rather just enjoy it all!! Originally Posted by DallasRain

Lol true

I am a naturally multi orgasmic kinda lady. I even can have "mind" orgasms!

Hell bite my left nipple and you will see just what raw passion is!!!!!!

When I started in the hobby, I thought IOP would be unimportant to me. I was wrong. Originally Posted by mag7315

Yep. This was exactly where I was when I started. My very first encounter was with a more mature lady who was very into kissing. It actually surprised me, after all the mainstream notion of the hobby, "no kissing" and all that. It didn't take me long before I really began to value IOP. Sometimes when I realize it's fake it does take me out of it. Such as, when I thought we were both enjoying a good 69, she was moaning and twitching, then suddenly tells me in a very matter of fact tone, "No fingers. I don't want them in there." When she goes right back to what I then knew to be fake passion, I was already thinking about busting my nut quickly and getting out of there.

This is my hobby too. I'm not gonna fake anything. Some gents don't care if we get ours and that's ok. Their time, their hobby, their money. My repeat clients are amazingly attentative and I truly appreciate the guys who want us BOTH to have fun. Faking is WAY too much work. No thank you.

IOP the only way to go , even if its fake makes me hott

IOP the only way to go , even if its fake makes me hott Originally Posted by rexdutchman

yes, it is funny how that works.. sex is so primitive that even when you know 100% that she is faking, the visceral part of you dismisses it, and overrides the intellect.. that is while you are with a woman.


if you are by yourself, the old saying that 90% of sex is between the ears kicks in.. the imagination can make up for a lot.

Yup let me at least think you want it and I'm good ( therein is the issue w/ SO s they don't even fake it )

I haven't experienced many with zero IOP. When I have it's not nearly as good. I'm pretty sure there's been times when a girl has told me she's going to cum and it seemed pretty quick as if she just wants me to cum. Not me, I just say I hope you have another one in you. Lol. If it's MSOG I might just release it and go again.