How do guys get busted?

Long time member just asked to have his account deleted because he was busted by his SO. Originally Posted by Heywood
any idea about how the ex-member got busted
whatda he do?
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any idea about how the ex-member got busted
whatda he do? Originally Posted by timmystool
No idea. He posted in Questions to the Staff. Simply said `Busted by the SO. Please delete my account`.
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http://www.pcmag.com/article2/0,2817,2403388,00.asp Originally Posted by GemmaFox
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I like the idea of searching for "how to catch a cheater"... I hadn't thought of that. Just make sure you use an incognito browser.

Google voice or disposable phones should be a given. If you're smart, you have at least one bank account separate from your SO anyway. Having a reasonable excuse to be away from your SO for a period of time is key. You can't just start making up questionable excuses. Luckily, I have a pretty flexible work schedule, so i never need an excuse to be "out of the house." Originally Posted by BobsAlias
THe TOR network with firefox is always a great way for gents to go. Use duckduckgo as your search engine and it will allow for greater anonimity..
Don't put the motel bill on the credit card.....
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Don't put the motel bill on the credit card..... Originally Posted by i'va biggen
For local....

And while on business trips, don't put two meal room service deliveries on the hotel bill or a cc.

And, for those that have SO's that sometimes like to join the business trip, get your schedules straight. Also, consider not having dinner with a gal Scrabble player at the same hotel's restaurant.
Cause; Hotel parking attendents will not stop your SO from breaking all the glass on "her" car (but they will make sure the cameras are working).

Just a few true stories from an excellent entertainment venue known as: Hotel
Seriously though, most of the stories are civie affairs.
Don't put the motel bill on the credit card..... Originally Posted by i'va biggen
exactly, I'm sure guys get caught cause they do something dumb