How to dump an ATF?

Easier and quicker: Loan her money or prepay for a few sessions. Problem solved.

there was a provider on here who got upset at me for seeing other providers when she was too busy to see me. i told her i was here for variety and she said to not call her again? I was very confused. guess i should have told her what i really felt. if she wanted to keep me to her self she needed to be paying me to see her or giving it up for free. I kinda thought that this whole hobby thing was to avoid situations like this? I guess i am confused?

First make sure you never want to go back because hell hath no fury like a woman scorn. Then make HER dump you.

Pick a trivial little thing then blow it out of proportion to a full blown fight. You'll go from her bestest, favorite friend-o-client to "That jerk who couldn't pay me enough to fuck him". Gurantee they'll never contact you again.

First make sure you never want to go back because hell hath no fury like a woman scorn. Then make HER dump you.

Pick a trivial little thing then blow it out of proportion to a full blown fight. You'll go from her bestest, favorite friend-o-client to "That jerk who couldn't pay me enough to fuck him". Gurantee they'll never contact you again. Originally Posted by Hercules

Dude, that is entirely too much to go through to stop paying someone for a service. Even this one.

Don't see the same girl more than once or twice. Anything more than that constitutes some kind of relationship, be it professional or personal. If you have any kind of relationship for any length of time, there will eventually be some bumps in the road. The road to less drama is to be a hit-and-run hobbyist. I know that sounds extremely self-centered and shallow, but isn't that what the hobby is all about?

Tell her you love her and don't think you should have to pay her any longer....that should do the trick.


Oh, you didn't say PERMANENTLY... Originally Posted by Reese Foster

haha... I'm sorry Reese, but I couldn't hide my feelings anymore.


I really do love your peanut butter cups.

Tell her you love her and don't think you should have to pay her any longer....that should do the trick.


Oh, you didn't say PERMANENTLY... Originally Posted by Reese Foster

GREAT answer, Reese, lol!
"But, but...I don't want to close the door ALL the way...do I have to?"
(I'm laughing...girl... you and your sense of humor...)


Monte, lay off for a couple of months and then try to see her...should be interesting.

I wouldn't tell her you've found someone who is GFE for less, that will blow up in your face. What I've found is a little sweat-talking will probably get your ATF to come around. Something to the affect of "You know how much I really enjoyed your GFE and would hate to lose you over something like that."

If she doesn't get it, theres are plenty out there who will....

You are not hurting their feelings, you are hurting their cash flow. If you feel bad enough about the situation, you should just send them money.

Tell her you love her and don't think you should have to pay her any longer....that should do the trick.
Originally Posted by Reese Foster

Yup, I can affirm that this method works like a charm. I actually tried this once, long ago when I was naive and young; my intention was not to dump her, but I got dumped anyways.


An alternate option would be to say, "Honey, since I had to join the unemployment line recently, we won't be able to do our regular thing from now on, how about I save you for the really special occasions?"

God forgive just tell the truth? You found another girl you find interesting and you want to spend some time with her for awhile

I agree. Don't say anything; you are not obligated. Every girl experiences a certain client for a few sessions and then answers a request for that same person a couple months later. This is a place where younger, cheaper, and more gfe is always going to happen; Dallas is very competitive. Just move on and have fun!!

In the past, my ATFs would text me and I would most likely see them that night. Originally Posted by Monte Cito

Uhm, should this not be "I" would text "them" ...?????

Easier and quicker: Loan her money or prepay for a few sessions. Problem solved. Originally Posted by J.G. Wentworth

or ask to borrow money


+1 with Reese, the love thing should fix it fast


I would just tell her your taking a break.

More suggestions if you are dumping an ATF.

1. Change your cell. Hopefully you used a hobby phone.

2. Disconnect your home phone, convince the wife that with everyone having cell phones why have one.

3. Arrange for your mail to be sent to a post office box near your office so that in case she goes batshit crazy you can intercept any letters from that psycho before the wife opens them.

4. Send an email to the staff here to guest your handle. Might as well get that out of the way as a first step.

Those are some good first steps just in case your ATF slips a gear. Again.