The down side of anticipation
I think it cuts both ways and has absolutely nothing to do with the provider in question. I have had it happen both ways. There have been a couple of providers where I had such a high expectation that the pre-date anticipation was the highlight of the date with the actual date being pretty much blah. Then on the other hand, I've had several date where the pre-date infatuation only served to be the first level of foreplay to a wild sexual encounter. I just had one of those encounters. The fantasy played out so well in real life. It was absolutely fucking amazing.