NC/NS Lindzey Legend broke my cherry

She made contact today and explained what happened (not a good excuse) but I appreciated the honesty. She promised to make things right when we meet, so here is me crossing my fingers that all will be good. Everyone deserves a second chance. Originally Posted by CaptainMastPole

Let us know how it goes, either way.

I rarely haul whores back off the excluded list, but when I do it usually works out well.

Very good How to behave in a situation even though you did not like her answer. hopefully she don't mess up again. Enjoy sweetheart

She made contact today and explained what happened (not a good excuse) but I appreciated the honesty. She promised to make things right when we meet, so here is me crossing my fingers that all will be good. Everyone deserves a second chance. Originally Posted by CaptainMastPole

She made contact today and explained what happened (not a good excuse) but I appreciated the honesty. ... Everyone deserves a second chance. Originally Posted by CaptainMastPole

There really is no good excuse for getting crickets right before a scheduled meet. But somehow cute chicks can get away with it. I wonder why that is? I for one am looking forward as to how this plays out. Be sure to keep us informed.

good luck to you

From my personal experience, you were probably bumped by a last minute regular. Happened to me twice with the same Lady. Fortunately, I was able to find a good back-up both times.

Only she knows for sure why it happened. She offered, not me requesting, to make things right. I have let her know I still would like to meet her. Anything more is up to her.

Hypothetical Question:

If I were to send a p.m. to someone that may have NCNS'd me inquiring about an offer that individual made to make things right all the while stating that I hoped it was a honest mistake and that I did not feel that the individual in question was a flake. Also, if i mentioned that I was going to review said meeting if it occurred and that I hoped it would all be good, does that make me an ASSHOLE?

I do expect someone to follow thru with what they promise.
I do expect the best out of someone that is suppose to be a professional.
I have been on this board for more than a day now and met many a fine lady that I have always treated with compassion and respect.

Just because someone thinks they are well reviewed and have regulars does not mean that they can treat the rest of us like we do not matter.

If this were not a hypothetical situation. I would delete all contact information and walk to fuck away. That is if this was not a hypothetical situation.

Another first for me. My first ASSHOLE moment on ECCIE.

Rant over. I am returning to my happy place, she is patiently waiting for me.

Excellent Point Cap'n!
I commend you, hypothetically speaking. Professionalism should be expected in the RW as well as the hobby. Certainly these lovely ladies who see us for intimate moments must realize that very few people in the workplace make hundreds of dollars per hour.
And with that price there will always be certain expectations.
First of which would be, arriving at an agreed appointment, or if unable to show, as least communicate what came up. Crickets are not an appropriate response.
Secondly, would be professional services. I would like to think a provider would give her best at each and every session, although I realize this is not the case. We are all going to have our off days.

But hypothetically, I wish you the best.

BTW, ranting about being stood up and having expectations from so called professionals does not make you an ASSHOLE. Not in my book.

Hypothetical Question:

If I were to send a p.m. to someone that may have NCNS'd me inquiring about an offer that individual made to make things right all the while stating that I hoped it was a honest mistake and that I did not feel that the individual in question was a flake. Also, if i mentioned that I was going to review said meeting if it occurred and that I hoped it would all be good, does that make me an ASSHOLE?

I do expect someone to follow thru with what they promise.
I do expect the best out of someone that is suppose to be a professional.
I have been on this board for more than a day now and met many a fine lady that I have always treated with compassion and respect.

Just because someone thinks they are well reviewed and have regulars does not mean that they can treat the rest of us like we do not matter.

If this were not a hypothetical situation. I would delete all contact information and walk to fuck away. That is if this was not a hypothetical situation.

Another first for me. My first ASSHOLE moment on ECCIE.

Rant over. I am returning to my happy place, she is patiently waiting for me. Originally Posted by CaptainMastPole

Would I be correct in drawing the inference that the whore who NS/NCed you, the whore to whom you gave the benefit of the doubt, the whore who contacted you apologetically and offered to make amends...is the same whore who has not followed through with her offer?

Does that about sum it up?

What a surprise!

Not really; the surprising thing is for you to even contemplate assholedom for expecting better from an undeserving one...but I congratulate you on continuing to maintain high expectations of the next one down your list. Odds are whoever she is will live up to them. Most do.

Just a funny quote I saw recently.

http://www.eccie.net/member.php?u=290027

Well it was bound to happen to me eventually. I made a good run of it picking reliable (not always good) providers.

I set up VIA P411. She contacted me via pm's and them by text. We talked on the phone and covered the details the day prior to the meeting. She told me when i get in my room to send her the hotel info and room number.

I got into Houston and sent her a text with my Hotel info and room number (i had already told her what hotel i would be staying at, but still sent it anyways).

Crickets. Followed by more Crickets. 1 hour prior I send another text asking her if she got the information and if she was coming. 40 minutes prior I attempt to call, straight to voice mail. 20 min. till I send another text, with no response. 15 minutes till, i attempt another call, straight to voice mail.

15 minutes post meeting time i send another text........nothing.

So that is my legend of Lindzey. Originally Posted by CaptainMastPole

Shouldn't have continued to act like an idiot and call and text her.

Shouldn't have continued to act like an idiot and call and text her. Originally Posted by Asianhobbyist

I was wondering when someone with less reviews and less time on the board would make a comment. Thank you kind sir for not making me wait so long. Your observation is noted and filed in the appropriate waste basket. Have a great day!

I was wondering when someone with less reviews and less time on the board would make a comment. Thank you kind sir for not making me wait so long. Your observation is noted and filed in the appropriate waste basket. Have a great day! Originally Posted by CaptainMastPole

Yes, and I can see that your more voluminous reviews and more time spent here have done you a lot of good. You are welcome, by the way and hope you get wiser.

Shouldn't have continued to act like an idiot and call and text her. Originally Posted by Asianhobbyist

Yes, and I can see that your more voluminous reviews and more time spent here have done you a lot of good. You are welcome, by the way and hope you get cynical, just like me. Originally Posted by Asianhobbyist

Your comments could be taken as lameass white-knightery taking up for his poor abused little whore..

or

As cynicism from a mutt with a wealth of horrible experiences because he don't know how to behave.

My guess: cynicism. Which is it?

Your comments could be taken as lameass white-knightery taking up for his poor abused little whore..

or

As cynicism from a mutt with a wealth of horrible experiences because he don't know how to behave.

My guess: cynicism. Which is it? Originally Posted by Don T. Lukbak

I respect you don. It's cynicism from your choices, but i would contend that's not really the term I would use. I would simply call it experience. It's just an understanding of human nature from various life and work encounters. When someone doesn't want to keep his/her appt with you, of course they are not going to respond even if you burst your lungs yelling. At some point a wise man would fold his cards and walk away. I am simply contending here that the op was way over this line and should have stopped behaving like a lost puppy long ago. No malicious intent here, just that I find a straight-up, no BS assessment is much healthier here.