Deposits and Personal Info

Deposits I feel should be situational, If you cancel or bail on me 2+ times then absolutely.. Personal info, just enough goods that I know you aren't a serial killer or LE

I don’t do deposits simply because if I’m meeting someone new and they aren’t who they say they are, then my deposit is useless cause I’m walking away. I’ve never stood up a lady ever. But I’ve been scammed before. The giving of personal info is just not an option. That is the whole point of this hobby. Discretion. If I wanted to give someone my personal info they could use against me later I would go get a girlfriend.

I got scammed on a deposit from a person who was suppose to be a porn stars agent Her website derected me to the agent $500 lesson learned so I never do deposits now

I don't give out personal info or make deposits. Don't even use a phone capable of cash apps. I have been on here for a long time and have never stood a lady up. If that is not good enough, there just will not be a date. Simplicity.

Nicole you said that very nicely
I have a couple ladies that will ask for clarification of my messages if that don't understand them( they know me quite well)
and then they understand what I meant witch was completely different than what they thought Originally Posted by CatMan4u

Exactly!!

There are a few ladies on this board even that I would really like to see but not worth the chance of personal info or tracking a deposit back to me. There are a few on here that I believe are reputable that ask for deposits but the reason I won’t pay their deposit is because of what can be tracked back to me. Not worth losing sleep for years over. Originally Posted by stiffey1

Understand that completely!
That is why it’s best to have a few reputable references from reputable ladies!

I don't give out personal info or make deposits. Don't even use a phone capable of cash apps. I have been on here for a long time and have never stood a lady up. If that is not good enough, there just will not be a date. Simplicity. Originally Posted by tuckahoe

Tuck you have enough reputable references you are just fine! Including myself as one!!
Most of the deposits an info ladies ask for are for the brand new guys!!

I don’t do deposits simply because if I’m meeting someone new and they aren’t who they say they are, then my deposit is useless cause I’m walking away. I’ve never stood up a lady ever. But I’ve been scammed before. The giving of personal info is just not an option. That is the whole point of this hobby. Discretion. If I wanted to give someone my personal info they could use against me later I would go get a girlfriend. Originally Posted by scotchgus

That’s why it’s important to have reputable references from ladies

I would be fine with a deposit if it is reasonable (cost of the room) and could protect my privacy but most cash apps do not make me feel my privacy is safe.

Any ones you all use that you still feel safe and annon? Originally Posted by howdywho

Exactly! An that’s why I like cash app you can use different name an make a brand new email!!
Only thing connected would be a card of yours
That’s how mine is set up! So no personal info is known what so ever !

Discretion is the better part of valor Originally Posted by Jack Scheidt

Yes it is!

Understand that completely!
That is why it’s best to have a few reputable references from reputable ladies! Originally Posted by Nicolefoxx1

That’s the problem… A newbie can’t get references from anyone reputable without providing personal info….

That’s the problem… A newbie can’t get references from anyone reputable without providing personal info…. Originally Posted by MoDriverguy

The key word is reputable. The best way to approach as a newbie is to explain your situation with a lady in a respectable fashion and if it doesn't sound too intrusive then proceed forward. If your not comfortable with it pass and look around.

As Baconman says don't take it that a provider is "reputable " by the number of reviews she might have, you can get your ass toasted in heartbeat by giving out your RW info. If you are unable to see her by keeping your info safe screw it move on.

I think asking for a few references is fair. But then the flip side of the coin is that I HATE bothering the past providers. I know many of them get so many phone calls from Johns “kicking the tires” and I don’t want to be one of those.

But like I said there are providers on here that I would like to see and would absolutely trust with a deposit but I just can’t risk any info getting out.

Like some have said above, I have never been a no show but I know the provider doesn’t know that. Just like idk who I can trust with my info. Heck I’ve even followed through on a few visits that I just gave the donation and left and chalked it up to a learning experience.

I think I’ve found my main regular from this board for a little while anyways…So I’m ok for now. Haha

I don’t take deposits , period . If I am dealing with a client that has canceled last minute or wishy washy or a Texter Tom . I know where the block button is . Now if he canceled last minute do to something out of his control . I understand . I will then monitor his behavior to make sure in the future this does not become a continued pattern . I don’t ask for personal information. There is a way to screen with out deposits or personal information. If I am dealing with a client that I can not trust then I don’t ask for a deposit , that does not make the situation any better I still don’t trust his ass . . Every provider has there own way of doing things . No way is right or wrong it’s what the provider feels comfortable with .

Once you have put doubt about whether I can trust you , I’m just Done moving forward . There’s no deposit that will change my mind , same goes with anything situation , no reason to even try