Why is screening so hard for some guys???

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Just post your thoughts in open forum.

I was going to start a thread on screening!! How funny!!

I don't know why it is so hard to give 3 provider references. I contact them through p411 and wait for a response. So many guys have contacted me for an appointment through Eccie but not one has panned out due to no response from the ladies or not having references. Then they write me back saying don't worry about it; they found someone else. This is why I rarely use Eccie; time wasters!!

Just post your thoughts in open forum. Originally Posted by pyramider

I was trying to agree with her and just add a smart ass remark and thought it was funny that this was the response I got from the system.

P411 is EVERYBODY'S friend! Just saying

Lazy wankers, who needs 'em. And too lazy to PM? Piss off.

And WTF are you ladies feeding your boobs? Jeez...not a complaint, mind you, just sayin...wooooooo ha, a whole thread full of chix with BIG boobs!

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If you are trying to send this message to multiple recipients, remove KennedyLayneDFW from the recipient list and send the message again. Originally Posted by FishGuy13

I noticed the same thing. I'd love to meet up with this local cutie and her fabulous boobs, but I can't PM her. Kennedy, if you read this please send me a PM!

Getting screened is usually pretty simple, occasionally I will have a lady take a while I not sure why.

I'll chime in. I am one of the guys that can't give two or three refs. I will explain why. I'm not sure that this is common but I just wanted to show that there are guys that legitimately can't give out the number required by some women.

I am kind of selective and when I find something I like, I will more than likely stick with it. I have seen one girl consistantly for right at a year. She is not available to verify this. I have seen one other lady more than twice, but the last time I saw her was about the first quarter of the year, so that's not really recent, and some women may not find that acceptible. Another aspect of it is that the truth is, sometimes women are not into giving references for whatever reason.

Now if you require a name and two references, that is not unreasonable at all. I just dont give my last name. Once I made an exception and handed my DL to a certain young lady because I really wanted to meet her and I wanted her to feel more comfortable. I doubt I will do that again for someone else. So that's kind of a drawback for being selective, if you only hang out with one or two girls then if they are not available it's almost like you start over in a way if you meet someone new or are interested in meeting someone else.

But all is not lost. I have found that there are women out there that are cool about working with you. I just try to explain the situation to them and sometimes it works and sometimes I may not get to meet someone because I don't pass their screening. I don't have p411 and I am not really interested in getting it. But that's just me.

I am in the same boat as B. Wayne as I am very selective when choosing a lady to hobby with so I never have recent references. I also will not sign up for P411 or any other screening service. I see only those ladies that are drama free and that act like they have a brain in their head. I would never see one if I didn't think I might want to see her multiple times.

I treat them with respect and advise them of my situation and it usually works out. Seems to work for me in most cases.

I can't speak for anyone else but it's hard for me because I just don't do this often enough to have refrences. I've seen 1 provider this year. Before her I hadn't seen one since 2005. I know you have to screen people but not having 2 references may not automatically signal someone is up to no good, and people with 3 references can still do bad things to people. I really don't have a solution to the how to stay safe problem for provider or hobbyist, other than making it legal.

I would have thought a pussy inspector would be inspecting pussy on a more frequent basis. Damn bureaucrats ...

Your screening process seems reasonable enough. If someone isn't willing to comply and more importantly if you don't feel safe based on what their communication, step away. Never compromise your intuition of safety just for a few dollars.

I agree. Screening is simple, and MANDATORY! Wouldn't a client want the provider of his choice to feel safe inviting him over? She'll be much more relaxed and in the mood for 'fun' if he PM's her from ECCIE or P411 and gives her a couple of references to check. I have taken a chance on a couple of complete newbies (we all have to start somewhere), but I make sure I get their full name, occupation, age, employer and do a background check. And of course I never give that information out to anybody, so they can trust in my discretion.
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I don't do it because it's a pain in the ass and there are so many wonderful women who don't require it.