ONE MONTH TODAY!!

Hey Captain,

I thought this was the Sandbox.. Originally Posted by malwoody

It is OK, but don't shit in the Sandbox.

It is OK, but don't shit in the Sandbox. Originally Posted by old-tyme-racer

Don't trust a cat then. ijs

Jackie I would prefer to pull your hair while taking you the happy bottom riding club for an hour. And I would still respect you. Even if you don't answer my emails, calls, cards letters or standing in front of your incall with an erection.

OMG - someone actually did that years ago - stood in the hallway with his pants down around his ankles, - NO LIE - Dennis had to DNS him and Dale ("theotherguy" that did phones and security) had to drive over and remove him (physically) from my incall location . . . talk about a weird fucking day. Full moon, that happened, Dennis got arrested for calling a cop a bunch of names in a traffic stop while driving over to help me (that is why Dale had to come), I had two NC/NS Agency calls after all of that . . . I went home, called it a day, I had enough. I didn't "time on" with the Agency for a week after that . . . too weird.

I'm selling magnifying glass if any one needs one

Jackie I would prefer to pull your hair while taking you the happy bottom riding club for an hour. And I would still respect you. Even if you don't answer my emails, calls, cards letters or standing in front of your incall with an erection. Originally Posted by Bartman1963

Hope you've got the right stuff for that, Bartman.

Just wanted to say hi , and let everyone know as of today I have been a MOD for one month.
I know, I know it is hard to believe, time goes by so fast even when your not having fun.

Since I am now out of my probation period, I think it is time to right some wrongs and wrong some rights.

First off let me get one thing clear right of the bat.. I DO NOT GIVE A RATS ASS if you like me or Respect me.

But I will not stand around while someone is showing blatant disregard for the rules!
And total disrespect for ANY member of this board.

Lately there has been a lot of BASHING of certain members, It will stop now.

If you have any problems with any of our moderating abilities,
it is advised that from this point forward you take it up with us or the Owners privately via Email, RTM or the PM system.
Airing them out in a disrespectful manner on the public forums, WILL NO LONGER BE TOLERATED!
and will be dealt with per theGUIDELINES of this board.

So watch your words very carefully and please HAVE A NICE DAY!
Originally Posted by ElumEno

Oh but you assume to much my little blackwidow queen.

I do not care if you or anyone on this board respects me, but I will expect you and others to treat EVERYONE on this board respectfully.

As for talking to the owners, they have pointed me to read the forum guidelines, I would advise you to do the same.

The only place that there is a almost anything goes mentality would be the PRIVATE forums such as the spider hole.
not any of the public forums for which this is one.
Originally Posted by ElumEno

Burro,

The more I read your reply to me, the more it rubs me the wrong. You say that you expect people to respect you, well how about earning that respect. You didn't earn it with the "lil blackwidow queen" comment. That comment is contemptous. Do you know the meaning of that word or shall I define it for you?

So much for the name calling. If you're going to point me, make sure you point yourself first.

Burro,

The more I read your reply to me, the more it rubs me the wrong. You say that you expect people to respect you, well how about earning that respect. You didn't earn it with the "lil blackwidow queen" comment. That comment is contemptous. Do you know the meaning of that word or shall I define it for you?

So much for the name calling. If you're going to point me, make sure you point yourself first. Originally Posted by MsElena

When you've been gotten...by the short ones(hairs).....LMAO....:roflm ao:

The only advice I'd give you is that before you point someone...make sure it won't get reversed afterward...that doesn't make you look very good...just sayin'...

ElumEno is not playing well in The Sandbox. I agree with MsElena. He seems to be seeking out trouble, much like a bully would.

WOW......things have changed a bit since I last visited..... Looks like it may be a while before I visit again.......

I am not very good at playing games, especially when someones livelihood is at stake.

I also know that I have not earned most of the members respect,
I am too new and too green to be a moderator.
at least that is what most of you think, is it not.

I WILL make mistakes, it is human...

I will try to be honest and fair, but I already know that I will also use my emotions at times...

A lady showed great respect by PM'ing something that she perceived I did that was wrong - it was right after I started modding.
I seen her point, and on that day she earn a lot of my respect.
but respect earned can be taken away in one little post.
Just to bad we all could not show that type of respect at all time.

So if you have any problems with something that I did, then please Email or PM me.. I am a big boy and can take it.
and for the honest part - I will TRY not to hold a grudge!

I am not very good at playing games, especially when someones livelihood is at stake.

I also know that I have not earned most of the members respect,
I am too new and too green to be a moderator.
at least that is what most of you think, is it not.

I WILL make mistakes, it is human...

I will try to be honest and fair, but I already know that I will also use my emotions at times...

A lady showed great respect by PM'ing something that she perceived I did that was wrong - it was right after I started modding.
I seen her point, and on that day she earn a lot of my respect.
but respect earned can be taken away in one little post.
Just to bad we all could not show that type of respect at all time.

So if you have any problems with something that I did, then please Email or PM me.. I am a big boy and can take it.
and for the honest part - I will TRY not to hold a grudge!
Originally Posted by ElumEno

There's no reason that you can't answer for a faux pas in an open thread, and there is no rule that states that you can't be called out for your actions as a mod or a member only via PM or email . . . If you dish it, you take it.

Very nice spin control, but it ignores the issue (the question at hand) which three members have now pointed out to you One Mule . . . you haven't shown, in the "blackwidow" post above, the respect you have asked us all to have for each other - and you call a name, when you state it won't be tolerated, and it is clearly a rules violation.

Is there a reason (other than your chosen reluctance or refusal) that you won't address the issue?? Also, as a moderator, if you're telling us ahead of time in this post that you have a problem holding grudges (and as you state, people's livelihoods are on the line here), is your being a moderator the best thing for the community as a whole in such a circumstance??? I know it makes me reluctant to participate freely and openly . . . I'm sure others may have a similar feeling.

Burro,

The more I read your reply to me, the more it rubs me the wrong. You say that you expect people to respect you, well how about earning that respect. You didn't earn it with the "lil blackwidow queen" comment. That comment is contemptous. Do you know the meaning of that word or shall I define it for you?

So much for the name calling. If you're going to point me, make sure you point yourself first. Originally Posted by MsElena

I did let some personal feeling effect that statement and I do apologize.
The blackwidow statement was completely out of line....

But no where in that statement did I state the I expect people to respect me...

I did state that per the board guidelines that it is expected that you treat ALL members with respect,
and yes right out of the batting cage I failed to do the same with MsElena.
I am big enough to admit that I was wrong.

There's no reason that you can't answer for a faux pas in an open thread, and there is no rule that states that you can't be called out for your actions as a mod or a member only via PM or email . . . If you dish it, you take it.

Very nice spin control, but it ignores the issue (the question at hand) which three members have now pointed out to you One Mule . . . you haven't shown, in the "blackwidow" post above, the respect you have asked us all to have for each other - and you call a name, when you state it won't be tolerated, and it is clearly a rules violation.

Is there a reason (other than your chosen reluctance or refusal) that you won't address the issue?? Also, as a moderator, if you're telling us ahead of time in this post that you have a problem holding grudges (and as you state, people's livelihoods are on the line here), is your being a moderator the best thing for the community as a whole in such a circumstance??? I know it makes me reluctant to participate freely and openly . . . I'm sure others may have a similar feeling. Originally Posted by Jackie Devlin

DAMM Dude..

Now two of those "Widows" have got ahold of them short ones....OUCH..