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I have a question, at what point are rates appropriate to discuss? During the text planning at the beginning or at the location? I have had providers go silent on me when I ask rates. I just don't want to get to the room and find out I didn't bring enough or it is just more than I want to spend. Originally Posted by BuckHunter918

I, usually, never contact someone unless I know their compensation (posted by them, not what someone paid). If not, I move on. On occasions, there have been companions whose reviews have intrigued me enough to ask the following: After my pre-screening info, I add the following: Based on info I have, I would prefer to spend an hour in your company. If you feel the same, please let me know your preferred compensation for the time.

Most respond back, some have not - I have never followed up (could be they missed my message or my pre-screening info wasn't interesting enough. Whatever it is, I make sure I never contact them again).
If it is within my means, I let them know my availability (if our schedules align, we meet and I have not been disappointed). If not, I politely thank them for their response and move on.
From what I have gathered, as long as the question is respectfully asked, most will respond (there are always exceptions).

Agreed. The only other aspect more important is determining that you are in the same location, so having a meeting is geographically feasible.

Personally, I don’t even wait for the client to ask. I have a detailed response in my notepad that I copy and paste that includes my rates for all the different lenths of dates that I offer, spa features unique to my incall, a link to my reviews, etc. And my general location, so they can plan drive time. I also include exactly what I require for screening. I believe in being direct and to the point, and if we are not a match, that is fine. It saves us both time.

There are many naïve people, usually new to the hobby, who believe that discussing rates will make the difference between being arrested and not being arrested… However, that is a fallacy. Disclaimers and lack of discussions do not protect you. That is what screening is for. Whether or not you discuss rates, activities etc… if you meet up with law-enforcement you will be arrested, regardless. Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

Yes ginger for sure I need to know how far away you are from me to make sure it'll even work out! Then after that extra screening process! I'm always extra safe! My life matters

I love MOST of my playtimes...but there have been a few things that guys have done that have teed me off a tad....

like spitting on my kitty....ughhh!
Like being TOOOO quiet...cmon let me know ya enjoy it!

You could slap me with them. My safe word is “Harder”” Originally Posted by AJPrufrock

lol

Yes ginger for sure I need to know how far away you are from me to make sure it'll even work out! Then after that extra screening process! I'm always extra safe! My life matters Originally Posted by Rosepetals

Agreed. Safety first, always.

I agree with everything said above. All good points!

One comment re:
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Last-minute canceling or no showing. To the guys this is just a form of entertainment, a hobby. But to most of the ladies this is our livelihood. Last-minute cancellations or simply not showing up costs us income. More than likely, we could have scheduled another client for the time that we dedicated to meeting you.
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I agree that it’s damn inconsiderate for a hobbyist to do the above, and I think this is probably (hopefully) “preaching to the choir” to Eccie hobbyists, who I assume are above average but not always so.

The reverse of your comment is also true, though. When a provider is the offender, it costs those of us who aren’t retired yet...sometimes it costs us a lot. We take off work, and spend sometimes several days arranging schedules to make it work. We have the same opportunity costs that you do, so I would argue that both sides are equally invested and subject to equal losses when an appointment doesn’t happen at the last minute.

Except for the retired guys...when I finally reach that status, my sense of humor about NCNS might develop a little better, LOL! Kudos to the retired guys on here who managed to squirrel away enough nuts to keep playing this expensive game post career! “Virtual fist bump of respect!

I dislike gents trying to use 3 yr old reviews as references.

To be honest I really don't have any complaints . If I feel the conversation is starting off on the wrong foot , I am huge fan of direct communication . In a nice way . Some clients are not aware of their behavior till you tell them , for instance , please respect my time , I will message back when I am not in a meeting . I have found that men are very easy going if you just communicate with them . Once I communicate with a client of what my expectations are and they explain there's it almost always works out .

My provider handle hates fucktards not supplying ALL screening information in one email.

My provider handle hates fucktards not supplying ALL screening information in one email. Originally Posted by pyramider

That’s great.

“Client” inquiries who clearly want a girlfriend, not a hooker.

Had one text me tonight. He wanted me to come over and meet the fam. Then he sent me pictures of his blowup dolls.

This day needs to be over. I’m jumping in the hot tub with a glass of wine. Full moon?!

... Had one text me tonight. He wanted me to come over and meet the fam. Then he sent me pictures of his blowup dolls ...
Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

Hope you suggested he bring a blowup doll to meet the fam.

Or was it also a blowup fam?

Note to self
Ginger is a party pooper. Will only do doubles/triples with real life girls

Hope you suggested he bring a blowup doll to meet the fam.

Or was it also a blowup fam? Originally Posted by SlowHand50

I was afraid to find out...

I was sensing a lotion in the basket type of situation. Hard pass! Lol