Guys: If you found your soul mate, would you still hobby?

My daddy always said, "Use the right tool for the right job!" ...

define soul mate.....it still goes back to the forbidden fruit for me. wanting what i cant (oops) can have. everything has a price....are u willing to pay it? i tell my SO all the time that if my dream woman came to be with me...id leave. but i think my taste buds would just change to that of more expensive taste.

so yes...id still hobby....and SC visit

Yes, hobbying is just to get exactly what I want. Sleeping with "bar trash" gets old and sometimes you just need a professionals touch to get it right. Originally Posted by Brian7772

Nicely said sir. Succinct and right to the point. "Bar trash". TFF

I would stop in a heartbeat. I met mine at one point, but wasn't ready to quit my life here. Now that I have quit, I realize that often you don't realize how close you had to the perfect match until they are no longer part of your life. And if you continue to play - you may pay in regret.
As I get older, I realize that life is more (all?) about the connection you have with those you love and as a result, value less and less the variety and vanity that being a provider gave me. I have come to believe that the desperate need for variety is really about trying to fill up the empty spots inside your soul.

If she were truly my soulmate she would want to hobby with me. Originally Posted by boardman

Or if she didn't want to hobby with me, she would encourage my hobbying.

I already know Counselor Civilbarrister answer!

So my question to the guys is-if you found your true soul mate, someone that is all you want and more, is your "dream girl"..would you still hobby? Would you? If you ever found your "dream girl"? Originally Posted by Sweet Heather

I would not hobby again....as long as she would provide me the level of service I have grown to expect via the hobby.

I find my "soul mate" all the time. Sometimes a couple of times a week... lol!!!!! I would definitely still hobby for the simple fact that I pay them to Leave.

My soul mate would be bisexual and adventurous, and we'd seek out playmates together.

It wouldn't even have to be a soul mate. If I got into a serious relationship, I would stop. I only hobby when I'm single.

It wouldn't even have to be a soul mate. If I got into a serious relationship, I would stop. I only hobby when I'm single. Originally Posted by The Nameless One

Ditto..........

Many years ago, I met a woman whom I felt was my soulmate. My mother even suggested that we move in together, but unfortunately it didn't work out. When we were together, I wasn't tempted by anyone else.

LS

It's all about attitude... a Soul Mate would say...

1. Are you sure you've had enough to drink?
2. Shouldn't you be down at the bar with your buddies?
3. That was a great fart...do another one.
4. I've decided to stop wearing clothes around the house.
5. You're so sexy when you're hung over.
6. I'd rather watch football and drink beer with you than go shopping.
7. Let's subscribe to Hustler.
8. Say, lets go to the mall so you can check out other women's asses.
9. I'll be out painting the house.
10. I love it when you play golf on Sunday's...I wish you had time to play on Saturday too.
11. Honey... our new neighbors wife is sunbathing topless again...come see.
12. No, No, I can take the car to get the oil changed.
13. Your mother is wayyy better than mine.
14. Do me a favor, forget the stupid Valentines thing and buy new clubs.
15. I understand fully...our anniversary comes every year...you go hunting with your buddies..it's a great stress reliever.
16. Oh come on, what do ya say we get a porno movie, a six pack and invite one of my girlfriends over for a threesome.
17. Oh no, not the mall again...let's go to a strip club.
18. Listen, I make enough money for the both of us, why don't you retire and get that nagging handicap down to 7 or 8.
19. I'll swallow it all, I love the taste.
20. I'm bored, let's shave my pubes.
21. Would you like to watch me go down on my girlfriend?
22. I know it's tighter back there, but could you please try again?
23. If I don't get to blow you soon, I swear I'm gonna bust.
24. I signed up for yoga so that I can get my ankles behind my head , just for you.

Well, I lasted over twenty years with my SO. Only turned to the hobby when health issues made sex difficult. I could probably tell her, but figured it would not do us much good. I think she would be ok with it but why take chances if I don't need to. She might even join me if she could. We've done the SC thing together many times before and we both loved it.

i am not a guY, i hope You dont mind, but i will still hobby after a SO.