Taking "private pictures/video"

Hardee har har old man. Originally Posted by thathottnurse

You're calling Prolongus, a 23 y/o man an old man?

I totally agree! I hate this new trend of reviews with pics included. I do not even want pics in the comments of my reviews anymore.

It is indeed sad that some ruin it for everyone but the Internet is becoming a scarier place every day.

I can assure you that you won't stop getting business if you do not let the reviewer "celebrities" review you and post pics. While many find their colorful reviews entertaining a lot of my repeat clients and friends have told me they always take those guys reviews with a grain of salt.

I always ask permission to take a pic for my avatar, but it will never include her face or identifying marks such as ink, etc. And avatar pics are such a low resolution, enlarging them won't reveal much more. And I'm not interested in having pics to include in a review.

Hell, I always worry about her having an open laptop sitting somewhere in the room, so we all have to be cautious about this subject now a days. Too much to loose otherwise.

I totally agree! I hate this new trend of reviews with pics included. I do not even want pics in the comments of my reviews anymore.

It is indeed sad that some ruin it for everyone but the Internet is becoming a scarier place every day.

I can assure you that you won't stop getting business if you do not let the reviewer "celebrities" review you and post pics. While many find their colorful reviews entertaining a lot of my repeat clients and friends have told me they always take those guys reviews with a grain of salt. Originally Posted by Jules Jaguar

+1 Jules , couldnt have said it better myself

From my perspective, for you gals, I wouldn't let any of your visitors take photos (period). It's just good risk management (on your part) to control the internet images of you, your surroundings, etc. Mya makes a good point.

As a photographer, I enjoy taking and sharing images. As a hobbiest I like visual info.

With the ease of search, including face recognition, posting faces and nudes is risky. It is more likely they will be seen by people we know than not.

I have many nudes on my sites, but they are there as art. Here they are more nearly a confession.

Playing or working in the hobby is risky. Protecting one's identity is the best tool available.

Where would one find the time to grab a camera, or cell phone, in session? My time is short, two minutes and done, so I have to be focused on the task at hand.

While I have done one review with pictures (ladies permission), the pictures did not have faces shown. Having said that, I think pictures in reviews are unnecessary and potentially dangerous for the lady down the road. As others have stated, once on the internet, it is very difficult to retrieve them and the damage may already be done.

If the girl choose to show her face via her ad or website that’s her choose. But have a hobbyist ask “Hey can I bring my camera to take a picture for my review” why is that? If you tell them no you don’t allow photos would they not schedule and move to the next? If this whole so called world is suppose to be “Fantasy why would one post a review and pictures that relates to his handle and to the provider which also list her location area. I suggest they put themselves in the picture. How does that sound…

Just to be clear, was it something in a background that clued the creeper to your location? Or just the overall build of where you where?

Sucks ass that happened, THN. :/

I suggest they put themselves in the picture. How does that sound… Originally Posted by BrandyMichelle

Now why in the hell would another hard dick want to see a pic of the man that the provider had a session with? Talk about a boner killer.

If there are any pictures in a review, it better not be a pic of some hairy man ass.

If a lady consents, what is the big deal. THN it sucks the gent fell on stupid. If a guy is willing to go to a review and unblur a face chances are he would go to your website which most dont pass word protect or showcase and do the exact same thing. My best suggestion ladies if you're going to allow pics just make sure it is something you can live with regardless. FTR most of the pics in the reviews i have read have all been what you would normally see in a showcase

So..let me get this straight, pics in showcase/ads on " the internet" on a "escort website" Yes!
Pics in private with someone you might trust a little.. Hell No!
It really doesn't matter, cause with today's technology.. if you have a pic anywhere, Facebook, yearbook, Instagram, etc..someone can make it look like you're in the middle of Times Square..getting butt f**ked by Batman! at lunch on a friday..

"live and learn. then get pampers."
ooops, wrong commercial....


thatHotNurse,
so sorry that the guy posted revealing photos of you.
and sorry that you got upset at the existence of those photos and info deduced from them.
and glad that you are now applying the lessons learned by no longer allowing any more photos during your sessions [which it appears you did in the past].


i'd rather hear this kind of reason for no photos ...

NNNNOOOOOOO!!!! I have never agreed and will never agree to my pictures being taken by clients. No way!!! Too much risk. I like to take risk sometimes but I prefer to do it elsewhere. Originally Posted by oneProvder

than this kind. way too much personal information!

I have been asked for this several times but have always said NO.
...I have personal reasons I don't want my face or body plastered in a review.
1. I have a family SO , kids , parents all of that
2. I have a REAL JOB
3. This is not my career, however it did totally pay for my schooling Originally Posted by anotherProvder

Unless BOTH parties are willing to be public about this business, then whoever has the camera should put it away. Originally Posted by Hercules

If a lady consents, what is the big deal. ... Originally Posted by Thatdude

+infinity - THESE!!!!!!!!!

...Once the photo is snapped, it's out of everyone's control. And don't tell me you keep everything in an encrypted thumbdrive. That's the easiest thing in the world to crack. Originally Posted by lukeskywalker7667

and even if someone says "we can review them and you can delete from my camera those you dont like",
there are computer utilities that will recover the "deleted" photos from the memory card.
i used one such pgm when i pressed "Erase" on all my photos from a special vacation. got all but a few back.


Be discreet and be safe!!!

I like to include pictures in my reviews and here is what I do. I always ask the provider if she wants a review and if I can take pictures. Any pictures I take I will always show the provider and if she likes them then I will include them in the review. If she does not like the photo, I delete the photo in front of her and with her watching me do it. This creates a trust between the provider and myself. I have used photos of a provider from her own showcase or website, but again only after getting her permission to do a review with photos. The decision to show the ladies face is always hers. I respect their wishes and dearly want to have a fantastic session and be welcomed on a return visit with appreciation for having helped a lady rise in the ranks.

Please note, that I have had ladies ask me to give her a review, and they have sent me photos in order to do so.