Was I in the wrong? I'd love to get the thoughts from both men & women.

Ouch. A beautiful woman saying she didn't know about his wife is like a slap to her face... even in passing HE should have mentioned her. So its not your fault in any way. But definitely not a great choice of words lol

Yep, your wrong choice of words. Should have just said “Nice to meet you.” Or even better response would have been “Nice to meet you. ______ talks about you all the time when I’m at the shop getting work done on my car.” That way she knew how you knew her husband.

This!!!

Yep, your wrong choice of words. Should have just said “Nice to meet you.” Or even better response would have been “Nice to meet you. ______ talks about you all the time when I’m at the shop getting work done on my car.” That way she knew how you knew her husband. Originally Posted by DoubleEagle

Yep, your wrong choice of words. Should have just said “Nice to meet you.” Or even better response would have been “Nice to meet you. ______ talks about you all the time when I’m at the shop getting work done on my car.” That way she knew how you knew her husband. Originally Posted by DoubleEagle

Sure beats saying your husband mentions you when he's motorboating me.

Do you have the cleaning lady’s number? Originally Posted by Michael8219

Hehe. That must be a good looking 90-year old!!! If she has some nice boobs, I’ll take the number as well.

Back to the question, I would’ve said “Hello, it’s nice to meet you.” However, I don’t think it’s your fault. It’s odd that he never mentioned her in the 10 years that ya’ll have known each other. I most definitely agree that he has cheated on her in the past.

THIS VVVV


If I could do it all over again, I would have just replied with "nice to meet you".

I'm just wondering how much of a grilling the poor schmo got at home and how long he'll be in the doghouse.

should have put her at ease by saying not to worry you don't have any feelings for him you are an escort

Because of the nature of one's work, it is not prudent to wear any sort of ring or jewelry due to the possibility of it getting caught on something and ripping your finger off. Especially a mechanic who constantly has his hand around moving parts. Originally Posted by latinluvr465

Yep. Can’t wear a ring if she has a snapper. Not counting a vibrating cock ring.

And then add after 10 years of knowing him there’s no way I would marry him. I mean he’s alright for you…

I appreciate everyone's replies, sadly I don't have time to read & respond to them until tomorrow, but as soon as I get a few minutes to myself, I'll certainly reply.

should have put her at ease by saying not to worry you don't have any feelings for him you are an escort Originally Posted by OtherChevyGuy

Hmm. No, that's the worst thing she could've said. How would that make the wife feel better?

There is no response needed on this one. You were wrong. When he said this is my wife your response should have been simply hey how are you doing. What part of your mind would think it's okay for a woman to tell another woman you didn't know he had a wife. Cmon Brooke. You were wrong. All you had to say was glad to meet you, he talks about you all the time or say nothing. 99 .9 percent of women would have an issue with what you said. It was disrespectful and a slight.

Hmm. No, that's the worst thing she could've said. How would that make the wife feel better? Originally Posted by Alyssa71

its called sarcasm

Men or woman using excuses that they can't wear their wedding band is lame, they aren't working 24 hours a day.
My Dad worked around construction machinery everyday and never lost a finger but he understood safety precautions. Same thing as saying, I can't wear leather gloves at work or any type of machinery will rip my entire hand off,thick leather is very strong.

its called sarcasm Originally Posted by OtherChevyGuy

Gotcha. It’s hard to tell over text.