When A Provider Wants To Get To Know A Hobbyist ... How Much Convo Is Really Necessary To Be Comfortable With Performing A Session? A Question Asked ... By A "voice" That Cries Out In The Wilderness = )

really, they charge for chat in Texas.

Guessing I too use to hour or two of chat with a provider that knows me well. Hour of my time. Then back to chat for 1/2 hour or more. But only paid for my time.

Initials at least.... Give us something man!!

Sorry you had such a terrible time. Dragging out a conversation about weather and traffic is clearly an attempt to waste your time and is unacceptable. The best providers know how to move a session along and usually can't wait to get their hands on you. Personally, I prefer to save the chit chat for a rest break or at the end of our session unless I have seen the girl before.

What costume were you wearing?

When I meet a newbie or semi newbie I share a little info about myself (in a timely manner), it relieves tension and I gain trust and a friend. I believe it makes him comfortable with me to come back and suck his cajones dry again!

Usually during recovery after round 1!

Truthfully there is a lot more to (us) than this board.


I don't ask hobbyist questions, as long as he isn't the popo or there to cause me any harm, I'm great!

What costume were you wearing? Originally Posted by GlobeSpotter

GlobeSpotter! seriously tho! we want him to help out!

In response to Eccie Addict and everyone who shares my dissatisfaction with being in this situation. I have chosen not to name the Provider for the following 3 reasons:

1. I have observed throughout my years on Eccie, that posting a negative review on the Coed discussions sections, can be more counterproductive than productive. Not only will it create unnecessary controversy, drama, and backfire on the OP, but it will generate big business $$$$$ opportunities, the chance of shining in the spotlight for her, and 15 seconds of fame for the Provider. There seems to be hobbyists who get turned on and sexually aroused over hearing of other's misfortunes, and look for such Providers to see in the hopes of disproving a negative review poster.

2. The white knights will come out in full force to protect her, while she opens a big bag of popcorn and enjoys watching ... the epic battle unfolding between her white knights and myself.

3. Like I said previously, I believe that by me not acknowledging her and denying her existence and never seeing her again, ever ... is fair enough. I walk away from her and I will never look back. I choose to remain silent ... there is no 15 seconds of fame, no epic apocalyptic battle between hobbyists, no Oscar awards or Golden Globes, no popcorn for her ... what she did to me was bad enough in itself. I wish to move on and forget this bad episode of my hobby life.

I have had many negative hobby encounters during my time in this hobby. But all of the ones that were positive, good, and that made me happy ... I make public and enjoy sharing with everyone. The ones that were horrible, terrible, and left me unhappy ... I allow them to be forgotten and they remain unworthy of any mention in the pages of my hobby history. I see no merit in even mentioning them, as Wakeup said ... it is "useless".

You're actually not going to name her? Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

Originally Posted by H.Hardhat

Thanks for letting your fellow mutts know whom to avoid.

Oh, wait.

Never mind. Originally Posted by Don T. Lukbak

Fucking useless... Originally Posted by Wakeup

Shouldn't this be in alerts?

Joking of course..

Why should we care if you don't name the dame? Originally Posted by drax1

Why not? That type of information could save another Fucktard a lot of time and money.... Originally Posted by Russ38

At least tell me if its a spinner? Originally Posted by tbone77494

That's BS IMHO. Provider should have either not clocked the convo or at least given you the opportunity to take the cash and leave.

Looking forward to the review. That's a good way to help us all out. Originally Posted by HoustonDan

Sorry you had such a terrible time. Dragging out a conversation about weather and traffic is clearly an attempt to waste your time and is unacceptable. The best providers know how to move a session along and usually can't wait to get their hands on you. Personally, I prefer to save the chit chat for a rest break or at the end of our session unless I have seen the girl before.

Originally Posted by gt1369

really, they charge for chat in Texas.

Guessing I too use to hour or two of chat with a provider that knows me well. Hour of my time. Then back to chat for 1/2 hour or more. But only paid for my time. Originally Posted by offshoredrilling

Yup

I feel for you on that one. I do my fair share of talking and I'm usually the instigator. also, we've way over used the session time but I've never had a girl rush the satisfaction part of the session (cept maybe one but it wasn't really rushing since we didn't run out of time). the others though, we went over time and finished the satisfaction/needs part of the session. no yelling, no muss, no fuss, and had a great time.

Most of the time I have good experiences, it's just the terrible hobby experiences that make me get upset.

and ugh! letting you know you were in the way of another appointment. that sounds like poor customer service to me and a turn off. which could be a whole thread on its own and I think has been addressed directly and/or indirectly in other threads. Originally Posted by JustMeCLTXGG

I saw a big stack of used towels in her bathroom. It seems she was really "busy" that day.

Fucked up and sounds like a classic "Let's talk baby" scam to me.

I went on a session recently but before I did I pinged a fellow hobbyist to give me intel on this chic. He basically told me to stay away. Of course I didn't and so I went in and was disappointed. I texted him back and said you were right and I'm happy to say that I'm a fucking moron and should have listened. - lol

It happens; just charge it to the game. Good luck man Originally Posted by Zanzibar789

I agree with you Mr. Z. I will do better research next time.

That sounds brutal. I don't mind a few quick questions after saying hello and after round 1. But I don't want to spend the whole time talking. Originally Posted by mr666

I agree Mr.666 , I'm not there to talk either.

I've seen one lady that wanted to talk, planned for an hour and she talked for half that time I was getting a little worried about the shortened fun time but once we stared I was enjoying myself. When it was time to leave I was happy to find that the convocation time did not subtract from the fun time.

If a lady wants convo, she need to plan ahead

If only there were a place where you could post info that only the guys could see, and they couldn't talk about it in public. That way even if you didn't want to do so publicly you could actually share real information that could be useful to someone.

Oh wait, it already exists. It's called the Men's lounge.

couldn't Originally Posted by SpiceItUp

? :P that's very SpiceItUp-timist of you! they could, they're just not supposed to.

and as has been speculated much, in an attempt to win favor from the young (old?) maiden, someone would inform the accused.

I think they have an icon for that -

AC666 when you've been around a little with as many reviews such as yourself I would think you would be at a point you find it more important to share information than worry about drama.

The way to avoid drama is to state the facts then not respond any further. It's actually easier than you think.

To your comment that you don't post no reviews.....

There is really only one reason you don't do that. You simply don't want to post anything negative cause you are too concerned about not being able to see who you may want to see. Surely you know by now being truthful is not going to hurt your reputation in the way you think. SIU is a prime example of that. Geeez I fell off the deep end once and started multiple threads along with a no review and that has never stopped me from being able to see who I choose to see.

Now maliciously trying to tarnish someone's reputation because you didn't get your way like some child is a different case but that is not the case here.

Oh well one day you will learn to walk

@ the OP....TL;DR your first post

However, I do echo the sentiments of all those who said that this thread is useless unless you name her...

Oh and btw, how many of your "Yes" reviews should have been "No" reviews since you don't write "No" reviews

Is this a review board / forum?
Yeah, that's what I thought.