My ex the escort... Who knew? Not me..

The only issue I really have is now I'll never know if she was doing it while we were together or not. It makes me question the trust I thought we had during all that time together.
Thanks for all the input so far though.

The only problem I see in being married to a provider is think about this,
A mechanic has a bad running car, a plumbing always has leaking faucets, a lawn guys lawn looks like crap, and a pool guy either don't have a pool or it don't work right.

With that being said if you wife was a provider when it was your turn to get a BJ, greek or pussy it's not going to happen or if it does it won't be good, or she will say hurry up.
It's bad already with most wife's I think a provider would be the same only you know she's fucking everybody but you.

I have known two providers who eventually married clients and left the business. Both are still married. One has been married about 5 years and the other 8 years.

I am not sure I would do it, but it can work.

The only issue I really have is now I'll never know if she was doing it while we were together or not. It makes me question the trust I thought we had during all that time together.
Thanks for all the input so far though. Originally Posted by funseeker

If you are not together now....let that thought go. It doesn't matter. You will only make yourself go crazy thinking about it.

Spikebaby

only if it was Tara Evans... she would never be able to go work.. i would have her chained to the bed all day...

Um I dont think it matters now since you two are done but its your feelings and I cant tel you how to coupe with this but I would just let it go and bury the fact lol your here without her lol hope that helps

Awe man you mean to tell me none of you guys would marry a ex-provider? or god forbid a current provider? Come on guys you all arent making me feel very secure here that one day i'll find a husband lol....

I know there has got to be some men out there who thinks a provider can still one day make a great wife!

Ever heard the addage: "You can take the girl out of the parlor, but you can't take the parlor out of the girl. A possible way to make it work is for both move far away from where they currently reside.

I am married to a provider. She takes all my money and then NCNS on me every night

I feel your pain Funseeker.
My ex was a Provider as well (in retrospect), only difference was she did not get paid

At some point the past is the past no matter what happened. Time to focus ahead.

That is so damn close to the truth and too fucking funny, OldButStillGoing

Wildcat

That has never happen to me before.

Awe man you mean to tell me none of you guys would marry a ex-provider? or god forbid a current provider? Come on guys you all arent making me feel very secure here that one day i'll find a husband lol....

I know there has got to be some men out there who thinks a provider can still one day make a great wife! Originally Posted by Mya Michelle

Mya, hang in there! Your future SO will appear when you do not expect it! You ladies look past the many flaws on us guys, we can at least look past a few skelatons hiding in the closets!

Funseeker.....(assuming she is on ECCIE or any other site like this) check out her reviews and see if there are any reviews during the time frame you were with her. Also....check out her join date and see when she set up her account.

Just a thought...

Awe man you mean to tell me none of you guys would marry a ex-provider? or god forbid a current provider? Come on guys you all arent making me feel very secure here that one day i'll find a husband lol....

I know there has got to be some men out there who thinks a provider can still one day make a great wife! Originally Posted by Mya Michelle

Relationships are about the people, not what they did. My gf and I are swingers and very secure w each other. I dont see providers right now, have in the past. But I still like reading the posts I like the atmosphere around openminded people....even though it appears some here are not too open minded

It would not bother me at all to find out my SO was a provider. My current gf stripped for 6 years and made a lot of money doing it....not the same thing, but similiar. Does it bother me? Hell no....we love going to strip clubs....then we go home and I get awesome table dances !!